chasing

[Olaf]

woman want to chase. As much as you can show interest and show your desire, ultimately what she wants is not to have someone that is interested in her, she wants someone that she is interested in, which is the person that she can't get. For example, experiment with giving a girl a compliment and walking away, you will see how girls will fucking love you for it. Like that is exactly what they want. The guy that they can't get, that walks away, that is about to leave, not only woman, men do this too even lol.

I even heard the rapper Blueface say something one time, he said, with girls you can never let them have you, as soon as you fall in love that is where it goes wrong. Now that is kinda extreme but from a pua perspective that makes sense, because the easiest way to turn a woman off is displaying too much interest. It is never hot and hotter hahaha it is hot and cold, disqualifying yourself, asking qualifying questions, qualifying her, all of this is just the same thing, it is basically never showing that you are fully interested, never showing your interest fully and making her sell herself and you being the "buyer".

You can say that is fucked up, I just want to be myself, I don't want them to chase me, but if you don't do this there are only 2 scenario's. Number 1 you will be seen as a platonic or gay friend. Number 2 you will be seen as "soooo sweet, sooo niceee!!" as they would say, but in reality they see you as a low-value beta male (aka you are more interested in her than she is in you). And will only keep you around for validation, entertainment, or money (aka use you instead of being attracted).

So if that is what you want, you can go and forget about making her chase you, but ultimately there is no escaping the mechanisms of nature, if you like it or not, there is no escaping the reality, even when you look back at an organic relationship, you will always realise that it was you being in abundance. For example my first relationship back in high school I saw that girl first as a friend and I was flirting with another girl who also was intrested in me. That is exactly the same PUA mechanism, but then organically, with social proof and me not being super interested in her. 

[Ulax]

Agreed.