I'm done pursuing women

[Meeksauce]

I'm just so sick of this bullshit. I know for a fact I'm not doing anything wrong. My crush was giving me all the signs from far away, smiling, eye contact, raising eyebrows etc. And all of the times I have tried to actually talk to her in person she just gives a one word answer and walks away immediately. I don't hate women, I love them, but when you face so many rejections without any success it turns you spiteful and bitter. It's like women don't feel attraction to men anymore and are asexual. Any attempt at flirting is harassment. There's just no point trying anymore. People say so many things on the Internet about dating advice, but literally none of it works. When I find a girl attractive now I just don't even bother thinking about approaching because I already know how it's gonna go. I'm just so tired of feeling invisible, and constantly told I am not good enough. I just can't have my feelings obliterated like this over and over and over again. I'm so fucking done.

[Ulax]

Sounds rough bro.

What is your process with the ladies atm?

The internet often teaches retarded advice on picking up girls

Edited 8 hours ago by Ulax

[Raze]

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Edited 8 hours ago by Raze

[Leo Gura]

Bro, having a crush is already wrong.

Learn proper game please. You ain't above it.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

It's tough - women are socialised to be agreeable, care and prioritise group harmony. They are also held accountable when they DON'T put their foot down.

Sometimes this conditioning runs right up against candid communication. It's something many women need to learn, but they often, when initially handling truth, overcompensate and verge on nastiness and hostility while transmitting their message. 

It is a function of maturity - usually. 

There are good women out there. 

Take 5 and focus on your life purpose for a bit ❤️

[aurum]

41 minutes ago, Meeksauce said:

It's like women don't feel attraction to men anymore and are asexual. Any attempt at flirting is harassment. There's just no point trying anymore. People say so many things on the Internet about dating advice, but literally none of it works

This is just completely false.

I get that you're in a bad spot right now, but this ain't the answer.

[Meeksauce]

23 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Bro, having a crush is already wrong.

Learn proper game please. You ain't above it.

I get that you shouldn't put women on a pedestal but am I just supposed to ignore how I feel when I'm around a beautiful woman I really like for months on end? Also, I've been learning game but it can feel pretty redundant in situations like these where the girl just leaves after 5 seconds anyways.

[Meeksauce]

26 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

It's tough - women are socialised to be agreeable, care and prioritise group harmony. They are also held accountable when they DON'T put their foot down.

Sometimes this conditioning runs right up against candid communication. It's something many women need to learn, but they often, when initially handling truth, overcompensate and verge on nastiness and hostility while transmitting their message. 

It is a function of maturity - usually. 

There are good women out there. 

Take 5 and focus on your life purpose for a bit ❤️

You can be attractive, do everything right and still get rejected. Life's a bitch.

[Meeksauce]

17 minutes ago, aurum said:

This is just completely false.

I get that you're in a bad spot right now, but this ain't the answer.

I wasn't necessarily positing that as an absolute but more like a rising trend I've noticed. The internet and social media definitely have something to do with it.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 minutes ago, Meeksauce said:

You can be attractive, do everything right and still get rejected. Life's a bitch.

If you think life is a vending machine where you put good in and good comes out - you will be sorely disappointed. 

You have to be anti-fragile. When the wind comes, don't let it blow you around so you fall over. The winds of chaos and RNG have to feed you like a fire.

We all face this shit. Giving up isn't the answer. I do recognize a lot of black/white and absolutist thinking in your posts. It is important not to draw huge conclusions from single events. Trust that you will bounce back.

[aurum]

13 minutes ago, Meeksauce said:

I wasn't necessarily positing that as an absolute but more like a rising trend I've noticed. The internet and social media definitely have something to do with it.

Bro, social media is not stopping women from getting horny.

Attraction is way too serious and deeply rooted in survival for that to happen.

If some reasonable percentage of women are not finding you attractive, you are doing something wrong. Period.

[Miguel1]

Game 100% works. You need to learn it properly.

[Meeksauce]

1 hour ago, aurum said:

Bro, social media is not stopping women from getting horny.

Attraction is way too serious and deeply rooted in survival for that to happen.

If some reasonable percentage of women are not finding you attractive, you are doing something wrong. Period.

I'm not doing anything wrong but ok, keep drinking the kool aid

[Hojo]

@Meeksauce You are doing something completely wrong. You are getting a crush and making energy. That energy has to somewhere and its coming out in your crash outs.

The anger is your excitement for the crush.

Edited 5 hours ago by Hojo

[Meeksauce]

14 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Meeksauce You are doing something completely wrong. You are getting a crush and making energy. That energy has to somewhere and its coming out in your crash outs.

The anger is your excitement for the crush.

I wouldn't go as far as calling it the same thing, more like the degree of disappointment is a consequence of the degree to which I got my hopes up. Yes they are related. But it's unfair to say "you shouldn't feel anything for this person" while they are reciprocating signals.

[Hojo]

@Meeksauce Next time get really un excited and see how duality works.

You turning her off with her excitement.

Get unexcited and see who gets excited.

Edited 5 hours ago by Hojo

[Hojo]

@Meeksauce Yes you are getting your hopes up and its coming back down. You are getting your hopes up therefore they have to come back down. Are you going to hold them there forever? You are just having the feeling of them coming back down, you put them up there you bring them back down. You bring them back down when the woman reject you. Its not the 'same' action but its the opposite reaction that needs to happen like if you throw an apple in the air it must come down. If you are upset that your hopes are down why not bring them back up or why put them down after the rejection?

 

You just mad you giving other people control over your emotions and they arent orchestrating them how you want them too. Just stop giving other people your emotions.

Edited 5 hours ago by Hojo

[Meeksauce]

8 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Meeksauce Next time get really un excited and see how duality works.

You turning her off with her excitement.

Get unexcited and see who gets excited.

If not being myself is required to play the game then I don't wanna play.

[Hojo]

@Meeksauce When you play monopoly do you rage quit when you cant physically sit on the board?

[Meeksauce]

5 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Meeksauce When you play monopoly do you rage quit when you cant physically sit on the board?

Yes. Monopoly is a bad game