The Purpose Of A Girlfriend Is To Dream Deeper Into The Matrix

[Alexop]

@Natasha Tori Maru i came to the realization that some people will never get the masculine-feminine dynamics. When you say something that does sound opressive towards women their logical brain just disconnects and they interpret everything as they want. The years of post-modern brainwashing took it's toll on society.

 

They might frame complex masculine-feminine dynamics arguments that sound smart but all they advocate for is gender blindness. Everyone behaving the same.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 minutes ago, Alexop said:

@Natasha Tori Maru i came to the realization that some people will never get the masculine-feninine dynamics. When you say something that does sound opressive towards women their logical brain just disconnects and they interpret everything as they want. The years of post-modern brain washing took it's toll on society.

 

They might frame complex masculine-feminine dynamics arguments that sound smart but all they advocate for is gender blindness. Everyone behaving the same.

I agree. 

Too many people just see a power dynamic instead of the symbiotic nature of the masculine/feminine.

[AION]

Guys, these topics are all shit and giggles. I advice you to buy some stocks/options in cat food and accessories companies because these cat ladies are starting to pop everywhere. 

[Alexop]

@AION don't forget the stocks on thought police institutions and LGBT+ flag factories(there will always be orders. Some new faction might add its own square, colour palette on it soon)

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[AION]

5 minutes ago, Alexop said:

@AION don't forget the stocks on thought police institutions and LGBT+ flag factories.

 It is all fun and games but all of this selfishness / vanity will have a huge price. Perhaps AI came in just at the right time to save civilization from a population collapse. 

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[Alexop]

28 minutes ago, AION said:

 It is all fun and games but all of this selfishness / vanity will have a huge price. Perhaps AI came in just at the right time to save civilization from a population collapse. 

Nah, they are just a small minority of extremists, most people are reasonable. The thing that concerns me is the guys that get brainwashed into yes-men wimps. They are so lost and unattractive that you start seeing rich young Swedes dating fat girls from Thailand or women 20 years older than them. The dating world is scary already. And relationships are mutual torture agreements. 

[AION]

36 minutes ago, Alexop said:

Nah, they are just a small minority of extremists, most people are reasonable. The thing that concerns me is the guys that get brainwashed into yes-men wimps. They are so lost and unattractive that you start seeing rich young Swedes dating fat girls from Thailand or women 20 years older than them. The dating world is scary already. And relationships are mutual torture agreements. 

First part and second part of your message is contradictory. Personally I think white women are the biggest losers of feminism. Men will find a way to get theirs. Through the passport bro way or another. But either way, from my own experience, things aren’t looking good like you say. But it is not my forte to fix these things. Imma invest in cat lady stocks and just play the field. In my opinion it is not a tiny minority. It is a good chunk of females that follow the death cult of feminism. Even men who have access to actualized are lost, sick and tired. Just imagine the average joe and how lost they are. 

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[Emerald]

13 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Teal has this girl-boss energy such that it will be hard for her to ever submit to a man.

This statement got me thinking about something with regard to patterns with Teal Swan... as I've been watching her channel for like a decade now.

And it is a shame as she does seem to struggle with surrender.... yet very much prefers a more polarized (man dominant - woman submissive) dynamic in her relationships. She seems to obsessively look for it, even.... like a bit too fixated.

It's like one of the main hang-ups she seems to talk about in her work.

I think her biggest impediment to the type of relationship that she wants is because she's too polarized into Yang qualities like strength, capability, extraordinariness, divergence, greatness, etc.

And she's not very well integrated with Yin qualities like vulnerability, limitation, ordinariness, commonality, humility, etc. (this is also the reason why she draws so much ire from the general public)

And it's the Yin qualities that one must integrate to be "submissive" in a relationship... but beyond that, those are also the same qualities that one requires to have a human-to-human connection with anyone, even in just a friendship capacity.

Even men who are resistant to those Yin qualities will struggle with connection, as polarization into extraordinariness creates a feeling of alienation... and of being outside of nature.

So, this set my mind in motion a bit...

It could even be that the level of intensity of her desires for submission could come from her lack of integration with ordinariness... and a conscious rejection of humility (as she consciously sees humility as an unquestionably negative thing).

So, she goes looking for that through the outlet of a romantic relationship. But of course, none of those romantic relationships suffice because it's a reflection of her own repressed desires for commonality and humility.

But she seems to have this impression that, if she can find the "right" man, she can experience the Yin experiences she longs for. And that requires a lot of humbling experiences to be receptive to.... which she is always experiencing a lot of and is resistant to.

[theleelajoker]

I read through the posts and from my perspective, there are many projections. I see people wanting to see and experience the world in a certain way and consequently creating a story that fits this view. Why I believe so? Because I have direct experience that contradicts certain views.

Not being able to find girls that are into spirituality and truth seeking? Guys, what world are you living in? Not every one of my (ex)GFs fulfilled this criteria, but there are many attractive women I personally know that do. Just talk to them authentically and maybe you'll be surprised.

