Having Sex with Your "Type"

[Schizophonia]

@soos_mite_ah @RendHeaven 

Nevermind, I wrote this answer because it triggered me for some reason, sorry.

 

Edited July 7 by Schizophonia

[RendHeaven]

@Schizophonia 👊chad move

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, RendHeaven said:

@Schizophonia 👊chad move

Lol, thanks i guess.

 

[Schizophonia]

7 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

hmm 🤗 but what if it's hot? 😈🫠

 

bad move bro. the way you phrased that is insensitive and actually it's not even true. her priorities are intelligent.

I think you meant to say that love goes beyond political preference, but there are ways to suggest that without indirectly calling her stupid

We should make a poll for the girls on the forum 

This SJW or George Lincoln Rockwell ?  👺

 

Edited July 7 by Schizophonia

[soos_mite_ah]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

@soos_mite_ah @RendHeaven 

Nevermind, I wrote this answer because it triggered me for some reason, sorry.

Apology accepted. 

[Someone here]

Why are you with him if he isn't your type to begin with? 

obviously it makes all the difference in the world . I would never be with a girl who isn't my type even if the alternative is being forever single. 

[soos_mite_ah]

29 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Why are you with him if he isn't your type to begin with? 

obviously it makes all the difference in the world . I would never be with a girl who isn't my type even if the alternative is being forever single. 

In the initial stages of dating, I still thought he was cute and I loved his personality and the way he meshed with me. And the more I get to know him, the more I find that he is a good man, that he is a good fit for me in a number of areas of my life, and we have built a very solid relationship together. 

Sure, I have my preferences. But my philosophy as I was dating was that I can compromise on my preferences but I cannot compromise on my standards. He met like half of my preferences and met all my standards. Like, I'm not going to reject a guy based on the fact he doesn't have curly hair. 

Like think about it this way. You love burgers and tacos and they are your go to meal. And then suddenly, you get exposed to sushi. You're not used to the sushi but you're curious and you give it a try. It take a minute for you to warm up to the sushi and next thing you know, it's one of your favorite meals. 

Edited July 7 by soos_mite_ah

[AION]

If you go around the candy shop, I don’t think he will accept you back. If you really want to do it, you should do it. But what I can tell you is that if you went around the candy shop and you are use to that, you are not going to settle to only eating snickers to the rest of your life. It will cause a lot of suffering. Especially if you are a woman. Taraban talks about this in detail. 

Edited July 7 by AION

[Sincerity]

What are you looking for, really, on an energetic/feeling level?

Reality is an illusion. What you’re looking for is not your appearance type in physical reality, but a satisfaction/expression of some kind of energy/feeling. 

Of course there is a connection between the „physical” reality and the „energetic” reality. For example, by „looking for your physical type and having sex with them”, you might be wanting to experience more elevated, hotter energy (during sex). The pursuing of your physical type in reality (if you actually do it) is a consequence, a visualization of your energetic choice. But the choice itself, the energy is what matters. You want to feel a certain way.

It might just be hotter sex/energy. Pursuing sex with „your type” can enable you to satisfy that energy. But perhaps the energy can also be satisfied in some other ways, not requiring you to go out there and leave the guy who meets your standards. Perhaps by introducing some more variety, roleplay,  watching porn together during sex, whatever. Perhaps imagine having sex with someone else during sex with him, however hurtful that is - but perhaps you’ll realize something by doing that! Either „okay no, I love this guy, I don’t want sex with someone else” or „okay this really feels better, I want someone else, I can’t deny it”. Main point being: energy can be satisfied in different ways. Deciding to visualize hot sex with someone else pretty much utilizes the same energy as actually going out „in reality”.

[Salvijus]

Isn't it the same orgasm regardless of the person you do it with? I would imagine the real treasure is the bonding, expansion and the experience of unity, how you get may not even be that relevant. Getting your bf to tantra workshop might produce better results in that direction. 

Edited July 7 by Salvijus

[PurpleTree]

On 2025-07-06 at 7:30 PM, soos_mite_ah said:

I like guys with shorter guys with darker features and a lot of hair. 

