Challenging Leo on women

[Alexop]

I stopped theorising about attraction. Waste of time. Go out, laugh, joke, Inspire, lead, be powerful in a healthy way, and that's it. Find friends who mastered this and emulate them. 

Those who fail at it care too much. And women smell that weakness, that loneliness, that desperation. Attraction theory is more like learning how to be a normal man, who goes out and can socialize. Lol

Edited 9 hours ago by Alexop

[Emerald]

9 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

Make sure that that’s not only you.

From my experience, women love to go after higher level guys than they are, in general.

It's definitely a common pattern for women to be uninterested in getting a guy who's more physically attractive than her.

That said, there are women who might go seeking for a guy who's more physically attractive than themselves if they have a meaning associated with it like, "Because this hot guy likes me, that means something good about me."

That's just not something I can relate to. And I suspect that most women tend to relate to men's looks in a similar way to the way I do.

Women generally look for their looks-match (and women are naturally prettier than their male looks-match). So, that enables her to be the peacock in the relationship. And this creates the Masculine/Feminine polarity I was speaking of.