The dumbest collective shit test

[WonderSeeker]

You have a tendency to assume people lack experience if they disagree with you. Here are a few examples from this very thread.

On 6/6/2026 at 0:24 PM, LordFall said:

Are you a virgin and/or grew up deeply religious? Seems like a strange way to conceptualize the situation.

On 6/8/2026 at 1:26 AM, LordFall said:

You seem have a dense ego with how you refuse to admit your shortcomings and stick to your position even when presented with evidence that invalidates it so I don't think you're very coachable which is another reason why you're stuck in your journey. 

Yes I've followed Leo since he posted that rant against PUA videos 10 years ago which is why my game was built with depth to avoid the pitfalls he pointed out in it. I'm thankful to him for that, it was a great video. 

If you find meaning and fulfillment in your life outside of relationships then more power to you. Feel free to share what's worked for you since you gave them up. 

19 hours ago, LordFall said:

Allow me to psychoanalyze you but it seems from the original post that you're a bit offended by the concept of bodycount so perhaps yours is low and you don't like that fact? Although deconstructing the concept of bodycount in and of itself is completely valid. 

Just curious what that's about. I don't mean this to be too personal, but do you feel like lack shows up in your life somehow?

I do shadow work on this stuff all the time btw. These are routine questions, irrespective of outer results (having or lacking them).

Edited 9 hours ago by WonderSeeker

[Sugarcoat]

@LordFall You must have had some kind of infinite libido awakening😂

[Natasha Tori Maru]

 @LordFall the posts by @WonderSeeker above are touching on the same assumption / blind spot I illustrated. 

[integral]

5 hours ago, LordFall said:

paradigms that lead to getting out of it as idealism

The other day i told my brother in law to sell bitcoin at 125k because all the signals ive build for past 10 years point to it (mass human psychology, probability of future gain vs reward, good trading practices)

He told me "you have a pessimistic view of the market". I didnt know what to say to him because i didnt get what he was talking about, all i see is what will happen based on mulitple factors comming togetter, nothing is negative or positive.

I then was walking about kraya yoga and i said "most people are sick because they lack body awareness", he said "I HAVE NEVER HEARD YOU SAY 1 POSITIVE THING" 🤦‍♂️

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When i say "people are a profound waist of time", im saying they will take up all your time and energy if you dont set strong boundaries, they will deviate you from your goals because they can only see there goals above yours.

When someone talks to you out in public randomly (AND THEY DO EVERY SINGLE DAY because i keep attracting people), what they want is for you to give them good vibes, because thats what they want from all conversation from societal conditioning.

Im in the middle of a hand stand, i dont want to talk about your bad back and life problems. EVERYDAY.

Im smilling and joking trying to flip the conversation and your complaining about your life while im in the middle of a back flip. WHAT ARE YOU DOING.

Now have 3 bisexual woman as gf and tell me the level of time waist they will pumle you with. 

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Follow me if you want to be amazing other then that why are you babbling to me about your life. STOP. Who thought these people how to talk? A sick society.

If I'm doing a handstand ,stand next to me and do a handstand with me. And that's what I tell these people. Im more then happy to have you along for the ride, but i know where to go and what to do. You are not equipped to lead. 

Edited 8 hours ago by integral

[Schizophonia]

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

 

@Schizophonia I love the honesty here, it's good to be able to verbalize your hangups.

 

Thanks

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

Women want to have sex with men, that's how 300 000 years evolution got us to where we are. Why its easier or harder depending on different guys is a function of the market ,it's not really a personal thing against you.

 

I'm not particularly worried about the competition.

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

 

Meaning that you can use the strategies I've mentionned to be the same guy but paint yourself in a much more attractive light. To the point where a girl will fantasize about blowing you. Multiple of them even. 

 

In the same time 😏

Jk

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

 

You don't need to be a god for a woman to desire you. You need to work on social skills, lead with good energy, and share a fun, value filled space with them and then giving you pleasure becomes just as fun for them as it is for you. Women are usually even more sexual than men.

Yes

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

From me asking AI, Toulouse is a student city with a massive creative scene.

Thanks lol that's kind to want to help like that

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

Don't worry about your friends not being motivated—join the game global group for Toulouse. It's only got 14 people right now but maybe 2-3 guys will be down to go out.

https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/

They are all AFK lol

I will make the necessary arrangements 

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

Start small, look into local creative meetups, improv, or sports that you'd like, and start treating your neurotic brain as a video game to level up in. 

That's the part where treating dating like a video game makes sense. Not the dating itself part but levelling up your life and then it becomes less personal and less anxiety inducing. Baby steps until you're where you wanna be frero. 

