Does body count matter for you?

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Why not? This is demonstrably false in many ways.

Why do you care if people blast you? It should make your vision and thoughts way more powerful. Echo chambers are very dangerous to one's philosophy and overall epistemology. I'll repost this image as I think it illustrates the concept so beautifully.Being antifragile is one of the most powerful self-development concepts I've ever encountered.

Steel is extremely solid, it can bend and resist all kind of torsion. It is one of humanity's greatest invention. Muscle is antifragile, if you tear it it grows back stronger. Same with breaking bones. Organic beings are unique in this property, actual dead matter doesn't seem to have this quality. 

 

You don't get both.  The mindset is different.

[Xonas Pitfall]

18 minutes ago, AION said:

Spirituality is not about tucking your dick between your legs. Ken Wilber doesn’t tell me to castrate myself. Perhaps your teaching does that. I don’t subscribe to spiritual bypassing. I have fully integrated stage red and other lower stages and I’m not ashamed for it. Currently I’m tier 2 and pushing towards tier 3. 

No one said it is. As I said above, you can absolutely have relationships, have sex, and even practice polyamory from a conscious angle while still approaching it from a more grounded and honest place.

If you just want to fuck and have fun, sure. But please stop claiming that you're Tier 2, that you understand the truth of love, how women are, what women/men are, or that you're somehow acting honestly at all here.

A lot of your rhetoric sounds very similar to old-school PUA/red-pill manipulation tactics: seeking out younger, less experienced women because they're easier to influence, hooking them, playing with their emotions, and failing to respect their sovereignty. Hoping to hook them into polyamory, keeping things deliberately loose so they can become attached while you avoid taking any real responsibility, and essentially being enslaved to other men's opinions, letting their judgments determine who you should be seen with and what kind of woman is "valuable."

Again, as I said above, do whatever you want. I'm not attacking that. But please stop with these unbelievably harsh judgments of women and other men and their relationships. You don't actually care about truth here. You care about having fun and fucking around. That's it. You care about looking good socially with a hot girl, and you care about having your ego validated. Those things are all fine.

But when you come on here and start posting things about how women are all emotional children, emotionally damaged or "baggaged," irrational, immature, manipulative, attention-seeking, incapable of handling relationships responsibly, or somehow less valuable because of their age, experience, or body count, how they're unintelligent, selfish, or retarded, or how you specifically prefer them young, malleable, and easier to control, that's where I have an issue. And that's where I think a lot of the other members you've had "beef" with have an issue too.

Edited 7 minutes ago by Xonas Pitfall

[something_else]

13 minutes ago, AION said:

Who told you life is fair? Look around. 

It isn’t fair. That doesn’t change the fact that you are a hypocrite.

[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

You don't get both.  The mindset is different.

Simply not true my man.

You can be in a ethically non monogamous type of polyamorous relationship one main pivot and still fuck other women on the side with or without your main girl. You can do so in way where your main girl doesn't see other men or have it to where she does, depends on what she wants.

It's absolutely possible to have deep emotional connection and safety and have sexual abundance. This is a false dichotomy. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

I think it would be distressing internally operating with the level of cognitive dissonance in OP thinking 🙁

[Xonas Pitfall]

Just now, something_else said:

Who told you life is fair? Look around. 

Hitler could also say, "Who told you life is fair? Look around." That doesn't mean his statements, ideology, or approach were fundamentally correct.

People are calling out what they see as hypocrisy, contradictions, and untruthful claims.

Validate your ego and have as much fun as you want. But when you've made this many strong, judgmental, and definitive statements across the forum, people are naturally going to point out the flaws, contradictions, and selfishness in what you're saying.