Healthy ejaculation frequency

[cistanche_enjoyer]

For a healthy young male with a high sex drive, what is the optimal frequency of ejaculation?

Too much and it drains you of your vitality, but if you try to repress it, it can also backfire. Have you tried experimenting in this regard?

[aurum]

12 minutes ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

For a healthy young male with a high sex drive, what is the optimal frequency of ejaculation?

Too much and it drains you of your vitality, but if you try to repress it, it can also backfire. Have you tried experimenting in this regard?

If you're having sex, it doesn't matter at all. Just have sex when you want and forget about it otherwise.

It only matters if you're single and looking to meet someone. In that case, I find it's good to cut down since too much ejaculation can diminish some of your motivation. You'll pass up opportunities you shouldn't.

[CARDOZZO]

1x week

[cistanche_enjoyer]

13 hours ago, aurum said:

It only matters if you're single and looking to meet someone.

But what about transmuting this energy for other purposes, like spirituality or business? 

[Schizophonia]

Maximum 1x day for me is optimal 

[samijiben]

You answered your question: too much repression and it backfires. 

This applies to all activities that can be turned into addictions. 

Balance is Key.

Jerking off is like "having sex."

Whereas "masturbation" is like making love 

Bare with me here as I provide an explanation which might help you navigate this ejaculation-business. 

See, you can do masturbation consciously. It can be an extremely profound and passionate experience... a mystical experience... where the ecstasy of the orgasm lasts the duration.

But then there is "jerking off." This is more like smoking a cigarette. Because you are addicted. Oh, shit, I better start rolling up ANOTHER cigarette and put it in my mouth and light it and inhale... this is unconscious behavior. 

Same logic applies to sex. Merely just "having sex" is like "jerking off." What's the point, anyways? It's not conscious. It's the unconscious pursuit of pleasure.

"Making Love," on the other hand, in this analogy, is CONSCIOUS. 

To be sure, fuck with my metaphors, the point is (and always has been and ALWAYS ALWAYS will be) Consciousness!

That is the common denominator....

[aurum]

7 hours ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

But what about transmuting this energy for other purposes, like spirituality or business? 

I do not experience transmutation in any meaningfully, noticeable way. 

My motivation towards everything else in life stays the same. It’s only my sex drive that is affected.

Experiment for yourself. Your experience could be different.

[Someone here]

Men are obsessed about cumming since God created existence lol.

Just listen to how you feel . If you feel horny and distracted by it then rub one out . If you feel like you're not horny but just bored and uncontrollably viewing porn and scratching your balls then find a healthy Hoby. 

[Davino]

This is a good rule of thumb from taoist sexual masters:

Taoist recommend to have as much sex as you want but to keep the ejecatulation to these ratios. Remember not everytime you have sex is mandatory to ejeculate. There are ways to have orgasm without losing that energy. Of course once the energy is too potent it has to be released.

 

Edited Monday at 05:09 PM by Davino

[Someone here]

@Davino obviously it's not accurate . Since age is not the only factor at play . Orher factors include diet and libido and lifestyle etc . 

[cistanche_enjoyer]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

Orher factors include diet and libido and lifestyle etc . 

Actually I’d say genetics plays even a bigger role - as with almost everything when it comes to physical health and performance 

[Schizophonia]

Nofap makes me more motivated but also more angry.

[Oppositionless]

Try jerking off without porn. Porn will make you artificially horny, but if you are naturally horny enough to finish w/out I think that's healthy. 

[Someone here]

23 hours ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Actually I’d say genetics plays even a bigger role - as with almost everything when it comes to physical health and performance 

Of course genetics are important .thanks for pointing this out . Genetics are like lottery. Its really a luck competition. 

Some guys have Genetics of not being able to grow a beard ..some guys have the Genetics of having a micro-penis ..some guys have the Genetics of being stallions as fuck they can cum everyday without problems and others are soyboys they cum and clinically die 😂. 

[Basman]

It's like playing video games or watching Netflix. You know when you are wasting your time and should be doing something else. 

I never experience loss of "vitality" or whatever and I jerk off almost everyday.

If my balls get heavy enough I get so horny and bothered that it's not funny anymore. I might be above average horny though I think.

[Basman]

You guys are always adding these magical qualities to busting a nut that don't exist. Jerking off is not a big deal in the slightest.