👍

Sorry I don't have much to add.

[Schizophonia]

15 hours ago, integral said:

now I want to be alone.

I'm usually quite alone but sometimes out of curiosity or for a laugh, I watch videos of pickup artists kissing girls etc.
If I let myself get carried away by the vibe, if I feel it and allow myself to be penetrated, the situation reverses and I suddenly become thirsty for sex or simply for social interaction; like a starvation feeling. 

It's not a particularly intelligent vibe but it's invigorating; it's a change from my very dry, asexual, intellectual ADHD vibe lol, perched behind my computer with my Red Bull.

Edited 8 hours ago by Schizophonia

[integral]

19 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'm usually quite alone but sometimes out of curiosity or for a laugh, I watch videos of pickup artists kissing girls etc.
If I let myself get carried away by the vibe, if I feel it and allow myself to be penetrated, the situation reverses and I suddenly become thirsty for sex or simply for social interaction; like a starvation feeling. 

It's not a particularly intelligent vibe but it's invigorating; it's a change from my very dry, asexual, intellectual ADHD vibe lol, perched behind my computer with my Red Bull.

We all want sex, it doesnt go away ike wanting to eat and sleep.

The difference is i got sex my entire life very easlity and now im ok with not getting it and being alone.

I also have very high self-esteem and self confidence and feel good about my self all the time.

So from this possition its possible to let things go and not need your ego and identity attached to getting sex.

But from what i can tell from what you said, you are not at this stage yet and it would be best for you to go out there and "become a man".

The "become a man" is realizing your self worth and becoming self-secure, self-confident, self-fulfilled... you get it lol.

All of this takes practice and life experience to rewire who you are as a person. So you have to go out there and play.

Edited 8 hours ago by integral

[Schizophonia]

44 minutes ago, integral said:

We all want sex, it doesnt go away ike wanting to eat and sleep.

No it's a desire that essentially varies depending on the context.

I myself tend toward Asexuality these days.

44 minutes ago, integral said:

The difference is i got sex my entire life very easlity and now im ok with not getting it and being alone.

I also have very high self-esteem and self confidence and feel good about my self all the time.

That's good you must be very handsome

44 minutes ago, integral said:

So from this possition it’s possible to let things go and not need your ego and identity attached to getting sex.

44 minutes ago, integral said:

But from what i can tell from what you said, you are not at this stage yet and it would be best for you to go out there and "become a man".

The "become a man" is realizing your self worth and becoming self-secure, self-confident, self-fulfilled... you get it lol.

You're inflating your ego at the expense of my messages; that's why I never talk about this online normally.
I will stop respond to this topic; it’s globally useless except making the “bad persona” worst.

[integral]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You're inflating your ego at the expense of my messages; that's why I never talk about this online normally.
I will stop respond to this topic; it’s globally useless except making the “bad persona” worst.

I taught the point of the question was asking how you could get your desires met and feel fulfilled in life.

That's the only reason I spoke.

I'm not speaking to make myself feel better about myself.

 

Do you have self worth, do you feel self-secure, self-confident, self-fulfilled? 

What Lord said is to get people to this point, there is nothing else going on, i just said it directly bluntly. 

[integral]

Okay I'm considering locking this thread because its making people hypersensitive and not listening to each other.

Even I'm struggling to keep it together with all these accusations and talking past each other

Edited 6 hours ago by integral

[Sugarcoat]

On 2026-06-11 at 9:38 PM, LordFall said:

@Sugarcoat I’ve slept with around 50 women and I feel like I’ve barely started to experience them. So many dynamics and different types of women to explore. I’ve mostly slept with women in Toronto and Calgary. Women are drastically different depending on where they are so doing a world I could easily add 100 body count right there. Plus different dynamics, I’ve mostly done standard monogamy or one night stands or FWBs.
 

I started working with women recently through hosting a fashion show and helping musicians with their content strategy and that’s such a fun dynamic. It allows me to express my masculinity in a way that’s so deep I highly recommend every man tries it.

I’ve also never really experienced multiple women together and if having sex/hanging out with one woman you like is amazing then finding two women you like a lot and watching them fuck eachother and you fucking both of them must be amazing. I also love social dynamics so I would love to build a polycule with many people.

I also want to experience with BDSM dynamics and specifically from a position of abundance seems a lot of doms I see are like larping as a dominant entity but are just a regular dude in regular life. So I wanna be able to build all of this from a position of financial and social abundance and also be able to share that with the woman and men I bring into my intimate life. 
 

