I went to the dating event and it was amazing

[Something Funny]

4 hours ago, WonderSeeker said:

Agree with @Zenterus . In addition, learn to enjoy your own company first, then share that vibe with your matches. And let the chips fall where they may. The end result is about connection.

Btw, sounds like a cool event. Gonna see if my city has one... I just moved to Korea 

I've been enjoying my company for 25 years of being alone. Doesn't help much, tbh.

[Something Funny]

5 hours ago, Jowblob said:

@Something Funny

I give you some tips for the next date to build emotional connection, first of all you have to understand that emotional connection is nothing more then your own consciousness state and the date will be a reflection of your state.

1. Don't masturbate for atleast 15 days, the sperm or the energetic aspect of it will make you seem more masculine to the woman and your consciousness will be different. Deep behind the scenes, you're vibrating energy and not an outer shell. You will also have an easier time holding unbreakable eye contact

2.  Hold unbreakable eyecontact and try to become conscious of her body so that you can mimic her body movements perfectly at the same time, this will stun her and she will be in awe of you.

Thank you. It's hard for me to not masturbate for so long, but ok. 

What do you mean by mimicking body movement?

Won't holding eye contact for such a long time make her uncomfortable? The same with being silent.

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3. Keep in mind at all times and say to yourself that you can't do anything wrong, and don't force anything if you don't feel like talking then don't talk, just look into the eyes.

4. World/society/woman is based on your beliefs, remove or forget these beliefs.

I try to, but I can't.

I've been telling myself that I should just go out and enjoy the date, however it will go. But as soon as I left the house, I've started sweating hard.

[Jowblob]

41 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

What do you mean by mimicking body movement?

For example, if she sits infront of you at the dinner table try to become conscious of her body movements and then mimic them exactly/perfectly for example if she leans to you in the chair to tell you something try to time it when she will lean back in the chair and do that movement also at the same time without being too obvious. If she she lifts up her pointing finger to tell you something cool and point at you do the same movement and point at her and saying something. Try to do everything naturally in a flowing state because otherwise its just acting. 

Won't holding eye contact for such a long time make her uncomfortable? The same with being silent.

No, this is how you build an emotional connection with yourself , you should stop thinking that the world turns around your pov, let others do the work too if it becomes silent for example, you should just surrender and say to yourself i'm not doing anything wrong. Because you live in seperation you think the other person is different or someone else. This is why you don't masturbate for 15 days, what you can also do is to not drink any water for 2-3 days or not eat anything for 4-5 days. It will also put you in a different consciousness state, but its just better to keep it simple and not masturbate for 15 days. 

 

 

41 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

I've been telling myself that I should just go out and enjoy the date, however it will go. But as soon as I left the house, I've started sweating hard.

It's important to go there without any expectations, you have to tell yourself in the mind/head "i can't do anything wrong" . Because if you do the things that i told you to do, you're more yourself.

[Schizophonia]

@Jowblob Become the first non dual PUA coach.

[Jowblob]

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

@Jowblob Become the first non dual PUA coach.

The truth is, i had to go through a 49 year old clinical psychologist boss tier lady, to become a sperm donor in the past. She truely/literally fell in love with me during the clinical interview, and i fell in love with her. So i know my thing about woman, as i have also applied things on the clinical psychologist to make her fall in love with me. Also she literally let out some cute moans at the end of our conversation, and came running to me wanting to kiss me 

 

It's all about connecting indeed, like connecting with yourself or falling in love with yourself becoming a child

Edited Sunday at 10:26 PM by Jowblob

[Jowblob]

19 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@Jowblob Become the first non dual PUA coach.

@Something Funny

@Schizophonia

 

Ah yes, i also want to tell you this. At day 30-31 of no masturbation (keep in mind that my kundalini was active) so it might be a bit different for me. But anyway, around day 30-31 i was buying an apartment in Bulgaria and went to a lawyer. The lawyer looked like a very beautifull lady, almost too perfect, and i could sense/feel her energy/warmth from her body. Anyway at the end we had to leave, and she wanted to make a picture with me/us. When they started photographing she was standing away from me because other people blocked her, then she asked for another picture and came to stand next to me. I had a feeling that she did that because i looked beautifull or she could feel my energy, as i understood some mechanics how energies work behind the human shell/apperances.

 

Anyway then we left, and when i was at home the broker send me a picture of the picture of us and the lawyer. In the picture she looked like a totally different person 100%, like her human apperance. Like it was a total different person. Welcome to non duality.

Keep in mind that going for too long without masturbation/porn might risk in some kundalini symptoms/awakening at the base, so keep that in mind. Better to keep it safe and not play with energies, specially when you're still stuck in materialism too much meaning school/work no ownership of a house limited freedom etc, better to solve these things first.

[Something Funny]

@Jowblobnot sure what you mean by kundalini, but interesting story nonetheless.

I didn't get a chance to get into the whole energy thing yet.

Edited yesterday at 11:15 AM by Something Funny

[Something Funny]

Guess who is going to a movie with a new girl this Sunday 

Edited yesterday at 11:08 AM by Something Funny

[Rishabh R]

@Something Funny Congratulations again.

[Something Funny]

@Rishabh Rthanks

She is from my work and is super cute!

[Yimpa]

On 10/18/2025 at 2:04 PM, Something Funny said:

There were 8 guys and 6 girls (it was supposed to be 7 girls,  but 1 didn't come).

She must have been really attractive. I wonder who it could have been? 🤭

[eliasvelez]

On 24.10.2025 at 11:36 PM, Something Funny said:

The date was meh... I didn't embarrass myself and nothing horrible happened, but I couldn't really build any connection between us. We talked but it felt very awkward, forced, and robotic. Basically a dry exchange of facts and opinions with a pinch of fake niceness.

I watched this video before going
 

And that's how I wanted the date to go. Deep, intimate, heartfelt conversations and real emotional connection. But I couldn't get anywhere near that. 

There was also no physical contact aside from a hug at the beginning and the end and no romantic vibes at all. Zero flirting, zero intimacy, zero sexual tension.

And the moments of silence were awkward and uncomfortable.

To be honest I also didn't really feel attracted to her, but that doesn't change the fact that I am really bad at this. Mostly, I feel disappointed. I feel like I didn't really push myself and didn't make any progress.

Hey my tip for the next time. When you „try“ to get somewhere, you will fuck up the date. Just be. Dont try to get somewhere, to have a deeper connection, to build tension , be funny or whatever. Be geniue and honest. Be honest with your insecurities. Tell her in the moment when you are nervous. When you have nothing to say and feel to nervous. Pause, breath and be okay with 30 sec of silence. Be just present with her. If you feel like kissing, say that. If you want to touch her but are unshure, ask her… dont „try“… BE… if something „happens“ cool… if not… also cool because you had a genuie interaction… it is not about what you do, it is about what you embody

Edited 21 hours ago by eliasvelez

[Something Funny]

@eliasvelezok, thank you