Never_give_up

What spiritual practices can someone do and why?

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My life has no meaning. I have huge problems with boredom that make me unable to do any activity  that I want, this is not laziness it's a real problem. Also I live in very bad social enviroments and I need something else to focus on my life.

Will spirituality and spiritual practices make me happy? What spiritual practices can achieve? Will they just make me numb or I will have bliss?

I prefer easy spiritual practices if such thing exist cause my boredom will not let me do anything difficult. What does every spiritual practice achieve? do all spiritual practices achieve the same?

 

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14 minutes ago, Never_give_up said:

What does every spiritual practice achieve? do all spiritual practices achieve the same?

Freedom from boredom, but you have to accept being absolutely bored.

Start by sitting still with your eyes closed and notice the boredom and what it wants you to do. Instead of getting up and doing what the boredom wants you to do, tell yourself that you will be ok just sitting there. If that is hard, I made a small guide for meditating:

 

 

Edited by Carl-Richard

Intrinsic joy = being x meaning ²

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Hey @Never_give_up, when i first started trying to overcome my own depression and general malaise I also suffered a lack motivation. It takes patience but if you apply consistent pressure towards generating awareness, you'll stand a chance of finding satisfaction with your life. I started small (and even failed a few times), 5 minutes of simple meditation (no mind, just let your thoughts float past) per day and a walk around the block in the sun, I added 1 minute every week to my meditations, and in time, ended up finding peace of mind. 

It's tough out there, try to be kind to yourself and set boundaries with people who enter your life. 

All the best.

Edited by jdd243

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Who's the one doing your boredom - and your experience?

Notice: wanting something is doing it. Desire and intention are different. If you end up performing an action, you intended (wanted) to do it. If not, you didn't. This is useful to get clear on. 

Master a skill, find a way to contribute positively to the world, commit to something greater than yourself.

15 hours ago, Never_give_up said:

What does every spiritual practice achieve? do all spiritual practices achieve the same?

It depends on the spiritual practice. Look up Vipassana - they offer a 10-day course led by a skillful teacher. 

Actually, here it is:

 

If you like, you could start with 20 minutes of daily meditation every morning, which has a positive impact on the rest of your day, even if subtle at times.

You could also try different forms of physical exercise and see what hobbies or sports you prefer. Going to the gym, for a run, or just for a walk can be hugely beneficial too.

Edited by UnbornTao

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Do the 100,000 prostrations of Dzogchen.  The Tibetan Lamas say that after completion laziness  permanently leaves and is not possible.


Vincit omnia Veritas.

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3 hours ago, jdd243 said:

Hey @Never_give_up, when i first started trying to overcome my own depression and general malaise I also suffered a lack motivation. It takes patience but if you apply consistent pressure towards generating awareness, you'll stand a chance of finding satisfaction with your life. I started small (and even failed a few times), 5 minutes of simple meditation (no mind, just let your thoughts float past) per day and a walk around the block in the sun, I added 1 minute every week to my meditations, and in time, ended up finding peace of mind. 

It's tough out there, try to be kind to yourself and set boundaries with people who enter your life. 

All the best.

You are a nice guy, you used your 4th post to cheer someone else. That's a swell thing to do.


You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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Do Islamic prayer . You hold your hands together and pray quietly then you bow down and your forehead touches the floor and you thank god and praise him (it) and express gratitude for whatever God has given you in this life . Bored?  Dude do you realize that you EXIST and that there is literally a THOUSAND interesting things you can get off your ass and do RIGHT FUCKING NOW? 

 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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