my private students' dad is love bombing me and encouraging tax fraud

[Judy2]

i need to get this off my chest and hope it won't be used against me by anyone.

i have been teaching three sisters French for a couple of weeks, since they switched schools and need to keep up with their peers. i have an undergrad degree in English with French as a secondary subject.

the girls' dad pays me cash after the French lessons and is sending me heart emojis all the time. (that combo makes me feel like a prostitute.) more hearts and kisses than i have ever received from any lover. he praises me a lot, touched my back twice when showing me out, but other than that, he hasn't acted inappropriate.

he insists on paying for lessons that we had to cancel, and i am hesitant to accept that because usually, no one has ever offered to do that, let alone this amount. he also pays more than any other parents have ever paid me before for tutoring their children.

i feel a bit overwhelmed and don't know how to communicate with him. my goal was to hand in a document for my tax report in September (since i also have other students and would like to advertise my private tutoring services more officially), but his response was "don't be like that" and i felt too shy to be more persistent.

what do i do? do i just start writing official invoices and present them to him via email, and he'll have to accept that?

he's so fond of me for some reason and voluntarily upped the amount he pays me a couple weeks in, so if he thinks i'm so important, he should handle the fact that i want to do this the right way?

i think it's just so strange he voluntarily sends me more money all the time. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Judy2

[Judy2]

he is now asking me to send him photos from my holidays.

Edited 3 hours ago by Judy2

[LordFall]

Enforce your boundaries. A lot of women struggle with one telling themselves that their boundaries are valid and two enforce them once they decide on them. Predatory men take advantage of that all the time.

Most men don't know how to meet women so they will hit on every single woman they meet in whatever context and be inappropriate and lack social calibration. You're not crazy this is weird af.

Unless you're into him but doesn't sound like it so sounds like a boundaries needed type of issue or time to find another job. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall