You are not Succesful, you are Lucky

[SQAAD]

I have noticed some disturbing things in this Reality that noone talks about.

The most intelligent, the most conscious human beings have the access to the least amount of 'cheese' possible.

The most unconscious, the most egostistical, the most ruthless and the most deluded have the most access to 'cheese'.

This whole society .. What is this whole society about? It's about gaining access to 'cheese'. That's it. It's that simple.

Cheese is access to the most fertile women possible. Access to the best food possible. Access to the most money possible. Access to the most fun possible. Access to the most attention possible.

Just by the fact that you are in the public eye, this activates women's psychological mechanisms and many will perceive you in a different light.

Just by the fact that the right person likes you, your whole life takes a whole different trajectory than that it would normally take.

The people who have the most access to cheese are not the ones who worked harder.

They are the ones who were the most lucky and the least selfless.

This whole society when viewd by a higher perspective could be described as follows:

"Humans are chimpanzes addicted to 'cheese' and all they care about is their own survival and their own pleasure. Humans deny how much of an animal they are by making up all sorts of stories and giving authority to other chimpanzes who have access to the same kind.of cheese they want."

 

Edited 15 hours ago by SQAAD

[Leo Gura]

You get what you care about.

If you care about money, you get money. If you care about sex, you get. If you care about fame, you get fame. And if you care about nothing, you get nothing.

[SQAAD]

@Leo Gura

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You get what you care about.

If you care about money, you get money. If you care about sex, you get. If you care about fame, you get fame. And if you care about nothing, you get nothing.

I care about money but i am not willing to ruin my health or lose my self-respect for it.

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, SQAAD said:

@Leo Gura

I care about money but i am not willing to ruin my health or lose my self-respect for it.

That means you don't care about it enough.

You have to truly care.

Edited 17 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Greatnestwithin]

6 minutes ago, SQAAD said:

@Leo Gura

I care about money but i am not willing to ruin my health or lose my self-respect for it.

Interesting that you hold this belief and worldview. If anything you can have incredible health and self respect while making great money

[SQAAD]

@Leo Gura

20 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That means you don't care about it enough.

You have to truly care.

I care about money. But i also care about my health.

Should i push my body even when it's screaming "nooo"?

Edited 17 hours ago by SQAAD

[AION]

If you care about getting girls you are not getting girls. But on the other hand, ifyou don't care about it, you will get it. This counts for everything in life such as money, happiness, health and so on.

Wanting it signals not-having and that is why money, girls and others thing you want are not flowing towards you.

That is why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. 

If you ever meet a rich person or a guy who is with girls you will see how less they care about it. They can move a mountain with a needle.

To get what you want, you basically need to gaslight yourself into believing it and you will get it. This is known as "mentalism": all is mind. But nowadays they call it law of attraction.

 

Edited 16 hours ago by AION

[gettoefl]

If success comes your way, it's hard to care about truth. Money is your truth - how to make it keep it spend it. What more is there to life, you understandably reason. I have made it. Everyone wants to be me. I am God here. And if I'm not, nobody cares. This is perfectly good enough. There is no way life could be better than this incarnation I am having. I am living the dream. I am loving the dream. And if you tell me otherwise you can dream on.

To not fail is the worst curse.

Edited 16 hours ago by gettoefl

[Ode]

I believe that life is just a long series of sacrifices. You always sacrifice something for something else. If you want to make a lot of money, you will need to sacrifice some social contacts, friends, family, kids. If you want to be great friend, husband and a father it's really hard to also make a lot of money unless you completely sacrifice your health. Many of the billionares are actually miserable because they have sacrificed so much and they don't see the sacrifice paying itself back in any meaningful way. That's why many of them will start to develop some higher usages for the money, like Elon Musk wants to save the humanity from extinction, Bill Gates wants to vaccinate everyone etc. I think the best way to approach this is to be conscious and selective about the sacrifices you actually are willing to make. Maybe even list them out and look at them every day. If you don't do this, your unconscious mind will do it and be your master in life.

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, SQAAD said:

@Leo Gura

I care about money. But i also care about my health.

Should i push my body even when it's screaming "nooo"?

I don't tell you what to do. I just describe how reality works.

[SQAAD]

@Leo Gura

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I don't tell you what to do. I just describe how reality works.

So what do you mean.. That some amount of health needs to be sacrificed in order to earn money?

That's how it works?

 

Edited 15 hours ago by SQAAD

[Leo Gura]

24 minutes ago, SQAAD said:

@Leo Gura

So what do you mean.. That some amount of health needs to be sacrificed in order to earn money?

