Why Love

[UnbornTao]

There does not seem to be anything we're more willing to deceive ourselves about than love as a fantasy. But go ahead. Just don't confuse your proclivities and wishful thinking for the truth. 

Edited 9 hours ago by UnbornTao

[Natasha Tori Maru]

9 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

There does not seem to be anything we're more willing to deceive ourselves about than love as a fantasy. But go ahead. Just don't confuse your proclivities and wishful thinking for the truth. 

You just need a hug and a kiss - MUAH!

[Ziran]

On 2/12/2026 at 0:02 AM, James123 said:

Reality seems to twoness, but, it is oneness.

Oneness is not non duality or duality, good, bad, ugly, mind, mindless, anger, fear, happiness, joy etc.. it is when words of becomes identical, any sound is identical, therefore what is sound, even what is "what is".

That's when becomes one and when expectations end

Therefore, that's why love is the moment of true living. Love is not a feeling, mood etc... Love is essence of entire existence. 

Entire creation, universe, existence, infinity is just to be in love, be the love for just a moment. 

 

"... when becomes one ..."

" ... when expectations end ... "

"... the moment of true living ... "

 

you're describing love in the form of integration?

 

[UnbornTao]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

You just need a hug and a kiss - MUAH!

Shure. 

[Ramasta9]

Step out of your minds and enjoy the music  the real answer comes in feeling not thinking. 

[Dazgwny]

I don’t think any of yous understand love. Infinite love. Absolute. I think yous think you do. But don’t. It’s still an emotion to you. It might be the strongest emotion ever you’ve experienced. But still emotion. At ludicrous levels. This isn’t the love Leo talks about. It’s easy to sit there and agree, and accept, why love is no difference between seeming good and evil. There is no evil, there is no difference between right or wrong. But some of you who claim to accept this post, will still dislike it. But yet accept it. That isn’t it. Love isn’t acceptance. Love is love. It’s impossible to explain. You just have to become it. Love isn’t loving anything and everything. Love IS anything and everything. Love is why there is evil, love is why there is murder, torture, rape, all the horrible shit that goes down, along with all the pleasurable so called good shit that goes down, and more. I see this forum, and it’s people, views and opinions, insights and all, and never really do I truly see anyone, certainly from what is written, that truly understands love. Love is so monumental, so big, so infinitely big, that it is so misunderstood. This acceptance nonsense though, is not it. Anything that carries emotion, is not it. If you reach infinite love, you are dead. It is that simple. You can’t reach it without having died. So anyone who says they’ve got it, but hasn’t died, hasn’t got it. It would be a myth, a trick of the mind. How do I know this? Because I died, reality ended. Yet here I am. Make of this what you will. Death isn’t what you think it is. Reality isn’t what you think it is. But remember, don’t physically harm yourself to try and find out. Because you won’t be back in this dream to realise it. It’s all a mind thing. Reality is mind

[Joseph Maynor]

1 hour ago, Dazgwny said:

I don’t think any of yous understand love. Infinite love. Absolute. I think yous think you do. But don’t. It’s still an emotion to you. It might be the strongest emotion ever you’ve experienced. But still emotion. At ludicrous levels. This isn’t the love Leo talks about. It’s easy to sit there and agree, and accept, why love is no difference between seeming good and evil. There is no evil, there is no difference between right or wrong. But some of you who claim to accept this post, will still dislike it. But yet accept it. That isn’t it. Love isn’t acceptance. Love is love. It’s impossible to explain. You just have to become it. Love isn’t loving anything and everything. Love IS anything and everything. Love is why there is evil, love is why there is murder, torture, rape, all the horrible shit that goes down, along with all the pleasurable so called good shit that goes down, and more. I see this forum, and it’s people, views and opinions, insights and all, and never really do I truly see anyone, certainly from what is written, that truly understands love. Love is so monumental, so big, so infinitely big, that it is so misunderstood. This acceptance nonsense though, is not it. Anything that carries emotion, is not it. If you reach infinite love, you are dead. It is that simple. You can’t reach it without having died. So anyone who says they’ve got it, but hasn’t died, hasn’t got it. It would be a myth, a trick of the mind. How do I know this? Because I died, reality ended. Yet here I am. Make of this what you will. Death isn’t what you think it is. Reality isn’t what you think it is. But remember, don’t physically harm yourself to try and find out. Because you won’t be back in this dream to realise it. It’s all a mind thing. Reality is mind

This is why I tend to think that Love requires Truth but actually goes beyond it.  It requires Embodiment not just Understanding.  There's a necessary mystery with Love because it's about Relation and the magic of communion with Truth.