Reflecting on my relationship to this forum...

[Kid A]

11 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

A tray cart full of cookies and milk is being delivered to all the valiant heroes defending the honour of women in this thread and on this forum, I hope they'll taste good

I was just waiting for a comment like this. So predictable.

[integral]

5 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Such a man thing to deny all wrongdoing 😒

Its typical of ALL men to avoid wrong doing, thats what most men do. 😎

Make it a forum rule not to talk about the differences between the sexes.

My instict when reading this topic was "oh thats one way woman become masculine". If that was my insight there is nothing i can do about it. I get the issues on this forum with male dominance, at this point just stop the discussions from happening with rules.

Guys.. i thougth about this topic for a decade now, ive read and heard everything, im not misrepresenting anything in a pilled form... 

4 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Usually when we are confident and assured there isn't even a need to defend.

Being called sexist is the same as commiting a social crime, it also interpret the context at a super low level meaning what was said was misrepresented. 

This is like accusing someone of a crime then telling them they're not allowed to defend themselves?

And if they defend themselves you tell them they lack confidence and self-assurance?

And we call it "defence" and not seeking clarity, why?

Yes i could of just ignored everything, would that of been better then seeking clarity and proven to the world im a "real man"? LMAO

So you guys are not playing social games right now?

Its one of does games were the more you try to seek clarity the more they think your childish.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

10 minutes ago, Kid A said:

I was just waiting for a comment like this. So predictable.

I suppose there is an issue there with others motivations & intentions 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@integral Do you think I judge for you making a sexist statement?

Because I just view you as confused and there aren't any social ramifications from myself toward you.

I don't think badly of you at all.

I just see someone still learning.

[Leo Gura]

It would be a good idea for ya'll to consider what I said here earlier: Do not take the forum too seriously. Seriously!

It just works better that way.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Miguel1]

17 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It would be a good idea for ya'll to consider what I said here earlier: Do not take the forum too seriously. Seriously!

For many of us, this is the only safe place for us to be fully ourselves. Or at least close.

In my day-to-day, I am and show like 5-10% of who I really am deep down. Probably less.

Here I pretty much show everything. At least 90%. You have no idea how that ability makes me feel as an extrovert. I deeply crave socialization and connection with people at the core level, but shallow fake inauthentic BS small-talks leaves me utterly empty.

Being shallow and having fake social face all day, and holding my truest self and depth in - then having a place like this to let it all out. Can you imagine?

I could go on much more, but you seem invested in the notion that we should not take this place too seriously! Seriously!

Edited 2 hours ago by Miguel1

[integral]

18 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@integral Do you think I judge for you making a sexist statement?

Because I just view you as confused and there aren't any social ramifications from myself toward you.

I don't think badly of you at all.

I just see someone still learning.

I do not feel negativity towards anyone. I'm pointing out everything that's happening, it's interpreted as defensiveness.

Actually from your perspective i am a sexist, there is no other way to define it in that paradigm.

I'm sorry people experienced sexism today. lmaooo

[integral]

43 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

I think there is like a cognitive schema that is activated for many people when they see women say something on this forum. It's like because they are a clear minority and their woman status is more visible, any explanation for what they say must be "hua- whell, that's because you're a whoamen". But this is a logical fallacy. Being a woman is such an extremely general category, and just because they're the minority in a situation, doesn't mean their behavior is suddenly more explainable by that extremely general category. It's just a heuristic that your mind jumps to because that is what is available to work with.

And how can I prove this? Well, if we were to say "whell, that's because you're maan" just as much we say "that's because you're womon", that would be hella weird. Somehow we don't do it, because it's, guess what — not a very good explanation.

To insist on a bad explanation (not just because it's hyper-general but also that it might even be statistically bogus), when that explanation also puts the women in question down, tries to make them seem inferior, and when pushed on this, responding with "it's true though", and doing this virtually only for women and not for men, is pretty describable as "sexist".

For the love of carl, ok you got me ill only generalize men for now on. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 minute ago, integral said:

I do not feel negativity towards anyone. I'm pointing out everything that's happening, it's interpreted as defensiveness.

Actually from your perspective i am a sexist, there is no other way to define it in that paradigm.

I'm sorry people experienced sexism today. lmaooo

Tone is conveyed with the language we choose. And the perpetuating responses signify various things. Neutrality can be conveyed.

