eliasvelez

Sorry but there is no question about it, a human child.

It seems that the opposition party in hungary is going to get a 2/3 majority ! congrats to the people of hungary <3🇪🇺

https://iucn.org/press-release/202604/world-reaches-milestone-nature-10-ocean-now-officially-protected 10% of Ocean area is protectet now, goal is 30% until 2030

@Cred <3

I just wanted to do a dancing project. so I had the Idea to go around with the bike in the city and find the ugliest spots where I could dance. Near from where I live I found this bridge under a highway so the next morning I packed my camera, a nice top that I love and started to dance for some short time because it was so cold. After that I played with after effects and learned the basics by doing. I talked with a friend today and he proposed that I do this kind of videos regulary because I could be on something. enjoy!!

I am still reading but good text! It goes straight to the point. Texts like this should be tacklet in school. Even in the swiss school system, countless hours are wasted on BS while there is no hour invested ro really understand important stuff like this

funny, not only are your views very right wing but also your victim mentality is

You are talking about absolute truth. Leo seems to be talking ablout relative truth. If you orient everything in life about absolut truth, why are you even breathing when breath is just an imagination? Why bother ablout argumenting?

I dont agree with murder and I think what Luigi did is murder! At the same time, dont you think that if you exploid millions of people and probably take some responsibility for a lot of deaths because you put profit over everything that there will not be consequences? I think what is lacking is accountability and too much people in this Capitalist system dont get hold accountable. Even here in Swizerland, the guys who are responsible for the downfall of Credit Suisse and put the System at the edge of a collabse are lecturing in universities, becoming politicans or opening consulting firms. So if you dont understand his motives, I do and I even sympathise with them. Im fcking sick of a system where predators of Society dont get held accountable and are getting the easy way out.

The therapy that is transforming my life is Somatic Experience. Its relatively new. It was particularly used for shock trauma but I figured and use it for developmental trauma. I think most peiple would profit from knowing Somatic Experience. I dont even go that often to therapy but what is the most transforming(in my case because I have developmental trauma) is the integration and practice that you do in everydaylife. The navigation and soft self regulation. Im talking about the tools you learn while in therapy. But also the therapy of course is very powerful. I really resonate with this practice because its not about indulging in ideas and toughts about the past or future but it works with what is here now, what are the symptoms of the trauma and how are they the key for the healing?

I must say I didnt read the whole text but with trauma I know that Somatic Experience is one of the best therapys out there. Mabey you can take a look on it and if it speaks to you see if there is an therapist near you that practices that. (In somatic experience you learn tools for self regulation but there is no way that you can heal your trauma alone!)

How about sitting next to her in the next date? At a bench, in the park in the grass. And what I do when im not shure is I just ask: „I feel like holding your hand, is that okay?“ „I feel the urge to put my head on your shoulder, how do you feel about that?“ or I come closer, shoulder to shoulder and ask her if it is okay or I tell her how it is for me in this moment „I feel a bit shy being so close to you…how is it for you?“ Sincire and withlout excusing myself. I ask myself, what do I want? And then, how do I own my actions and lead to that ? Either by owning it and doing it or bey just communicating it. Open communication is such an Icebreaker. I got appeoached once by a girl while walking home because of some shirt I was wearing, we talked, after like 1 hour we where cuddleing at some park bench and after 2 hours she invited my to her appartement. Btw one of the best tips I got on kissing is: when you are at a date, and you feel like if she would initiate a kiss and it would feel right and good for you. Than just do it. Make it the right moment. Say it, that you feel like kissing her or just initiate it. But be sensitive, you will feel when she does not want it, relax abd mabey later…. And when you „try“ flirtinf, that is the moemnt you are not doing it. Be present, courious, show yourself, hoe you are and express what is real now for you. Flirting happens then, when you are real and in connection

Hey my tip for the next time. When you „try“ to get somewhere, you will fuck up the date. Just be. Dont try to get somewhere, to have a deeper connection, to build tension , be funny or whatever. Be geniue and honest. Be honest with your insecurities. Tell her in the moment when you are nervous. When you have nothing to say and feel to nervous. Pause, breath and be okay with 30 sec of silence. Be just present with her. If you feel like kissing, say that. If you want to touch her but are unshure, ask her… dont „try“… BE… if something „happens“ cool… if not… also cool because you had a genuie interaction… it is not about what you do, it is about what you embody

Yes its true. Its that people get more consiouss. I see it in my social circle and also in the younger people from the scene.. and also in me. Alcohol free beer, only staying until 11:00 pm… in my city the clubs and night venues are really struggeling. It doesnt mean that people dont go oute anymore. But the activities just change

For me, it is the contrary. With the right people I had in dates and in friendships and contexts like specifivc meditative authetnic relating practises experiences of truth and deep connection, even some slightly higher states of consciousness. For example, in the last date I had, I was committed to truth and being me, real, naked. It was so intimate and honest that after 3 hours in the end, the girl said it felt like a speed run of a whole relationship. Or I had en experience with someone where where I dug deeper and deeper in my fears where I had the revelation that I have an excistencial guilt of being born into existence, that was for both of us a very psychedelic experience because it was so honest and raw. I think relationships and experience of connections can be a support for a deeper integration of truth in life and also a support, if done very consciously. But of course, there are probably limits at some point where if you want to go deeper it is not supporting anymore but there is a lot of potential.