why women fall for narcissists

[Magnanimous]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Narcissists also offer lots of emotional drama, which is like chick crack.

A mature man is too boring for an immature woman. She needs the excitement of emotional drama.

Leo bro a newbie question but why do girls like emotional drama? What kind do they like?

Me and the guys we don't get it. Why would a person want drama in their life?

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Yes but it’s the same thing; you’d be more forgiving of a pretty girl than of a girl who looks like a rhinoceros.

Of course.

Guys would sleep with a serial killer girl. In this respect it is symmetrical.

3 minutes ago, Magnanimous said:

Leo bro a newbie question but why do girls like emotional drama? What kind do they like?

Me and the guys we don't get it. Why would a person want drama in their life?

You love drama too! You don't want a boring life either.

Girls like drama because they love feelings. It makes her feel. Girls would rather feel negative than feel nothing.

Attracting girls is all about making them feel things. Narcs excel at manipulating feelings.

Edited 3 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Monster Energy]

Just now, Magnanimous said:

Leo bro a newbie question but why do girls like emotional drama? What kind do they like?

Me and the guys we don't get it. Why would a person want drama in their life?

A life without drama feels boring to an immature woman. To her, drama is dopamine, and without it, life feels empty and lifeless. That’s why she chases men who give her excitement and make her feel alive.

 

[Leo Gura]

Liking drama is like clickbait. Social media is all about platforming drama.

[Monster Energy]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Liking drama is like clickbait. Social media is all about platforming drama.

Consciousness likes drama 

[Leo Gura]

4 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

Consciousness likes drama 

Yes, that's the point of the dream.

[LordFall]

@Olaf  I think you're on to something a lot of times with women initially meeting you it's like a frame battle; which one reacts more to the other. In general women are not particularly attracted to clinical narcissism, more signals of high social value, emotional stimulation, and boldness.

I think if we're gonna study the surface traits that make dark triad appealing we have to look at psychopathy and not only narcissism.

The low empathy and emotionality will initially be boldness and lack of approach anxiety and the high impulsivity and thrill seeking will make for like exciting adventures and dates on the surface. Ala coke dealer game type of thing. Psychopaths are terrible at accruing value long term though because they don't have fear so they lack self-preservation, it's a pretty ironic correction mechanism.

Also dark triad men are probably good at intimidating other men and thus look higher status and win frames battles with them initially so that is an attraction trigger for women as well. 

Overall it's best to just accrue a lot of value and be a dependable and empathic human being so women trust you, like being around you and you're able to fight the dominance hierarchy on their behalf and give them good emotions but on your terms.

[Zenterus]

Read through the replies on page one and I find that there're a lot of false assumptions there. 

Are women attracted to confidence, even dysfunctional forms of it? Yes. However, a woman's willingness to date or engage sexually with a man is still a choice she has to make.

Men are attracted to beauty, but many men will reject a crazy woman even if she's beautiful especially if they've had a negative experience in the past with crazy. Same goes with women. Immature women may date a narcissistic guy, but after they experience what that is like, they can make the conscious choice not to date a narcissist, even though they might be feeling attracted to them initially.

[Olaf]

@LordFall This posts intention is not to turn people here in psychopaths or narcissists. Rather to understand why woman fall for them and also why you have many codependent women who bring their own problems to a relationship, not only the narcissists, codependents are also toxic and haven´t healed. Someone with self-respect and maturity won´t get into such relationships, or at least not stay in it for any long time. 

[LordFall]

11 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@LordFall This posts intention is not to turn people here in psychopaths or narcissists. Rather to understand why woman fall for them and also why you have many codependent women who bring their own problems to a relationship, not only the narcissists, codependents are also toxic and haven´t healed. Someone with self-respect and maturity won´t get into such relationships, or at least not stay in it for any long time. 

You can't really turn yourself into a narcissistic or psychopath apart from incurring massive trauma. It's important to understand in which ways these type of people succeed in the world and to learn from them to become effective ourselves. CEOs and surgeons for example have way higher psychopathy than the median population because they are better able to stay calm under pressure. We can similarly use a meditation habit to gain presence and emotional regulation and end up able to handle pressure better than the average person.

It's not a coincidence that the Power of Now and Eckart Tolle are highly reverred amongst pick up artists. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[vibv]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Yes, that's the point of the dream.

And, boy, does it have layers.