On women settling for average men

[LordFall]

This is a great post to read, it's about a guy who makes good money who overheard his fiancee talking about settling for him and not being that attracted to him but it works it's fine.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1rmhy5c/wibtah_if_i_left_my_fiancee_destitute/

I don't think this is something to be too concerned about if you have some decent self-awareness but it's a good example of why learning game and seduction is really important to have a high quality relationship. Otherwise it's very likely that if your partner questions herself if she hasn't already she'll just find you okay but because she's in scarcity like most humans she'll go with it to have a family and a decent standard of living. 

You can be a fun and exciting guy that learns to flirt with his girlfriend that has shit shit together it's not that hard even though a lot(probably most men) seem to fall short. Level up and become a world class man, I believe in you boys you got this.

This subreddit is one of the best ones on all of Reddit as it lets you learn vicariously from other real people's experiences. 

This relates to my other post on most men having no idea how low level they are; this guy just found the easy way actually. The hard way is when your girl actually cheats you and dumps you in a time of weakness.

 

Edited 10 hours ago by LordFall

[Valach]

This is just fear based behaviour, it is not really healthy. Game is also not as foundational to healthy relationship dynamics as you would think. Been there, done that.

[Hojo]

Men dont understand how often woman shit talk their husbands behind their back. I work with many woman and they are constantly doing it. Its like a daily thing. I work with philipino woman and white woman and I have never heard the philipino woman do it but like 60 percent of the white woman do it.

Edited 32 minutes ago by Hojo