Leo, what are the exact steps to start a family?

[Sugarcoat]

Why we asking Leo about the most basic human things. It’s not like you have to be an ultra actualized person to form a family. If that was the case 99% of people would be single and childless. LOL 

Edited July 3 by Sugarcoat

[Sugarcoat]

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Maybe you didn’t read my edit.

I have experience, I talked to plenty of girls.

Each time the more open was the more attractives ones for some reasons.

Maybe it’s just a coincidence but those are facts.

Insomnia is no excuse you just don’t have raging libido , if you had it would trump the insomnia. 
 

When you’re really horny it lowkey gives you energy I remember before I became asexual (lol it’s lowkey my new identity) 

Edited July 3 by Sugarcoat

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

Insomnia is no excuse you just don’t have raging libido

My libido is good don’t worry my chick.

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, if you had it would trump the insomnia. 

 

lol was the French pun on purpose

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When you’re really horny it lowkey gives you energy I remember before I became asexual

What do you mean

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(lol it’s lowkey my new identity) 

Obviously exactly the month I arrive at 

Edited July 3 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

Why we asking Leo about the most basic human things. It’s not like you have to be an ultra actualized person to form a family. If that was the case 99% of people would be single and childless. LOL 

What especially shocks me is that he basically didn’t even kiss a girl and teleport itself to “how to make a family” lol.

There is a strange intention behind the topic.

Edited July 3 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

30 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

My libido is good don’t worry my chick.

Average I guess 

30 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

 

lol was the French pun on purpose

 

I think I used the word trump correctly but maybe I didn’t. There was no pun intended I don’t know of any French meaning to it

31 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

 

 

What do you mean

 

It means what it says. That being horny can make you energized (especially for the action of relieving it)

32 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Obviously exactly the month I arrive at 

It has been like this for a while

I saw what you wrote before the edit lol

26 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

What especially shocks me is that he basically didn’t even kiss a girl and teleport itself to “how to make a family”.

There is a strange intention behind the topic.

Maybe he is saving himself 

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

Why we asking Leo about the most basic human things. It’s not like you have to be an ultra actualized person to form a family. If that was the case 99% of people would be single and childless. LOL 

Everything has become a math problem with an equation to solve. We've turned life into "everything, including taking a shit and brushing the teeth, into calculus". 

[Schizophonia]

16 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Average I guess 

Yea.

I provoked you.

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I think I used the word trump correctly but maybe I didn’t. There was no pun intended I don’t know of any French meaning to it

Ahah ok because in French “tromper” = “trick”.

So you can make the joke “Assez de libido pour trumper (instead of “tromper” in reference to Donald Trump) l’insomnie (“Enough libido to trick insomnia”).

 

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It means what it says. That being horny can make you energized (especially for the action of relieving it)

Ok I see

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I saw what you wrote before the edit lol

I still should do the experience 😏

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Maybe he is saving himself 

No it’s not what I feel.

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[Someone here]

This is something I'm trying to do as well. I'm your age .I would say first step is to stop being lazy and start taking action towards your goal .whatever actions which need to be done you gotta do.  If you need to get financial independence and stable source of income..a house ..a well-shaped personality to take responsibility for yourself and your future family etc all of that needs to be done as quickly as possible. Then you go buy books and courses about dating and pick up. Then you apply that and get a girl and persuade her to marry you .

Then the rest is heaven.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Leo, can you please teach us where are the best places to take a dump and the exact steps on how to take it?

[Av2521]

@NewKidOnTheBlock Many men are struggling with the dating part of their life. Its a serious matter.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Damn, OP was super vulnerable. Not a loving response 

4 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Leo, can you please teach us where are the best places to take a dump and the exact steps on how to take it?

 

[StaraX]

15 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I only know of her what I saw in that one video. In that video she said many valid things.

@Leo Gura It's a bit like someone not knowing who Donald Trump is and seeing him in a single YouTube video where he talks calmly about politics — and then saying, "He makes some valid points."

Tate and Trump might be obvious to you within 30 seconds — but that doesn't apply to everyone. After all, very few people knew the true character of Stalin before he ruled the USSR.

[Spiral]

Build the sort of life a women want to be apart of. 
 

Doesn’t mean rich but fun, exciting somehow.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

3 hours ago, Av2521 said:

@NewKidOnTheBlock Many men are struggling with the dating part of their life. Its a serious matter.

 

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Damn, OP was super vulnerable. Not a loving response 

 

I wasn't tearing anyone down. I'm just saying that noone is going to help you in that struggle, and noone cares as well. Just keeping it real. "Loving responses" mean nothing

[Sugarcoat]

15 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Ahah ok because in French “tromper” = “trick”.

