How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Inliytened1]

I have some thoughts but I want to hear yours. 

Girls too.

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[Inliytened1]

@Natasha Tori Maru yeah I mean you. How is it done?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

I wish I had a magic formula! But like with men, all people are different. All women are different.

For me? 

1) show me your mind, and illustrate what sort of life and future you want. Show me where I can be in that future. A sum greater than it's parts we can tap into with more power than any single one of us could ever grasp... And then water that seed gradually over time until the thought is a giant weed I can't uproot from my mind.

2) listen, connect. so I can not only feel you intellectually, but emotionally. Feelings are how we make value judgements and therefore, decisions

3) touch me, soothe me, hold me, love me 

4) make sex not about penetration or touch, fuck your woman with your mind and emotions - in a good way! 😁

Building tension with desire is it. Don't be afraid of healthy distance with reassurance connection remains.

I can't think of anymore and I don't think this answered you with a lot of precision! Because right as I sat posting this on my rooftop, I had a visit from 3 beauties:

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[Inliytened1]

13 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I wish I had a magic formula! But like with men, all people are different. All women are different.

For me? 

1) show me your mind, and illustrate what sort of life and future you want. Show me where I can be in that future. A sum greater than it's parts we can tap into with more power than any single one of us could ever grasp... And then water that seed gradually over time until the thought is a giant weed I can't uproot from my mind.

2) listen, connect. so I can not only feel you intellectually, but emotionally. Feelings are how we make value judgements and therefore, decisions

3) touch me, soothe me, hold me, love me 

4) make sex not about penetration or touch, fuck your woman with your mind and emotions - in a good way! 😁

Building tension with desire is it. Don't be afraid of healthy distance with reassurance connection remains.

I can't think of anymore and I don't think this answered you with a lot of precision! Because right as I sat posting this on my rooftop, I had a visit from 3 beauties:

Well wow you actually answered that with gorgeous precision. Thank you. Yes that's what I try to do. I try to connect on an emotional level.  I think you have to have the chemistry there first and then it all clicks. Love the roosters.

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[Leo Gura]

This seems wrong.

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

This seems wrong.

Well if we aren't beating around the bush..all of what she said is true.  But you still have to stick it to her so she creams  Otherwise..its just words.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

You can disagree and it could also be correct - which is why I added all people are different.

This is just how I work with being hooked into obsessive thoughts. The idea of the kind of life you could have by being with a man is the seed. What you can co-create. It's a fantasy about the future. It isn't about the future being set in stone and laid out perfectly on a timeline, it's about potential

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[Leo Gura]

I would never try to manipulate a woman into that.

She should love your organically anyway just for being you.

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

I would never try to manipulate a woman into that.

She should love your organically anyway just for being you.

You don't have to. You either have it or you don't.  And making her cum proper is organic.  What else would be.  

[Miguel1]

Damn, the adults are talking.

Let me sit back, listen and learn.

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Damn, the adults are talking.

Let me sit back, listen and learn.

Too many women.  You don't want that trust me.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

For whatever reason, and maybe I am delulu - I don't view fantasy so negatively. Not like I did when younger. 

I think after having my heart slaughtered 4/5 times in various deep, long term relationships I learned to trust I will recover from heartbreak. So I'm willing to risk all because I know I'll always be okay after, even though the pain and suffering can be nigh unbearable. 

Romantic fantasy is okay because I trust myself with it now. My relationship to it changed compared to when I was more innocent.

[Inliytened1]

11 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

For whatever reason, and maybe I am delulu - I don't view fantasy so negatively. Not like I did when younger. 

I think after having my heart slaughtered 4/5 times in various deep, long term relationships I learned to trust I will recover from heartbreak. So I'm willing to risk all because I know I'll always be okay after, even though the pain and suffering can be nigh unbearable. 

Romantic fantasy is okay because I trust myself with it now. My relationship to it changed compared to when I was more innocent.

Too bad you are are so far away mate! Otherwise who knows.  Maybe I would be helping you out with those roosters. 

[aurum]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

1) show me your mind, and illustrate what sort of life and future you want. Show me where I can be in that future. A sum greater than it's parts we can tap into with more power than any single one of us could ever grasp... And then water that seed gradually over time until the thought is a giant weed I can't uproot from my mind.

2) listen, connect. so I can not only feel you intellectually, but emotionally. Feelings are how we make value judgements and therefore, decisions

3) touch me, soothe me, hold me, love me 

4) make sex not about penetration or touch, fuck your woman with your mind and emotions - in a good way! 😁

Building tension with desire is it. Don't be afraid of healthy distance with reassurance connection remains.

This is good advice.

Fits in well with my own experience.

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, aurum said:

This is good advice.

Fits in well with my own experience.

I like the fuck your woman part.  Sexy as fuck. 

[Ulax]

A strong man-to-woman narrative her winning you over.

Compare these two narratives. Imagine her telling her friends about it. Which one is more appealing to her.

1. He wanted to fuck me and I let him. (Average playerish dude narrative)

2. He was intrigued but wasn't sure about me at first. Then I won him over, and we had a great time and ended up sleeping together. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Ulax said:

A strong man-to-woman narrative her winning you over.

Compare these two narratives. Imagine her telling her friends about it. Which one is more appealing to her.

1. He wanted to fuck me and I let him. (Average playerish dude narrative)

2. He was intrigued but wasn't sure about me at first. Then I won him over, and we had a great time and ended up sleeping together. 

Well that's all speculation because once you fuck her and she sees stars well after that you can do no wrong.  If you banged her tight.  And I mean no wrong. 

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well that's all speculation because once you fuck her and she sees stars well after that you can do no wrong.  If you banged her tight.  And I mean no wrong. 

Glad you see me as an intellectual theoriser .

 

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Ulax said:

Glad you see me as an intellectual theoriser .

 

Pussy first. Relativity after 

[Ulax]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

Pussy first. Relativity after 

Flattered you see me as capable of both