Women are attracted to emotional guys

[Someone here]

Most women are attracted to emotional intimacy and romance . Actually the more feminine and beautiful she is the more she is attracted towards Emotional guys . Let me explain what I mean by emotional guys . Women aren’t actually( in real life )attracted to super masculine dudes who are just like lions in terms of physical strength and personality . She wants a “cute guy”. Not necessarily very handsome but they do care about looks to a bare minimum degree ..the guy has to be good looking . She is super attracted to Witt and sense of humor..they find that irresistible in guys . And finally romance . Most women are attracted to romance and sweet romantic talk . And romantic cinematic Situations..like kneeling down to her and presenting a rose to her and calling her “darling “. They are super attracted to these things . They are actually not attracted to super masculine and emotionally crude men . I feel like I want to share this since a lot of young guys are struggling with figuring out what attracts women and how can they become a type of person who is attractive to a woman . This is my opinion of course. And I don’t have any issue being disagreed with from guys who have lots of experience with women .In my opinion ..many women are drawn less to emotional toughness and more to emotional connection. By “emotional” I don’t mean being dramatic  but I mean being warm..expressive and funny..And especially romantic.  Despite all the jokes about romantic movies  ..I think many women genuinely enjoy thoughtful gestures and affectionate words. A flower..a heartfelt compliment ..or simply saying “You look beautiful today” often has more impact than trying to act like an untouchable alpha male.

Ironically ..many men think they have to become colder..tougher ..and less expressive to be attractive. I suspect the opposite is often true. Confidence is attractive..but so are kindness and  emotional intelligence playfulness and the ability to make her laugh.

 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Someone here

[Joseph Maynor]

Women are attracted to entertaining guys.  

[Someone here]

4 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Women are attracted to entertaining guys.  

I agree . Humor is a facet to this as well. A very introverted and shy guy who talks too little and a guy who is so edgy and strict are both very uninteresting to most women . They want a delicate balance between playfulness and confidence.

Edited 1 hour ago by Someone here

[Leo Gura]

Of course. Because women are emotional creatures. They don't care about anything else.

But still. They are attracted to raw masculinity too. They will sleep with stone-cold men just because of the masculine vibes. But then later they will regret it because that stone-cold guy will not be capable of intimacy, which she truly craves.

Who women sleep with and who they stay with are different things. They will sleep with a Terminator but he's not boyfriend material.

Women are looking for a paradox: a stone-cold guy who is also very intimate and emotionally stimulating.

Edited 35 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Joseph Maynor]

Some women are very masculine too.  Just because someone is a woman doesn't mean they have the stereotypical feminine personality.  

[AION]

It is about polarity which causes attraction. As women age they become more masculine so that is why they want a feminine guy who is emotional, soft and easy to handle. 

[bazera]

25 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Women are looking for a paradox: a stone-cold guy who is also very intimate and emotionally stimulating.

So, as a guy, what should you be prioritizing when learning how to attract feminine girls? 

Becoming more musculine, or getting in touch with your emotional and humorous side, developing capacities to be emotionally intimate with a woman.

I guess both.

[Joseph Maynor]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

I agree . Humor is a facet to this as well. A very introverted and shy guy who talks too little and a guy who is so edgy and strict are both very uninteresting to most women . They want a delicate balance between playfulness and confidence.

This is a great pointer IMO.  

[Leo Gura]

11 minutes ago, bazera said:

So, as a guy, what should you be prioritizing when learning how to attract feminine girls? 

Becoming more musculine, or getting in touch with your emotional and humorous side, developing capacities to be emotionally intimate with a woman.

I guess both.

Pickup/game trains up both.

You need to masculine but not in a way where you are verbally and emotionally unexpressive.  You can be stoic in certain ways, but not in your facial and verbal expression. You need to be able to hold emotionally stimulating conversation. Logical conversional is what kills attraction.

But you can be masculine in the other ways.

Bottom line: Don't be so masculine that you're boring, robotic, and serious all the time.

Edited 2 minutes ago by Leo Gura