When I had my last serious girlfriend I felt a deep sadness that I would settle down without experiencing all of this so after we broke up I slept with like 20 women since and as I said I’ve barely started to scratch that itch also building status is very fun to experience compared to cold approach. People come to you and are excited about getting to know me instead of having to try hard to meet them so I’m also excited to experience fame game.
 

That’s why I say people that claim to have been there and done that by sleeping with a few people are delusional lol, it’s an infinite area of life to pursue and enjoy.  

It's genuinely interesting to read your responses sometimes because you have a unique perspective on this forum, and in general. I mean your lifestyle yes but also the fact you dont come off as "douchey" or "toxic", so I dont get any particular negative vibe from your responses.

But still I feel theres something that feels "off", not that its wrong or worse than others here who stick to only a few partners, but rather that maybe theres something youre not aware of.

I thought about what Leo said about "horizontal vs vertical". I got the sense that the way you go about sexuality is more so horizontal in the way that youre doing it so much with so many women. Meanwhile vertical would be going really deep with fewer women. Not saying Leo meant that with that phrasing but im drawing the parallel there.

So that last sentence you wrote has some misunderstanding I think , I believe it is possible to go so deep sexually with fewer people that you satisfy that need ("fewer" as in less than youre doing, doesn't have to mean necessarily something super small like 3 people ) . And then perhaps find a long term partner. 

Because yes you might be attracted to those women, physically and you like the vibe, but maybe if you found fewer women who you connected with on really deep level, then maybe it would be more profound sexual experience and more satisfactory than with a lot of them .

Maybe next time you feel sexual you could try: "can I just enjoy this feeling without it turning into action necessarily". And see what happens. Something to do with, building  up the sexuality more strongly inside you instead of always acting out 

Im speaking from my mind now, its not based on much experience at all, so you can be skeptical to what I say ahahahahahhaha

Edited 2 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[Sugarcoat]

On 2026-06-12 at 3:46 PM, WonderSeeker said:

demi-sexuality?

I think that term is a bit weird, I see it as just variation in how peoples psyches work

[Sugarcoat]

4 hours ago, integral said:

Okay I'm considering locking this thread because its making people hypersensitive and not listening to each other.

Even I'm struggling to keep it together with all these accusations and talking past each other

I think its you who is the "hypersensitive" one here tbh 😬

[LordFall]

4 hours ago, integral said:

Okay I'm considering locking this thread because its making people hypersensitive and not listening to each other.

Even I'm struggling to keep it together with all these accusations and talking past each other

What? It's a good thread and we're each sharing our perspective. What is unproductive about this conversation? Seems like perhaps you're not a fan of chaos in general and run from it. Confronting all our shadows is how we grow as people. Poking at each other's weaknesses is good. We should welcome it. 

7 hours ago, WonderSeeker said:

You have a tendency to assume people lack experience if they disagree with you. Here are a few examples from this very thread.

Just curious what that's about. I don't mean this to be too personal, but do you feel like lack shows up in your life somehow?

I do shadow work on this stuff all the time btw. These are routine questions, irrespective of outer results (having or lacking them).

I mean it's common for people that lack experience to have a similar perspective. I've clearly stated throughout the thread that if you're happy with your current circumstances then there is no need to change it. I have said that I'm not yet where I want to be in life and working each day towards it and enjoying the journey. 

To me an identity is constantly evolving. 

@Natasha Tori Maru I use weed more than I want to and it's for sure stopping me from reaching the peak effectiveness that I seek. I don't really fall into escapism though just underperformance the way I see it. It's made my business less effective than I want it to be and reduced my cashflow stability to be more precise. 

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

No it's a desire that essentially varies depending on the context.

I myself tend toward Asexuality these days.

What appeals to you about asexuality? Is it truly what you desire or it's just easier and safer than confronting your shortcomings?

28 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

So that last sentence you wrote has some misunderstanding I think , I believe it is possible to go so deep sexually with fewer people that you satisfy that need ("fewer" as in less than youre doing, doesn't have to mean necessarily something super small like 3 people ) . And then perhaps find a long term partner. 

Because yes you might be attracted to those women, physically and you like the vibe, but maybe if you found fewer women who you connected with on really deep level, then maybe it would be more profound sexual experience and more satisfactory than with a lot of them .

 

I think it's possible to go quite deep with one person but a lot of people use it as a mask for avoiding development. For example if you scroll through Reddit a lot of relationship issues that you see come up both in a communication, emotional and sexual term stems clearly from a lack of self exploration and overall underdevelopment. That's the common societal narrative, I'm a lone self in this world oh I found someone who accepts me let's settle down and see what happens. Not saying that's ALL monogamous couples just a lot and the majority.

I identify with all people and humanity as a whole so settling down with the first woman I like doesn't really appeal to me. As you can see my perspective is one of exploration and discovery with many people. I wouldn't say I don't aim to go deep as opposed to narrow, I think you should do both to explore all that life has to offer in that regard. Once I get settled into polyamory I will have children with the partners I have found the most joy and stability with and build something like a homestead where I grow my own food, raise animals and do international business with my communities across the world. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Sugarcoat]

On 2026-06-12 at 8:13 PM, Schizophonia said:

I don't understand why a girl would want to have sex with someone, especially with me; it doesn't make sense, I'm not a god, I'm just a random guy, I don't see why someone would want to suck me etc outside of coercion, I don't see the point.

Maybe if you talk to a girl sometime and you feeling a little something, you could tell her exactly what you just wrote 😂 If you find that you do truly believe that, then you could OWNNNNN it totally, maybe she will like the genuine expression.

Or im just a weirdo, because im not really thrown off by these things, id rather a guy be "confidently insecure" than "insecurely confident" if you get what im saying HAHHHHAHAHAAH. Dont trust me when it comes to applying it to other women tho

Edited 2 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[LordFall]

4 hours ago, integral said:

Do you have self worth, do you feel self-secure, self-confident, self-fulfilled? 

What Lord said is to get people to this point, there is nothing else going on, i just said it directly bluntly. 

Partly correct, I'm not talking solely about an internal state. That's great but that can be transient and doesn't really do much with your relationship to the outside world.

What I'm pointing to is becoming a powerful person in your local community and the world as a whole. Dating is the intimacy based part of it and social circle/social media is the communal, business and global impact side of it. To me what's what a stage yellow developed life looks like. 

[Sugarcoat]

8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 

I think it's possible to go quite deep with one person but a lot of people use it as a mask for avoiding development. For example if you scroll through Reddit a lot of relationship issues that you see come up both in a communication, emotional and sexual term stems clearly from a lack of self exploration and overall underdevelopment. That's the common societal narrative, I'm a lone self in this world oh I found someone who accepts me let's settle down and see what happens. Not saying that's ALL monogamous couples just a lot and the majority.

I identify with all people and humanity as a whole so settling down with the first woman I like doesn't really appeal to me. As you can see my perspective is one of exploration and discovery with many people. I wouldn't say I don't aim to go deep as opposed to narrow, I think you should do both to explore all that life has to offer in that regard. Once I get settled into polyamory I will have children with the partners I have found the most joy and stability with and build something like a homestead where I grow my own food, raise animals and do international business with my communities across the world. 

I think I understand what youre saying here with your reasoning and your mindset about your lifestyle, and I agree some points you made. I dont think it's really touching what I said tho, but thats ok. 

[LordFall]

6 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

They are all AFK lol

I will make the necessary arrangements 

👍

Sorry I don't have much to add.

3 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I think I understand what youre saying here with your reasoning and your mindset about your lifestyle, and I agree some points you made. I dont think it's really touching what I said tho, but thats ok. 

@Sugarcoat Feel free to elaborate if you feel like I didn't get to the root of your question or observation. 

@Schizophonia All good bro the rest happens in your real life. What are you gonna do this week and this month to take action on what we've talked about? If you find it worth it to develop these connections organically then I 100% know you can do it. The rest is on you frero. 

Also to touch on the asexual comment once more hopefully you're not watching too much porn. It's very easy to suppress your libido through that especially adding neuroticism unto it. 

[Schizophonia]

17 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 

What appeals to you about asexuality? Is it truly what you desire or it's just easier and safer than confronting your shortcomings?

I mean that my basic comfort zone is quite empty and passive, "dysthymic"; by extension I have little interest in sexuality unless I deprive myself of orgasm for days or fantasize about paraphilias or almost.

Sometimes I can feel myself drawn into a "vibe", but it's episodic and short-lived.

I couldn't say exactly where it comes from, the genesis of a belief system is complicated and repressed, but what i can say already is that the secondary benefit seems to be that it avoids suffering.

I never suffer greatly; it's almost as if my parents could die and it wouldn't hurt me that much, I would easily find a psychic place to take shelter; if what I'm saying makes sense.

Likewise my friends (who are my mirrors! In denial; non-duality all that) are often suffering. They talk about depression, taking antidepressants, drugs, sometimes even suicide; and me as I'm in my dysthymic ivory tower, I can spout long rational sentences with a stoic air, hidden behind my computer and my coconut acai Red Bull.

Edited 1 hour ago by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, LordFall said:

Feel free to elaborate if you feel like I didn't get to the root of your question or observation.

Maybe some future time, for now I feel its enough with that point 😄