The Michael Sartain podcast

[Leo Gura]

I see Sartain hustling in a Vegas nightclubs. He loves the fakest bimbo girls. The more plastic they look the more he likes them. But to each his own, I guess.

Edited 8 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Raze]

Social circle is better than cold approach, it’s just harder to do.

[Leo Gura]

Social circle is good for extroverts. Introverts not so much.

Social circle requires a lot of regular socializing to maintain. You can't just start and stop it on a dime, like going to the club.

Edited 5 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Zenterus]

Social Circle is amazing when coupled with cold approaching. However, as Leo said, it is a bit overwhelming for introverts, such as myself.

That being said, there are levels to social circle. You dont have to build a massive "high value social circle" to reap the benefits of it. If you can join communities (or build your own) that put you into contact with like minded people in a regular basis where attraction can develop naturally over time then you'll have a decent pool of potential new dating opportunities.

Joining a dance class, for example; taking up a sport; joining a weekly meetup event; making your own bi-weekly or monthly event,  etc.

These are very good to do, especially taking classes for something you're genuinely interested in because you're hitting 2 birds with 1 stone. 

That's what I do. I rely primarily on online dating these days though because I'm focused on my purpose and developing myself as a man, coupled with a few cold approaches here and there and going to salsa/bachata events as well as other meetup groups (will soon start my own) and I have no shortage of options.

All of this assumes though that you're an attractive man and that you have done the work to gain passive attraction, otherwise you'll just end up friendzoned.

[Raze]

 

[Leo Gura]

Social circle is the more artful and elegant way. But it's just too much socializing for me.

I got better things to do than maintain a social circle like a clown spinning plates.

To succeed in social circle you have to love that kind of social lifestyle.

Edited 3 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Optimized Life]

5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Social circle is good for extroverts. Introverts not so much.

Social circle requires a lot of regular socializing to maintain. You can't just start and stop it on a dime, like going to the club.

I'm an extrovert and i hate social circle 

Not because i dont like groups 

But because regardless of your extroversion level you do not resonate with 95% of people if you are just being yourself 

Therefore i could REALLY enjoy social circle but i would have to have a large group of multiple, compatiable people, that is extremely difficult to do unless you have the time, logistics and money to hunt for it day and night for years to build it 

It took me years just to find 1 single friend who is compatible enough for me to want to see often, and even then he is mostly just busy with work, and the pragmatic realities of life, so i still mostly go out alone 99% of the time, not merely by choice, but because this is a niche game, 99% of men dont have the heart to approach in the first place, of the tiny minority that do, 95% of those people arent even compatible wit hyou personality wise, so it makes no fucking sense. 

So its definitely an option but it requires a huge amount of time, money, perfect logistics, location ect.. which 99% of people dont have 

Social circle is an upper class game, not an extroverts game

I find pushing social circle as unfair on working and middle class people, or people who havent fully made it in business yet, its just not realistic  

But if i was in leos position then social circle would be a piece of cake 

Edited 4 minutes ago by Optimized Life