Understanding This Girl's Psychology

[Salvijus]

Marriages are made in heaven, I'm convinced now. 

[Salvijus]

I would speculate these two have a bond that goes way further back than just this one lifetime. That's really wholesome. 

Edited July 8 by Salvijus

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

The way you described him😭

I have the sense of metaphor

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Its funny to think you thought we meant those  in the vid

We never know with you lol

59 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Just incredible 

The definition of luckyness in unluckyness 

Edited July 8 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

We never know with you lol

I’m very predictable nowadays since I transitioned into zombie mode

[CARDOZZO]

This is hope for all males in the forum. 

If you can't, 100% skill issue.

Stop crying.

Remember: 

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I’m very predictable nowadays since I transitioned into zombie mode

Understood

Edited July 8 by Schizophonia

[Emerald]

People are mostly attracted to one another because of disowned parts in themselves that they see in the other person.

So, attraction is certainly partially physical. But it's mostly psychological and emotional when that attraction is strong enough to yield a longterm relationship. And the physical attraction is just the initial threshold for the deeper attraction takes hold.

In this case, I could see that most women probably wouldn't feel comfortable with this dynamic and would be a deal-breaker for them.

But I can see that they have chemistry together and are on the same wavelength. And other than some paralysis of his mouth, he's not a bad-looking guy in terms of facial attractiveness.

Like, if you look at them both from the neck-up they look like a relatively average couple.

So, I can certainly buy that it's a real relationship that started with mutual attraction. 

[Emerald]

Also, I just looked at a picture of Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes and they're at similar levels of attractiveness.

Honestly, if they walked into a random room... they'd probably be the most attractive people in the room.

[Princess Arabia]

Attraction is not a choice. Plus she feels safe he won't cheat. Plus there's nothing to explain here, it's just projection. Plus most women aren't falling in love with looks, neither are men, real love that is. From the outside looking in it seems illogical but attraction isn't based on logic. 

[Sugarcoat]

8 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Also, I just looked at a picture of Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes and they're at similar levels of attractiveness.

That was my thought too 

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Also, I just looked at a picture of Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes and they're at similar levels of attractiveness.

Honestly, if they walked into a random room... they'd probably be the most attractive people in the room.

I don't find ryan gosling that attractive

[Princess Arabia]

I think Eva Mendes is gorgeous. Not everyone finds the same people attractive. Some people will even think others are beautiful, pretty, gorgeous, and not even be sexually attracted to them. 

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I don't find ryan gosling that attractive

Me neither. He's a'right. 

Edited July 8 by Princess Arabia

[RendHeaven]

13 hours ago, Salvijus said:

I would speculate these two have a bond that goes way further back than just this one lifetime. That's really wholesome. 

lol

[Salvijus]

1 hour ago, RendHeaven said:

lol

You could be right 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

They're weird. I don't like weirdos

[Salvijus]

1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

They're weird. I don't like weirdos

"Weird" is just our inability to make sense of something. Not something actual on the outside. Embracing the weird is the step forward towards deeper understanding. Resistance to weird is a fear of seeing something that you don't want to see. 

Edited July 9 by Salvijus

[Schizophonia]

14 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

I think Eva Mendes is gorgeous. Not everyone finds the same people attractive. Some people will even think others are beautiful, pretty, gorgeous, and not even be sexually attracted to them. 

I don't find her particularly attractive neither, not my style.

 

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Salvijus said:

"Weird" is just our inability to make sense of something. Not something actual on the outside. Embracing the weird is the step forward towards deeper understanding. Resistance to weird is a fear of seeing something that you don't want to see. 

You're weird😏😜

[Salvijus]

47 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You're weird😏😜

I find the word "weird" itself to be weird.