Guys with shorter guys? That’s wild

 

[soos_mite_ah]

@PurpleTree LOL I misspoke without realizing it 

I like guys who are on the shorter end with dark features and a lot of hair lmaoooo. 

[Salvijus]

I think what you're really looking for is someone you could surrender to so fully that you'd be transported into an infinite full body orgasm of love. In other words, what you're looking for is Jesus. I'd say go to church and all your sexual fantasies will be fulfilled. 👍

Ggwp, Amen. 

Edited July 7 by Salvijus

[PurpleTree]

30 minutes ago, soos_mite_ah said:

@PurpleTree LOL I misspoke without realizing it 

I like guys who are on the shorter end with dark features and a lot of hair lmaoooo. 

A lot of hair everywhere? On the back, ass, unibrow etc. Or just chest and beard?

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

Isn't it the same orgasm regardless of the person you do it with? I would imagine the real treasure is the bonding, expansion and the experience of unity, how you get may not even be that relevant. Getting your bf to tantra workshop might produce better results in that direction. 

The first sentence; it's like saying isn't it food no matter what food one eats. Isn't it laughing, no matter what you laugh at, isn't it clothes no matter what clothes.it is, isn't running the.same no matter where you run to, isn't it the same talking no matter who you talk with, isn't it the same understanding, no matter what you understand and I could go on for infinity with these examples.

If one.is just.looking to orgasm, then yeah, but I doubt that's what she seeks or she wouldn't even make.a post like this.

[Princess Arabia]

12 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

hmm 🤗 but what if it's hot? 😈🫠

 

bad move bro. the way you phrased that is insensitive and actually it's not even true. her priorities are intelligent.

I think you meant to say that love goes beyond political preference, but there are ways to suggest that without indirectly calling her stupid

I didn't see where he called her stupid, what I got from that was "prioritizing stupid things". Calling things stupid, not her.

[soos_mite_ah]

32 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

A lot of hair everywhere? On the back, ass, unibrow etc. Or just chest and beard?

I mean, arms, legs, chest, beard, down there. Back and ass aren't turn ons but they don't bother me either. 

Unibrow, and armpits are where I draw the line lol. I feel like armpit hair can trap in stink and that EVERYONE needs to shave (or at the very least trim) there. 

[Salvijus]

29 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

The first sentence; it's like saying isn't it food no matter what food one eats. Isn't it laughing, no matter what you laugh at, isn't it clothes no matter what clothes.it is, isn't running the.same no matter where you run to, isn't it the same talking no matter who you talk with, isn't it the same understanding, no matter what you understand and I could go on for infinity with these examples.

If one.is just.looking to orgasm, then yeah, but I doubt that's what she seeks or she wouldn't even make.a post like this.

I think the orgasm itself is the same but the sense of intimacy and the depth of union and fulfillment can differ. Technically speaking you don't really need a different partner to get that, you might aswell reach new depths with the same partner. Although many ways could be valid at the same time. 

Edited July 7 by Salvijus

[PurpleTree]

17 minutes ago, soos_mite_ah said:

I mean, arms, legs, chest, beard, down there. Back and ass aren't turn ons but they don't bother me either. 

Unibrow, and armpits are where I draw the line lol. I feel like armpit hair can trap in stink and that EVERYONE needs to shave (or at the very least trim) there. 

I think it’s interesting where these preferences come from maybe you liked Chewbacca as a kid or something.

But yea i‘m with you on the armpits. A buddy once told me to trim there and i‘ve done it since. But otherwise i‘m also a bit on the hairier side i‘d say. Not much on the back though luckily.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, soos_mite_ah said:

I mean, arms, legs, chest, beard, down there. Back and ass aren't turn ons but they don't bother me either. 

Unibrow, and armpits are where I draw the line lol. I feel like armpit hair can trap in stink and that EVERYONE needs to shave (or at the very least trim) there. 

Funny because if a guy doesn't have armpit hair, I'm looking at him funny. Like, that's what women do, shave their armpits, not usually men. It's not a deal-breaker but I'm so used to seeing men with armpit hair that it seems normal.