So you can make the joke “Assez de libido pour trumper (instead of “tromper” in reference to Donald Trump) l’insomnie (“Enough libido to trick insomnia”).

 

Ok I see

I still should do the experience 😏

No it’s not what I feel.

Ok

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

 

I wasn't tearing anyone down. I'm just saying that noone is going to help you in that struggle, and noone cares as well. Just keeping it real. "Loving responses" mean nothing

No one buys this. Derisive sarcasm is your weapon of choice. 

Loving responses mean everything. It's how you should be approaching others. Not sure how this is lost on you.

You aren't keeping it real. You are being contemptuous of OP. And you are wrong. Others here do care, and are assisting with advice.

[Lyubov]

You should probably ask people who started a family and have a long and rewarding marriage. I'm getting married, and to be honest you have to be really honest with yourself. Marriage isn't a means to an end. Half of all marriages end in divorce. As a spiritual person, it's about being honest and balancing the love and wonder of life with wisdom and inner stillness. My marriage could end in divorce one day, it could technically. We live in the unknown and anything can happen. Starting a family isn't going to somehow make you safe nor an accomplished / valuable person. You are valuable as you are no matter what. I think marriage should be about being the most authentic person you can be and spending time with a person who wants to be authentic and live life to the fullest. Marriage isn't about defining you or earning some sort of status, but many people make it about this and sacrifice something. There are also logistical benefits for it and having a girlfriend in general is nice for companionship and relating, if you enjoy relating. So what that means is you have to be doing all this with yourself before any relationship with anyone begins. How is your relationship with yourself? Do you believe you are valuable as you are? Are you playing games and steeped in judgement? Are you walking a path that is authentic for you? 

Edited July 4 by Lyubov

[Someone here]

On 02/07/2025 at 2:39 AM, Emerald said:

because he doesn't have a wife or children.

Sorry but how do you know that for sure ?

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

No one buys this. Derisive sarcasm is your weapon of choice. 

Loving responses mean everything. It's how you should be approaching others. Not sure how this is lost on you.

You aren't keeping it real. You are being contemptuous of OP. And you are wrong. Others here do care, and are assisting with advice.

First of all, you don't do no loving responses, whatever that actually means, you are just typing some stuff on the keyboard or on your Iphone. Just like everyone else here does. Your actual level of investment into anyone's situation is exactly 0%. You have zero stakes in people's life and yet some of you are pretending like you are these supreme empathetic beings or whatever. It means nothing in actuality. If you actually kept it real you would've told him that he has to figure stuff out for himself, because that's what he ultimately has to do. There are so many different angles from which to look at these topics, he has to pick the ones that best suit him and try stuff out that works for him. In all honesty, you can bet with fairly high probability that whoever is talking about love a lot or tries to mantain this fake positive aura is a fake ass MF a lot of the times, and I do see it on this forum, or even in my life a lot. For me it's more important to be truthfull than loving, and the truth is he has to figure stuff out for himself. And that yall are fake as hell fr

[Puer Aeternus]

2 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

First of all, you don't do no loving responses, whatever that actually means, you are just typing some stuff on the keyboard or on your Iphone. Just like everyone else here does. Your actual level of investment into anyone's situation is exactly 0%. You have zero stakes in people's life and yet some of you are pretending like you are these supreme empathetic beings or whatever. It means nothing in actuality. 

Sounds like some you stuff. Do you really know what peoples intentions are? You don't have to be willing to give someone a kidney to give someone well intentioned support, some ideas, or references to get them started. Haha of course he has to do the work, he knows this! 

But? You didn't even flat out tell him he needs to figure it out for himself. You had to coat it in your cheeky little one liner basically calling him an idiot.

3 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

 In all honesty, you can bet with fairly high probability that whoever is talking about love a lot or tries to mantain this fake positive aura is a fake ass MF a lot of the times, and I do see it on this forum, or even in my life a lot. For me it's more important to be truthfull than loving, and the truth is he has to figure stuff out for himself. And that yall are fake as hell fr

Seems like this is the meat and bones of your response. I'm sorry you've had those experiences, there's certainly a lot of people out there like that. It can truly make you jaded asf and expect the worst from people. Would you say that could somewhat apply to you or am I being unfair? 

At the end of the day, I think of it like a toolbox. Different interactions require different tools. Harsh truth can be like a swinging a battle axe. It's a useful tool but it's not always the right choice. Sometimes using a softer, respectful screwdriver is more well suited lol.

That is, if your intention is to help people. Be honest with yourself, were you really trying to help him when you said that? Or was it something else.