The Purpose Of A Girlfriend Is To Dream Deeper Into The Matrix

[Alexop]

There are many guys who bullshit themselves around here for sure. If I stay here more than 30 min reading comments I die of boredom, but yea these kids have to begin somewhere. 

The bottom line is that in general men's biology is wired for truth. Nature specialized us in creating the safety for the tribe so that women could take care of the children. Humans lived in dangerous environments with scarce resources, like chimps do. Unlike bonobos who have a more matriachal social structure due to their evolution in a less scarce environment. Nature specialized highly social creatures who live in scarce environments so they survive more efficiently. A mama bear has as much femininity as she has masculinity in her. But we humans did not evolve like this. And this is the raw truth, and no amount of bitching and whining will change that.

When talking biology, we talk studies, we talk human history, fauna etc. I only scratched the surface here, a bit of flexing so you relax and introspect a bit.

Of course this contrast is less visible today with so many man-children and retards everywhere. In a sick society, the truth sounds like fake-news.

Of course some women got a more autistic brain like men got and are more fit to seek the raw truth. 

Want to seek truth with us? Good, but keep in mind this is like a war, a war with yourself. A war against the bullshit Inside you. Good luck 🤞 

Edited June 22 by Alexop

[Puer Aeternus]

50 minutes ago, Alexop said:

There are many guys who bullshit themselves around here for sure but the bottom line is that in general men's biology is wired for truth. 

So wired for truth despite most people not caring about it, irregardless of gender? 

Perhaps I'm thick, but don't think you're really connecting your points here anyways? You just talked about hunter gather survival conditions and how some other species were matriarchal.

Men are more truthful because hunter gatherers lived in patriarchal societies? Don't really see how this connects.

50 minutes ago, Alexop said:

And this is the raw truth, and no amount of bitching and whining will change that.

When talking biology, we talk studies, we talk human history, fauna etc. I only scratched the surface here, a bit of flexing so you relax and introspect a bit.

Not sure who you're talking to. Or why the wording feels like I'm back in the 2010s and just scrolled past a owning SJWs with cold hard facts videos. Don't make me get more of my science out guysss.

IMO Leo has already steel manned this position well on his blog and with more than just the scientific lens. But you can give it a shot at expanding on your perspective more if you like.

However, I'm suspicious of pointing broadly to science. Especially this evolutionary psychology vibe. It can all sound very rational and convincing, but much of it is guesswork and storytelling about things that aren't necessarily within easy grasp for direct study. Even if it's relevant, there's other factors at play making things more complicated now.

Edited June 22 by Puer Aeternus

[Natasha Tori Maru]

There is a truth to emotions that hasn't been looked at in depth. Need a deep dive on the topic.

I do believe, previously, Leo has stated he doesn't cover this in his teachings. It is not his focus. 

This doesn't mean it isn't valid & exists.

He is concerned with further elaborating on the masculine path.

For now....muahahahaaha!

[Puer Aeternus]

11 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

He is concerned with further elaborating on the masculine path.

For now....muahahahaaha!

We see you plotting in the corner with your manipulation skills

[Emerald]

2 hours ago, Alexop said:

The bottom line is that in general men's biology is wired for truth.

No, men's biology is not wired for Truth... nor is women's biology. All biology operates in the realm of the Feminine world of matter. So, that operates from within the illusion and serves the illusion.

You will recognize this if you observe how human beings actually operate... or simply observe yourself with thorough honesty.

Human beings are wired for community, homeostasis, survival, and creating meaning from within the illusion of Maya.

And none of those have to do with facing Truth. In fact, we are all wired towards maintaining the illusion... including men.

For example, men who go to war with men from another tribe or country have to convince themselves that the imaginary boundary lines on the globe are real in order of them to engage in that war. They have to trick themselves into believing falsehoods for the sake of community, homeostasis, survival and meaning-making.

This is just one example of how men collectively trick themselves into an illusion for practical (or often not-so-practical) purposes. But you can see plenty of other instances of this in humans regardless of gender.

And generally, God does an excellent job at fooling itself into believing it is human (or some other lifeform) and that the Maya is real. And that's not a mistake or a trap. It's a sovereign choice made by God itself.

What seems evident to me from my medicine journeys is, if God TRULY wants to wake up and see through the illusion of a given incarnation/reality Matrix, it will do so. 

And if most spiritual seekers are honest with themselves, 99.9% of them will realize that they are not interested in waking up from the illusion... even if it sounds like a cool spiritual accomplishment to some of those who are ensnared in the illusion.

When I died (ego death) and there was nothing there but empty consciousness and the false story of Emerald blew away like dust in the wind... the empty consciousness eventually chose to re-constellate the illusion of my life and the reality that I inhabit just as it was.

And that's because it remembered why it created the illusion of Emerald in the first place.

[aurum]

Survival / effectiveness often requires both fantasy and truth. 

You could look at it from either perspective.

Edited June 23 by aurum

[Emerald]

59 minutes ago, aurum said:

Survival / effectiveness often requires both fantasy and truth. 

You could look at it from either perspective.

Sure, that is the dualism of Yin and Yang at work for the sake of effectiveness.

