Owen Cooks Dropping BOMBS!

[Butters]

I'm sure it's been shared here before but I just watched this 

Actually I'm only halfway through. It's fucking gold. 

The only problem I have with Owen's take is that he seems to be hanging around with these psychologically immature people and that's what his whole shit is based on. I mean the guys 45 years old and talking about girls doing coke and going to the club. 

He says marriage is the most important thing but then admits that he's single. When he talks about marriage he also assumes this frame where the guy is this mature and experienced man and she is just this party girl that he needs to manipulate. 

I guess his audience is men in their early twenties so that makes sense, but still feels a bit off. 

But there's lots of gold in this video. Recommended! 

Edit: he is also quite wrong on drugs. MDMA does not cause permanent brain damage with casual use. And he also hates psychedelics for unknown reasons. 

Edited 6 hours ago by Butters

[Leo Gura]

The problem is that the lifestyle Owen teaches makes the man virtually incapable of holding a healthy relationship. Owen talks about how relationships turn bad, but pickup mindset is what does that. Owen killed all his relationships with he crazy egotism and lifestyle.

He wants to have 3 kids and still be sleeping around with clubs girls every week. This is madness. He could have settled down with the mother of his kids, but he's too big of an egomaniac to settle for anything.

Pickup does not teach relationship skills, it teaches anti-relationship skills. It is the same problem as becoming a billionaire. The abundance itself is the corruption. Having a rotation of 10 girls is insanely bad for you relationship-wise.

Edited 6 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Butters]

@Leo Gura exactly. It is noticeable that he has a big ego in these relationships. For example he talks about "willikg to give your life for this girl but then she rips your heart out". That kind of drama just seems juvenile to me, exactly on the level of those party girls doing coke.

But he's a phenomenal teacher for guys who are below, meaning guys that are Blue Pill. His Red Pill truth bombs are great. 

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[Leo Gura]

He makes it sound like being in a relationship is so hard and so much work. When in truth normal people maintain relationships quite effortlessly without all this drama and status games.

My brother has zero game and he is in a happy marriage with no drama and games. That's precisely because he isn't doing all this game.

If he was following Owen, his marriage would be dead.

So it's super ironic.

There is a try-hard quality to Owen's whole approach. He isn't able to just let go and chill the fuck out.

I can't even be bothered to go to a club these days because I just don't care. What is that club girl going to do for me but sex? Nothing. I can get better sex jerking myself off.

Edited 5 hours ago by Leo Gura

[AION]

I think Owen has a point. Back in the day you could hold an average girl attention and loyalty with the bare minimum.  With the invention of social media and Tinder the game has changed. Most women are on cloud 9 in terms of expectations versus what they deliver. There are still some girls who aren’t ruined by feminism(female egoism) and the toxic dating culture. Especially in western style environments. 

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[Sincerity]

Just now, AION said:

Back in the day you could hold an average girl attention and loyalty with the bare minimum. 

If all one does in a relationship is the bare minimum, they should have their relationship fall apart.

Doing just the bare minimum is for the weak man. Or woman.

[AION]

1 minute ago, Sincerity said:

If all one does in a relationship is the bare minimum, they should have their relationship fall apart.

Doing just the bare minimum is for the weak man. Or woman.

Not everybody is as excellent as you. Please give us a peak into your fabulous achievements. 

[PenguinPablo]

@AION and that w

4 minutes ago, AION said:

I think Owen has a point. Back in the day you could hold an average girl attention and loyalty with the bare minimum.  With the invention of social media and Tinder the game has changed. Most women are on cloud 9 in terms of expectations versus what they deliver. There are still some girls who aren’t ruined by feminism(female egoism) and the toxic dating culture. Especially in western style environments. 

And that will be to there own detriment. 

They will never be happy or be in stable relationships if they can't drop the facade and be real.

[Majed]

@Leo Gura The best thing to do is to develop a relationship with God and have sex with God. 

[AION]

Just now, PenguinPablo said:

@AION and that w

And that will be to there own detriment. 

They will never be happy or be in stable relationships if they can't drop the facade and be real.

