Relationship Based on Truth, Honesty & Vulnerability

[Miguel1]

@Natasha Tori Maru I will respond to you later more in-depth but as I said myself in the opener, I am still unsure about his work.

Precisely because of the reason you said. He comes across very strong, which can easily lead to frame controlling. Which he is very much aware of, as he came from the PUA community.

And one of the main reasons I made this thread is so you guys can show me the blindspots I might have. I am always careful that I fall into someone’s frame and it blinds me. Especially to people with such strong character.

At the same time, it might be for marketing purposes and / or just a deep passion for the topic. See Leo in the past.

Here the guest challenges him more.

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Miguel1

[AION]

12 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

@Rishabh R @AION

Of course his work is about developing real strenght, which comes from diving deep into yourself, your fears, your shadows, and your weaknesses.

Where did you even get the idea that this is not the case?

Because vulnerability/weakness is not always good. This part is never stated which is important to state. Whatever you do it depends where it comes from. If it comes from power it is good. But some champion vulnerabiltiy as the end all be all of relationships. So that is probably why you are failing with dating.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

@Natasha Tori Maru I will respond to you later more in-depth but as I said myself in the opener, I am still unsure about his work.

Precisely because of the reason you said. He comes across very strong, which can easily lead to frame controlling. Which he is very much aware of, as he came from the PUA community.

And one of the main reasons I made this thread is so you guys can show me the blindspots I might have. I am always careful that I fall into someone’s frame and it blinds me. Especially to people with such strong character.

At the same time, it might be for marketing purposes and / or just a deep passion for the topic. See Leo in the past.

Here the guest challenges him more.

 

Appreciate the share and appreciate you! 

I haven't drawn any conclusions yet. But I'll spend some time listening on my lunchbreak tomorrow. I don't know much about frame control. No idea if I would be vulnerable to that. Although at a guess I would say there is a significant chance 😁 

I'm faily confident with my intuition in general.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

What is so terrifying about being vulnerable and it not being received well? 

Does it have to do with the person expressing vulnerability? Or does it have more to do with the other who rejects? Or timing?

[Valach]

3 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

What is so terrifying about being vulnerable and it not being received well? 

Does it have to do with the person expressing vulnerability? Or does it have more to do with the other who rejects? Or timing?

Because for the first time in your life you would be getting rejected for who you truly are and not for some persona.

[Davino]

I've been living in a relationship based on those principles for 7+ years and it has been one of the hardest and most beautiful things in my life.