That's how it works?

There are many ways to make money. Some involve sacrificing health and some do not.

Health is necessary for success though. It is hard to be successful with poor health.

[AerisVahnEphelia]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You get what you care about.

If you care about money, you get money. If you care about sex, you get. If you care about fame, you get fame. And if you care about nothing, you get nothing.

who and what made me "care" about anything in the first place.

I care about having the power of god to get all the things I want without cost.

Edited 14 hours ago by AerisVahnEphelia

[Terell Kirby]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You get what you care about.

If you care about money, you get money. If you care about sex, you get. If you care about fame, you get fame. And if you care about nothing, you get nothing.

Well yeah, but that’s a single perspective on success I feel- your care for something doesn’t always correlate to acquiring what you desire.

You can care about something while at the same time not having means or opportunity for access. The realm of success, power and wealth is very exclusionary by design.

The idea of meritocracy is often a fallacy that we buy into blindly.

Edited 13 hours ago by Terell Kirby

[Ramasta9]

No such thing as success or luck, its alignment. 

[SQAAD]

@Leo Gura

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

There are many ways to make money. Some involve sacrificing health and some do not.

Health is necessary for success though. It is hard to be successful with poor health.

Your responses seem kinda odd.. I'm confused.

Initially i said that i care about health and money and you made it sound these things can't go together and that i don't really care about money..

Please answer me this for practical purposes: I am a quite active person and take good care of everything i need to take care of throughout the day.

I have began doing some things to increase my survival gains.

My barrier is this: After a certain point of doing some type of 'work' to earn money, i feel stress hormones rising up to a toxic point. And i know that i lf i continue i will do damage to my body.

Stress damages the brain and deteriorates all bodily tissues. I have also felt this.

So this has been stopping me from working like a madman.

And when i don't listen to these signals, i always pay a price afterwards.

I am 32 but i look 25. But i don't have much money.

Previous guy i worked for was 36 years old but he looked 42-43.

I am not satisfied with having little money in my pocket. But i also value health like a madman. I know how important it is.

I don't know what to do anymore. But i feel i am on the right path.

 

 

Edited 7 hours ago by SQAAD

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@SQAAD keep challenging yourself to increase your capacity to deal with pressure. Small things every day. One extra thing for a week. Slowly. 

This is how you increase your threshold for stress. Upping your resilience.

Don't just give up when you feel stress. This is a natural response of the body pushing you towards something.

Edited 7 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[SQAAD]

@Natasha Tori Maru

47 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@SQAAD keep challenging yourself to increase your capacity to deal with pressure. Small things every day. One extra thing for a week. Slowly. 

This is how you increase your threshold for stress. Upping your resilience.

Don't just give up when you feel stress. This is a natural response of the body pushing you towards something.

I know all about stress. I used to lift heavy weights for 5 years straight.

I don't know. Unless you are pushing your body to become an athlete. 

Lets take walking for example. After a certain point you are just damaging your body by an excess of glucocorticoid hormones running through your body.

Stress means my body is mobilizing bodily resources so i can survive the thing i am doing. If a tiger is chasing you, stress is great for a few minute sprint.

But prolonged stress, just ruins the body. An arguement could be made if its worth it or not under the right context.

 

Edited 6 hours ago by SQAAD

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, SQAAD said:

@Natasha Tori Maru

I know all about stress. I used to lift heavy weights for 5 years straight.

I don't know. Unless you are pushing your body to become an athlete. 

Lets take walking for example. After a certain point you are just damaging your body by an excess of glucocorticoid hormones running through your body.

Stress is good for mobiliIzing bodily resources you need to survive. If a tiger is chasing you, stress is great for a few minute sprint.

But prolonged stress, just ruins the body. An arguement could be made if its worth it or not under the right context.

I'm not talking about chronic physical stress, I am talking about life tasks in general. 

Wholistically taking care of the things you should attend to.

Don't overthink it. Forget about glucocorticoid hormones. You don't need to know any of that stuff.

Psychosomatic stuff is real. Consider some of this could be mind generated.

[SQAAD]

@Natasha Tori Maru

8 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Psychosomatic stuff is real. Consider some of this could be mind generated.

It's not.

At the end of the day you are gonna pay a price for every action. Every extra stress ruins the body. This is unavoidable.

I am already taking care of everything i need to.

Lastly, you don't know, what i need to know or not.

 

 

 

 

Edited 6 hours ago by SQAAD