Gentlemen, I'm officially TRAUMATIZED

[Rishabh R]

@Zenterus From your situation I think that having high standards and focussing on finding high quality of girl over chasing quantity is a ticket out . I have seen many guys falling into the trap of getting a hot girlfriend while completely ignoring her actions , standards only to found out that they break up in some time and the girl dating other guy. I found out that post rejection that rejection is a protection from girls who were wrong for me. Yes , I dodged several bullets in college by getting rejected over and over again. Which saved me a lot from those manipulative ,toxic relationships. All the best ,you got this man.

[Zenterus]

@oOo Thank you for this advice. I will definitely take it to heart.

[Zenterus]

@Rishabh R Indeed, this is the path. When I got back into dating, I told myself that I would only deal with women who I see long-term potential with, even if it means that it might take meeting 1000s just to find 1 that qualifies. This whole situation is the universe's way of punishing me for not fully sticking to that, I guess.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

What part do you suspect you have to play in attracting similar (IE incompatible) patterns? 

Edited 1 hour ago by Natasha Tori Maru