You are not Succesful, you are Lucky

[UnbornTao]

Stop defending your victim's mentality so much 

Survival is life.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 hours ago, SQAAD said:

@Natasha Tori Maru

It's not.

At the end of the day you are gonna pay a price for every action. Every extra stress ruins the body. This is unavoidable.

I am already taking care of everything i need to.

Lastly, you don't know, what i need to know or not.

You have revealed a lot of your circumstances on the forum.

I go by what you, yourself, have admitted to.

You aren't this fragile little snowflake that will dissolve into uselessness with the hint of a warm breeze.

Sorry to be so harsh and blunt, but you need to consider that if you didn't have these concepts running around in your head, they would not be placing extraneous stress on top of your current issues (whatever they may be). The placebo effect is real. Your mind is creating stress through these ideas. 

You want your circumstances to be not your responsibility - you want to blame everything external. Forget all that and simply focus on what you have the power to change.

If you were taking care of everything you need to, you would not be having the experience you are currently.

This wild contradiction is at the heart of your repeated cognitive dissonance.

I won't bother you any longer with my replies, as I can see the futility of this.

Only know, that I want the best for you. And these hard words are a form of compassion and care.

x

[Leo Gura]

5 hours ago, SQAAD said:

@Leo Gura

Your responses seem kinda odd.. I'm confused.

Initially i said that i care about health and money and you made it sound these things can't go together and that i don't really care about money..

Please answer me this for practical purposes: I am a quite active person and take good care of everything i need to take care of throughout the day.

I have began doing some things to increase my survival gains.

My barrier is this: After a certain point of doing some type of 'work' to earn money, i feel stress hormones rising up to a toxic point. And i know that i lf i continue i will do damage to my body.

Stress damages the brain and deteriorates all bodily tissues. I have also felt this.

So this has been stopping me from working like a madman.

And when i don't listen to these signals, i always pay a price afterwards.

I am 32 but i look 25. But i don't have much money.

Previous guy i worked for was 36 years old but he looked 42-43.

I am not satisfied with having little money in my pocket. But i also value health like a madman. I know how important it is.

I don't know what to do anymore. But i feel i am on the right path.

The practical answer to your dilemma is:

You need to find a more intelligent way to making money. A more intelligent way will require less work, not harm your health much, and generate lots of money.

Put simply: work smarter, not harder. There are many highly creative ways to earn lots of money which require relatively little work. But it requires a lot of creativity and intelligence to find those ways.

[hyruga]

@SQAADessentially you value health over money. If you need or want more money, then you need to decide how much health you are willing to sacrifice to earn more money.

[Yali]

29 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

There are many highly creative ways to earn lots of money which require relatively little work. But it requires a lot of creativity and intelligence to find those ways.

How do you find those ways? @Leo Gura