But that is using relative truth and relative illusion to get by within the context of the illusion... and not the realization of Truth in the absolute.

Human beings are not wired biologically for the realization of Truth. And very few human beings are interested in waking up to Truth. Most just prefer to have the experience of this immersive VR headset and to live the story.

[aurum]

14 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Human beings are not wired biologically for the realization of Truth. And very few human beings are interested in waking up to Truth. Most just prefer to have the experience of this immersive VR headset and to live the story.

But that also doesn't mean men and women have the same orientation towards truth.

Survival has created various incentives and tradeoffs around truth. 

[RendHeaven]

2 hours ago, Emerald said:

And if most spiritual seekers are honest with themselves, 99.9% of them will realize that they are not interested in waking up from the illusion... even if it sounds like a cool spiritual accomplishment to some of those who are ensnared in the illusion.

@Emerald You're so wise for this

People have no idea what they're asking for

And your words will fly right over our heads

[Natasha Tori Maru]

26 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

@Emerald You're so wise for this

People have no idea what they're asking for

And your words will fly right over our heads

Yes, and it becomes rather pathological.

When you really pursue something the human tendency is to invest in it. Value it. Pursuit creates investment.

Something 'earned' through pursuit & sacrifice is valued a lot more than something you always had intrinsically. We often construct value through action. 'What's hard to get is worth more'

You have to really question yourself honestly. Are you valuing awakening to God & Truth excessively because of the human tendency around this? 

Edited June 23 by Natasha Tori Maru
Not directed at you specifically RendHeaven, just at Actualizers in general :)

[RendHeaven]

@Natasha Tori Maru I see what you're saying. You can smell "truthseeker" neurosis from a mile away.

In my case, I thought of myself as a champion of truth my whole life, until recently I had an apocalyptic infinity awakening that basically wiped away everything I had ever known or loved. And somehow I was still given the option to go deeper, endlessly, forever.

The cost for Truth is EVERYTHING. No exceptions. You only get everything by giving up everything. Naturally, it must be this way. You get what you give, because you are the progenitor and the receiver. It's just you giving to yourself. So whatever you're not willing to give will not be received. You are are cut off from infinity precisely by the degree to which you are not willing to give up finitude. 

And I couldn't do it. When I came face to face with the TRUTH, I ran away in terror... and here I am.

I made the trade of Everythingness for human life. Arguably foolish - I basically traded a trillion dollars for a pubic hair. But it's my favorite pubic hair. I couldn't let it go.

Though I say that truth is my highest value, when my neck is under the guillotine, I choose life. Forgive me, a weak fool, for being so in love with the finite

[RendHeaven]

This is why I respect Leo. It's clear to me that he actually would trade everything in the world for infinity.

At times that can come off as sociopathic to us (like a lack of concern for human affairs), but I choose to interpret him charitably.

I figure he just casts the net of his love as wide as possible. Which takes boldness and sacrifice. Most of us cast our net narrow, around the specific pieces of our lives that we cherish the most. There's no right answer here. All is love at the end of the day.

I just find that most people think they're more like Leo when really they're more like me or emerald

[Natasha Tori Maru]

34 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

You get what you give, because you are the progenitor and the receiver. It's just you giving to yourself.

The Great Ouroboros. And its consequences. My favourite of the ancient symbols:

Edited June 23 by Natasha Tori Maru

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 minute ago, RendHeaven said:

I just find that most people think they're more like Leo when really they're more like me or emerald

Yes, which is where that neurosis comes into play. Blindly pursuing with the human positive feedback tendency of valuing what is hard. Unobtainable.

Without questioning truly what they value, and in the end, its probably not Truth.

[aurum]

You can still choose Absolute Truth but then live a human life.

It's not strictly an either / or choice.

[RendHeaven]

1 minute ago, aurum said:

It's not strictly an either / or choice.

At the end of the road there actually is a hard diverging split.

Infinity will ask of you (itself) to let everything go forever. And it will really feel final. And you won't be able to tell yourself that this is just a temporary state. You will scramble to stitch together a story about how you as a human took psychedelics, and it will all blow away into dust as Infinity asks again: are you willing to never again return to the human story? And you will probably fold and find yourself right back in your meat suit, kissing the floor with tears in your eyes

If you hero dose 5meo back to back (do not recommend this lightly) you will see what I mean

But I understand your point. it is possible to balance your humanity alongside a higher orientation

[RendHeaven]

15 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Without questioning truly what they value, and in the end, its probably not Truth.

lotta guys probably just need a hug and a kiss lmfao

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

lotta guys probably just need a hug and a kiss lmfao

Hard yes - but admitting that? HATES IT

[aurum]

12 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

At the end of the road there actually is a hard diverging split.

Infinity will ask of you (itself) to let everything go forever. And it will really feel final. And you won't be able to tell yourself that this is just a temporary state. You will scramble to stitch together a story about how you as a human took psychedelics, and it will all blow away into dust as Infinity asks again: are you willing to never again return to the human story? And you will probably fold and find yourself right back in your meat suit, kissing the floor with tears in your eyes

Yes, that's true.

Folding is inevitable. There's no shame in it.

[RendHeaven]

16 minutes ago, aurum said:

Folding is inevitable. There's no shame in it.

🥹