Do women emotionaly need men less than men emotionaly need women?

[Never_give_up]

I am desperate for a relationship with a woman. But it doesn't seem that women feel the same way for men. 

I always believe that truth is better long term than lies so I want to know the truth. 

Maybe it's a me thing, so other men aren't desperate, but let me tell you , as a man that never had a girlfriend, there is an emotional need to be connected with the opposite sex, to be desired, to come with contact.

 

But all I see on the internet is women don't need men, don't like men, and they definitely mock men's issues or completely ignore them. So I have suspicions that women weren't meant by evolution to feel deep love for men like men do, they were meant to be independent when survival meets were met, while men were made by evolution to need a woman in order to feel very beautiful feelings. 

I am ready to accept the truth even if it hurts, I finally want to know even though I was afraid to know the answer. If the answer is that they actually do love and need men the same way men love and need women, that's awesome, if not I am ready to accept the reality I denied.

There is no reason to point that no one ''needs'' anyone. Yes the word need isn't exactly right but to be fair it feels like an emotional need even if you can survive without the love of the opposite sex. You still feel bad without this need met even if you can survive.

[Hojo]

They dont love like men do. A man will give up his entire life for a woman.

Like he will want to do it, willingly.

I beleive evolutionarily its that way.

What you crave is a desperate desire to kill yourself via a woman.

The man evolutionarily wants to give his life to a woman.

Edited 8 hours ago by Hojo

[Hojo]

@No1Here2c Its a fact of life.

Relationship are there for spiritual purposes.

The woman exposes God in man and man give God to woman.

Edited 7 hours ago by Hojo

[Hojo]

@No1Here2c The metaphysical representation is the man cumming his light into the woman. The woman gets the mans light and the man is left in the black. This allows man to see God.

The woman is the mans light. The man give everything to the light to be left empty.

[Hojo]

@No1Here2c When the man is having sex with a woman he is trying to find God.

[Hojo]

@No1Here2c

The woman evolved to hide and then be captured. Its in their DNA to not love as much and he be willing to switch partners easier. Its in the DNA of man to die for the people he loves.

The woman who gets captured has to switch partners unwillingly to survive.

Those woman then spawned us.

This happened thousands of times and is now part our psyche.

Edited 7 hours ago by Hojo

[emil1234]

41 minutes ago, No1Here2c said:

You sound batshit crazy

the only appropriate response tbf  

[No1Here2c]

This is far beyond my realm of knowledge.

I know as a personal fact that desparation is a result of Insecurity.

Become an Iron Anchor within yourself and you will no longer experience such issues.

 

[Lyubov]

Not "need."

Both coexist in harmony, complimenting, opposites integral for the other's existence.

From a grounded perspective, men tend to have worse social skills and put all their social eggs in one basket. So if the woman goes there goes his entire social / family life. Women are much better at socializing and perceived differently, so they tend to be able to fill in more quickly the space left from the end of a relationship.  

I've known of really extroverted men who were able to cope similarly to how a woman does when a relationship ends. Most guys simply don't have the social resources or support network to do the same. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Lyubovagree with much of this.

I'll add:

Men are often socialised out of emotional connection, both with each other and with themselves. Stoicism, being strong, carrying burdens, being dependable for others; these are masculine ideals most men are exposed to from a young age.

As children, boys and girls both experience the full gamut of emotion. Both seek comfort, reassurance, connection, and emotional attunement from parents and family. Culturally, women are generally encouraged to maintain and deepen emotional connection as they grow older, while many men are steered away from this. It can be discouraged in the face of the masculine ideals external to us.

A lot of men learn that vulnerability risks shame, rejection, weakness, or social isolation. Emotional expression is then filtered, minimised, hidden. Over time, many are left without the kind of support networks that women are more often encouraged to build and maintain.

I don’t think men necessarily have - more - emotional needs than women. I think many men simply have fewer socially acceptable outlets for those needs to be met.

When in emotional pain, many men are carrying it with less support, less practice expressing it, and fewer people checking in on them. 

This circles right back to the male loneliness epidemic. And much of the toxic red pill idealogy recognises men's emotional needs - but fails to present a good solution. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru