How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Emerald]

19 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

Yeah..if you have both - it's  a lock! 😀

You mainly need the one that has to do with emotions and intimacy... as that's where all the most positive feelings come from.

The other is just a nice-to-have.

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Emerald said:

You mainly need the one that has to do with emotions and intimacy... as that's where all the most positive feelings come from.

The other is just a nice-to-have.

Well, you guys say that..and maybe for you it's true..but you are a special individual.  I have been to your channel.  Most women say that but they need that physical when it comes down to it first, then the emotional connection second. At least in the beginning.  Afterwards yes.  That's why the dating apps are so shallow. 

[Emerald]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well, you guys say that..and maybe for you it's true..but you are a special individual.  I have been to your channel.  Most women say that but they need that physical when it comes down to it first, then the emotional connection second. At least in the beginning.  Afterwards yes.  That's why the dating apps are so shallow. 

That's a misunderstanding of what women generally find most interesting about sex.

Don't get me wrong... most women want equal orgasms. But that's not the driving factor for the connection or the main thing that motivates sexual desire.

My concern is that you over-index on the physical elements of sex and under-index on the emotional elements of sex, because you believe that women are motivated towards sex and connection in the same exact ways that a man is.

And that physicality-focus and orgasm-focus (to the exclusion of emotion-focus) can make sex something enjoyable for the man... but less fulfilling for the woman.

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Emerald said:

That's a misunderstanding of what women generally find most interesting about sex.

Don't get me wrong... most women want equal orgasms. But that's not the driving factor for the connection or the main thing that motivates sexual desire.

My concern is that you over-index on the physical elements of sex and under-index on the emotional elements of sex, because you believe that women are motivated towards sex and connection in the same exact ways that a man is.

And that physicality-focus and orgasm-focus (to the exclusion of emotion-focus) can make sex something enjoyable for the man... but less fulfilling for the woman.

That's not what I have found.   What I have found is that women fall in love if you have the touch, and the words.   And just to let you know, actually guys don't establish the connection via sex.  Man is made to have sex with multiple women.  It takes something else for us to fall in love.  Maybe its a combination of physical and emotional, but its not the sex or the orgasm.  From what I have found, and again I have slept with over 100 women and had relationships with many, that you have it opposite

 

[JoshB]

3 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

Stacy has told me that I'm the only one who can hit her spot.  The only one.  I'm not making this up.  Its the only reason she put up with my shenanigans for so long.  Now granted..she was married, but that's another matter.  So like I said it wasn't all me.

 

Crazy bro , our boys a home wrecker lol

Edited 11 hours ago by JoshB

[Inliytened1]

5 minutes ago, JoshB said:

 

Crazy bro , our boys a home wrecker lol

Haha never been a homewrecker myself.

[Inliytened1]

@JoshB Stacy is the mom in my dream haha. But good one.

[Inliytened1]

You guys are too young for this movie but watch Fast Times at Ridgemont High.  This scene will live in infamy forever 

 

Edited 5 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

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