But if this is how you choose to see your actions at this time, it must be soothing in some way.

We aren't conscious to what we are unconscious of

[Natasha Tori Maru]

20 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It would be a good idea for ya'll to consider what I said here earlier: Do not take the forum too seriously. Seriously!

It just works better that way.

We like the dream  

All your mods shredding each other to ribbons 

[Hojo]

@integralThe problem is thinking being called sexist is a social crime. Thats playing into the game. You get baited into thinking something you dont think. Once you surrender your authority to sexism you lose as a man. Suddenly being yourself is sexist and you have to watch every single thing you say and become cucked. You arent being sexist they are being sensitive. I am a meninist. We need more meninists. Whenever you argue with feminist you must agree or you are a child and haven't grown up yet when you are already a man. Look at your body you are a man and saying what a man says.

Edited 2 hours ago by Hojo

[Elliott]

What do you guys mean "we are just being sensitive", being sensitive to hurting other people is a bad thing? You can call Emerald out on b.s. without gaslighting her and demeaning "most women" with baseless attacks, (this thread where she was being vulnerable and not exhibiting bad behavior seems highly inappropriate though). Integral was triggered, he's the one being emotional.

Edited 1 hour ago by Elliott

[integral]

23 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Tone is conveyed with the language we choose. And the perpetuating responses signify various things. Neutrality can be conveyed.

But if this is how you choose to see your actions at this time, it must be soothing in some way.

We aren't conscious to what we are unconscious of

This is true. I FEEL SO SOOTHED 😂 lmFAOOO

My default writing style is hyper "this is truth" autism.

When I use words like "attacked" I do not personally feel attacked. I'm stating what people are doing.

19 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@integralThe problem is thinking being called sexist is a social crime. Thats playing into the game. You get baited into thinking something you dont think. Once you surrender your authority to sexism you lose as a man. Suddenly being yourself is sexist and you have to watch every single thing you say and become cucked. You arent being sexist they are being sensitive. I am a meninist. We need more meninists. Whenever you argue with feminist you must agree or you are a child and haven't grown up yet when you are already a man. Look at your body you are a man and saying what a man says.

I found the right strategy is to just be playful (IRL), and that disarms all emotionally charged events.

Say things like "oh nNnnooOo my sweet sweet sweeeeeet pumPkin (petting her head with 1000x kissis), your always right"

This is a guaranteed technique. lmao

Edited 1 hour ago by integral

[Elliott]

2 minutes ago, integral said:

 

Say things like "oh nNnnooOo my sweet sweet sweeeeeet pumPkin (petting her head with 1000x kissis), your always right"

This is a guaranteed technique. lmao

You do this in real life? That's some toxic passive aggressiveness.

[integral]

I forgot to be balanced!

And as a woman to get a man to be happy with your demands you say "Honey you have suck a big dick can you wash the dishes?". This solves his core problems with the demand and he will immediately obey all orders. lmfao

You guys think I'm being foolish, but this works. 

Edited 1 hour ago by integral

[Elliott]

1 minute ago, integral said:

I forgot to be balanced!

And as a woman to get a man to be happy with your demands you say "Honey you have suck a big dick can you wash the dishes?". This solves his core problems with the demand and he will immediately obey all orders. lmfao

You guys think I'm being foolish, but this works. 

Until she divorces you.....

[integral]

5 minutes ago, Elliott said:

You do this in real life? That's some toxic passive aggressiveness.

??? This is a super effective, loving technique!

She wants to be kissed, hugged and told she's right!

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Sum next level disfunction 

[Hojo]

@Carl-RichardI love men emotionally. This movement is for men to get their power back over the hurtful things feminine has said about them for having innocent opinions. Only a feminist would have a problem with this. You are never bad/ childish/ wrong for having an opinion, like a feminist would have you believe. You are a full fledged man and your opinions are that of a man.

Edited 1 hour ago by Hojo

[Elliott]

4 minutes ago, integral said:

??? This is a super effective, loving technique!

She wants to be kissed, hugged and told she's right!

Being dishonest in a relationship seems like a good idea to you?

This entire dynamic you have going on could probably be cleared up with one conversation, after which you can be honest because you'll actually understand what she's trying to communicate which is probably that she just doesn't feel heard(because you literally don't try to understand her).