I’m not going to catch a bullet for these women. And men who are willing to do that while they hate us to the bone are dumb as fuck.

Dating culture change all the time. And we can’t roll back the changes. The problem is that men need to change too. Men are too naive about dating. 

I see a lot of men struggling. And nobody cares about them because they don’t have the right genitals. A friend of mine got divorced last month. She got half of his money and she is already with the next dude. 

[Butters]

3 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura The best thing to do is to develop a relationship with God and have sex with God. 

Anal sex? 

[UnbornTao]

Isn't masturbation the ontological act of having sex with God? 

There, another Awakening. 

[AION]

2 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

Isn't masturbation the ontological act of having sex with God? 

There, another Awakening. 

Another awakening. There is no difference between your hand and some punani

[UnbornTao]

2 minutes ago, AION said:

Another awakening. There is no difference between your hand and some punani

Let me look up that word.

edit: checks out.

Edited 5 hours ago by UnbornTao

[Alexop]

42 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

He makes it sound like being in a relationship is so hard and so much work. When in truth normal people maintain relationships quite effortlessly without all this drama and status games.

My brother has zero game and he is in a happy marriage with no drama and games. That's precisely because he isn't doing all this game.

If he was following Owen, his marriage would be dead.

So it's super ironic.

There is a try-hard quality to Owen's whole approach. He isn't able to just let go and chill the fuck out.

I can't even be bothered to go to a club these days because I just don't care. What is that club girl going to do for me but sex? Nothing. I can get better sex jerking myself off.

If it is like you say so then your brother is a happy case. Because most long time marriages are shit. A happy marriage requires heavy self-development work done by both sides. Especially now with all this gender-blind madness going on. And many who claim they are "happy" together can be because ignorance is bliss. It can be that neither of them went deep enough so they just work well together at a superficial, utilitarian level.

In regards to finding a woman, shit situation too. High quality women are rare (of course, because high quality people are rare), most of them 30 years old plus. They won't be found in night clubs and approaching them on the street req enormous patience. Maybe after a few years of roaming the streets and approaching you'll find "the one". My best bets are: Stage Green festivals, dancing communities like Lindy Hop and West Coast Swing, and talking to girls at the climbing gym. You need to go where the Green girls are.

BTW I am not defending that Owen weirdo, I never liked the guy. Orange autistic garbage, sorry OP.

Edited 5 hours ago by Alexop

[Sincerity]

35 minutes ago, AION said:

Not everybody is as excellent as you. Please give us a peak into your fabulous achievements. 

Is what I said really something outlandish?

What happens when you do just the bare minimum in life, in general? Does that lead to a good life?

[Leo Gura]

The simple truth is that Owen wants a rockstar lifestyle and he is unwilling to give it up, which is necessary for serious healthy long-term relationships.

So he has to bend himself into pretzels to find ways to make it work without giving it up.

It's like a guy who wants to be a Zen monk but still also a billionaire playboy.

Owen's personality is too grandiose to just live simply.

Edited 5 hours ago by Leo Gura

[AION]

4 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

Is what I said really something outlandish?

What happens when you do just the bare minimum in life, in general? Does that lead to a good life?

If I have to go to hell and back to get a above average girl, I wouldn't settle down. I would be like Owen Cook playing the field. Dating is value for value. And men are allowed to set standards too. If Owen doesn't want to settle down that is his privilege. 

Edited 5 hours ago by AION

[Alexop]

The only good thing with him is that he inspires young men to step it up. It is a crucial thing that most guys need right now. To start taking responsability for their lives, especially in regards to emotional maturity not just career and money. 

It is absolutely shocking  when I go to an event or smth and see 20-25 men who are behaving like lost boys. Are we amazed that women lose interest in men? I would too after 50 such weirdos come and creep me up.

Edited 5 hours ago by Alexop

[Sincerity]

6 minutes ago, AION said:

If I have to go to hell and back to get a above average girl, I wouldn't settle down. I would be like Owen Cook playing the field. Dating is value for value. And men are allowed to set standards too. If Owen doesn't want to settle down that is his privilege. 

I was just talking about your statement quoted in my first reply. I don’t know what you’re responding to here.