Why Do So Many 13-Year-Old Girls Look 18 Today?

[Sugarcoat]

7 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

I’m not complaining. I actually think it’s fine that girls show a lot of skin. But parents need to understand that other people may see their daughters as sexual objects, and some dangerous individuals may view them as potential targets for sexual violence.

 

A predator is gonna chose a child regardless of clothes, but I still agree that there are some styles that are inappropriate for children, regardless of outside consequences 

[enchanted]

8 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

I’m not complaining. I actually think it’s fine that girls show a lot of skin. But parents need to understand that other people may see their daughters as sexual objects, and some dangerous individuals may view them as potential targets for sexual violence.

 

There's a great book called the "Let Them Theory" by Mel Robbins. As the title suggests let people do what they want. If that means they get sexually assaulted well then...let them.

For women looking good is a survival strategy, no risk no reward. They are competing with other females for high quality males. If some want to get a head start then let them. There's a cost to everything and looking attractive is no exception. Women risk getting sexually assaulted but they stand to gain a higher quality sexual partner than if they looked homely. Or so they think. 

[Monster Energy]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

A predator is gonna chose a child regardless of clothes, but I still agree that there are some styles that are inappropriate for children, regardless of outside consequences 

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[Monster Energy]

4 minutes ago, enchanted said:

There's a great book called the "Let Them Theory" by Mel Robbins. As the title suggests let people do what they want. If that means they get sexually assaulted well then...let them.

For women looking good is a survival strategy, no risk no reward. They are competing with other females for high quality males. If some want to get a head start then let them. There's a cost to everything and looking attractive is no exception. Women risk getting sexually assaulted but they stand to gain a higher quality sexual partner than if they looked homely. Or so they think. 

I largely agree.

 

[enchanted]

12 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

I largely agree.

 

And I agree with you that society's priorities are off and we are doing a disservice to ourselves and our young people by not teaching them high consciousness lifestyles and instead focus on shallow material persuits in many cases. 

[Monster Energy]

1 hour ago, enchanted said:

And I agree with you that society's priorities are off and we are doing a disservice to ourselves and our young people by not teaching them high consciousness lifestyles and instead focus on shallow material persuits in many cases. 

Do you think the people who run the world are unconsciously trapped in low consciousness, or are they fully aware and intentionally keeping others trapped in the Matrix?

 

[enchanted]

3 hours ago, Monster Energy said:

Do you think the people who run the world are unconsciously trapped in low consciousness, or are they fully aware and intentionally keeping others trapped in the Matrix?

 

What a great thought provoking question! That's something I'll have to contemplate for a while.

For now I'd say that it might be a mixture of both; intentionally keeping others trapped is a form of low and unconscious behavior. 

Perhaps if they were "fully aware" of their actions they wouldn't do it. 

[Jirh]

Yeah, I too am finding it increasingly difficult to assess a girl's age by looks alone. There's always at least like 5 years range for error. She could be 25, but another one at 30 and another at 20 would look very similar. It's like they're being molded from the same plastic template. And it makes it harder to approach, because of the age gap. I'm 30, and don't want to hit on 20 year olds. And it's generally rude to ask a woman's age, so that makes it even harder. And even when you ask, they tend to lie about it. It's crazy.

I think makeup is a big part of this phenomenon, but I like the input others have contributed here.

Edited 1 hour ago by Jirh