I used Leo's advice and now I'm heartbroken

[Hojo]

@Joshe Yes we have all felt it. But if you do it still as a man then you are missing something your child self came up. The emotion you feel is coming from you not the experience. And has nothing to do with the experience the experience bring out an emotion you don't let yourself feel.

Edited yesterday at 03:43 AM by Hojo

[meta_male]

7 hours ago, Joshe said:

Look, there's an argument that full-grown, experienced adults should be berated and/or humiliated for such behavior, but don't knock a goddamn youngster who's doing his best and means no harm. At least soften the criticism to something like @theleelajoker did. Don't call youngsters cringe or make fun of them.

Nobody called anyone cringe. If you’re posting here, you’re an adult and accountable for your decisions. Text is fine, sharing your milestones is fine, but the underlying issue got ignored. Even worse, the mod stayed silent. Cheering on is easy, cleaning up a mess later not so much. Posting photos of people without their consent – especially in sexual context – just makes this forum look cheap.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

It is an unknown if @Husseinisdoingfine had prior permission to post the images.

[meta_male]

@Natasha Tori Maru Solid policy. So photos in sexual context are fine unless proven non-consensual? Are you saying I could open a thread called "All the trophies I fucked, big milestone for me" (I'll make sure I won't show any nipples in photos)? See how absurd that sounds?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@meta_male

Speaking for myself, as moderating is an individual thing - I didn't perceive the ending of the story as concluding as being sexual. It may have started that way, but by the conclusion of the narrative I read it as a genuine shared experience of fun and connection. As a new experience to people this can be profound. It also appeared to me that @Husseinisdoingfine found more value in the shared experience without sex being involved. The images I glanced over did not seem objectifying or sexual at all. Just my perception. Due to perception bias we have many moderators who are active for this reason.

So, I think your example is more extreme and would be clear cut to moderate. There also would have been reports from other users. 

Easier to take decisive action in your example.

Any of the other moderators are free to express their view and how they would have dealt with it. Hussein was very quick to realize and sensor without any action taken by the mods. So I think perhaps it was a good learning experience.

Edited yesterday at 09:10 AM by Natasha Tori Maru

[meta_male]

@Natasha Tori Maru I'm open to hear what other mods think. It would also be interesting to hear what the two girls think about their photos having been posted online here, maybe @Husseinisdoingfine can ask them and provide feedback.

Sure, it's a learning experience, but also a missed chance for the forum to show real standards. Waiting for reports isn't leadership...

[Natasha Tori Maru]

If you have some issues with moderation please raise it with Leo

[meta_male]

25 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

If you have some issues with moderation please raise it with Leo

On it.

[Husseinisdoingfine]

On 9/2/2025 at 1:43 PM, samijiben said:

"I bear witness to the reality that I am a titty devil and Leo Gura is the motherfucker that I use to buttress this point while simultaneously ignoring it because, deep down, I know better."

Mashallah

Definitely the most unhinged reply.

Thank you, I needed this.