Let’s Take Looksmaxxing Seriously

[Leo Gura]

10 hours ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

He executed perfectly what French people find vulgar the most.

It was my joke of him.

[Schizophonia]

44 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

That image is the funniest thing I've seen in a damn while.

pov when i flirt with my crush talking about Hegel 

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Schizophonia it's how way out of balance the focus is. All surface no substance 

It's neurotic yea 

[AerisVahnEphelia]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It was my joke of him.

I know ( thank god he didn't say that, but well, we have wwe at the white house, so best to be clear I guess )

[Basman]

Clav is already really good looking. Way more than most guys. The looksmaxxing ideology he's bought into, hook, line and sinker, is a kind of doomerism. You don't smoke meth and do deep fried home surgery on your self without an obsessive degree of anxiety. I actually feel kind of sorry for him, because he clearly selling himself short, at least on a mental spiritual level.

Regular ass Tony Robbins style self-help would set him straight. If he only picked up a book instead of browsing incel forums. Even a bible would have been better. Too bad he's audience captured af. Gonna be very hard to say no to all that at this point when it made him rich and famous, even though it comes at a cost. He is arguably becoming a lolcow, if he's not already one. The definition of living a hell of your own creation.

[VioleGrace]

17 hours ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

They'll mock you and turn you into a clown very fast for anything that looks like confidence.

If you want to be confident in France be ready to literally destroy your opponent in a debate / prove your point; because that's the only way to show off real status here. 

That's not true french love confident guys like everybody else

 

And you don't need to argue or debate or prove a point or show actually it is a terrible strategy in french more than in usa ! 

Arrogance and lack of empathy and self awareness is not confidence 

Someone with confidence would debate or would need to show off especially in Paris where people are lot more rigid in there thinking than other worldwide cities
 

Edited 9 hours ago by VioleGrace

[AerisVahnEphelia]

5 hours ago, VioleGrace said:

That's not true french love confident guys like everybody else

 

And you don't need to argue or debate or prove a point or show actually it is a terrible strategy in french more than in usa ! 

Arrogance and lack of empathy and self awareness is not confidence 

Someone with confidence would debate or would need to show off especially in Paris where people are lot more rigid in there thinking than other worldwide cities
 

I wasn’t writing a book with every layer of nuance. The core point was still right: confidence is coded differently in France.

I never said French people hate confident people. I said that what often passes as confidence in the US can look vulgar, arrogant, or socially tone-deaf in France.

When I used “debate,” I meant being able to defend your point if you make one, not constantly arguing for the sake of it.

Also, your last sentence contradicts what you said before. I assume you forgot the negative, but that changes the whole meaning. 

Edited 3 hours ago by AerisVahnEphelia