Relationships and women as distractions? Can be. It depends on how you do it. No one taught me more about life then the the women I dated truthfully and authentically. Female intuition is incredibly powerful in my experience. 

No woman worth dating? My heart was broken many times but life got me in touch with incredible women afterwards again and again. Will one of them cause another heartbreak? Most likely. Will there be another woman that will tend to these wounds and give care, love and gentleness? I don't know, but history tells me "yes".  Was it worth it ? 100%. Even if I was sometimes not able to say this in the heat of the moment. 

You think u need to play games? Well, if you think you have to do this then this will be your reality. I believe the pickup scene ruined perspective on male-female interactions. It's all about manipulating the other person instead of true connection.

You really think women are interested in playing games and manipulating men? I call BS. That's loose-loose. Watch human interactions closely, without prejudice, and maybe your perspective will change. 

My experience: the more authentically I express how I feel, the more life rewards me (also with great women that cross my path)

 

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[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It's not about what I want, it's about what she wants.

I'm saying the masculine-feminine dynamic will fail because she needs to be in charge. It's all about serving her.

Ok, I understand your stance. The word submit can be misleading if the context in which it was used isn't understood. Thanks for the correction and I apologize if I sounded a bit crude with my response.

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I probably read Leos comment wrong, but I interpreted submit = sacrifice. But the only reason I viewed it as such was given Leos context; he has a lot of drive and needs a lot of space within his life for his purpose. 

Often relationships struggle when you have 2 individuals so driven. One participant usually needs to make more space / sacrifice for the other when there is a large life path at play. It's not so common, in my experience, to encounter individuals so driven toward a purpose as Leo / Teal.

Arrangements are heavily negotiated between 2 people. Just an example; both of my grandparents were intensely creative artists. My grandmother shelved her career to support my grandfather willingly, and lovingly. She was a haute couture artist/seamstress at the top of her game. She chose a support role for him. Took care of all household logistics so he could pursue art full time. She continued her creativity as a hobbie. No regrets from her. 

I have never seen a relationship with 2 life purpose driven individuals thrive without one sacrificing to make room for the other.

Maybe he did mean submit though, because the meaning is to yeald to another, similar to sacrifice. There are just lots of negative connotations with the word, as to submit implies you have no self sovereignty in common vernacular. But it is an implication, not always the case 

Thank you for this explanation and he did clarify what he meant and his message is more understood here.

[Leo Gura]

Being the boyfriend of a female cult leader is an impossible position, I feel like.

It works much easier being the girlfriend of a male cult leader. It's more natural.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Thank you for this explanation and he did clarify what he meant and his message is more understood here.

I think your question was pertinent, as there were many ways to read the statement.

Precision with words or additional context is vital with these sorts of catalyzing topics

[Princess Arabia]

6 hours ago, Alexop said:

Yes, I should be locked in a cage.  I would've banned you long ago, but Leo's love is endless. So enjoy your stay here

6 hours ago, Alexop said:

Yes, I should be locked in a cage.  I would've banned you long ago, but Leo's love is endless. So enjoy your stay here

May I respectfully ask what is the reason, if you had to power to ban me, what would be the reason for the ban. Please answer this question because I'm genuinely curious as to what that reason would be. 

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

 

 

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Precision with words or additional context is vital with these sorts of catalyzing topics

But strategic ambiguity is more fun 

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I think your question was pertinent, as there were many ways to read the statement.

Precision with words or additional context is vital with these sorts of catalyzing topics

Thank you.

6 hours ago, Alexop said:

 

 

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

 

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Emerald

I too, have watched Teal Swan for a while.

I feel like she struggles to respect most people.

Men included.

She won't surrender unless she can completely respect a man. And I feel her ego prevents her from seeing others as equal or above.

But this is just my impression.

[Leo Gura]

6 hours ago, Alexop said:

I would've banned you long ago, but Leo's love is endless.

Don't say this sort of stuff.

There is no reason for her to be banned. Stop making women feel unwelcome here.

It's your nonsense that requires endless love, not her.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

But strategic ambiguity is more fun 

HAHAHAHA what a move - this boy, sharp as a tack

He knows we wait like rabid dogs with our hackles up, sniffing for any ambiguity.

The jimmies, they be rustled 

[Emerald]

21 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Emerald

I too, have watched Teal Swan for a while.

I feel like she struggles to respect most people.

Men included.

She won't surrender unless she can completely respect a man. And I feel her ego prevents her from seeing others as equal or above.

But this is just my impression.

Yes, I agree with that assessment.... and I think this difficulty respecting people comes from a lack of appreciation for ordinariness.

And it's challenging, I think, because she has a lot of great points about how people tend to use humility to avoid their own greatness... and to try to be "good" whilst sacrificing so much potential.

And there's a lot that 90% of people could really benefit from hearing, because people's identity of humility can and does hold them back from their full potential.

But for someone like Teal Swan who has such a strong polarization into extraordinariness and such an aversion to ordinariness... it creates this difficulty just relating to people on a common, eye-to-eye level.

It's like disliking humanity to the degree that you try to become a special and beautiful alien.