Best sex you've ever had?

[TheGod]

Best sex I ever had was with escorts. With regular girls it's 50%-50% 

[Yimpa]

4 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Best sex I ever had was with escorts.

It's because I suck like esports 

 

Edited May 9 by Yimpa

[Sugarcoat]

Damn reading this thread when you’ve lost your libido so unable to have sex hits different 😔😅

[integral]

On 3/10/2025 at 6:57 PM, TruthFreedom said:

She wasn't particularly physically attractive, but her openness and quirkiness was beautiful, and her body was so soft. 

I was able to laugh a lot when I was in bed with her, and made her laugh a lot as well. So it was full of joy. And I remember waking up next to her, feeling so peaceful.

That's exactly it, the best sex is when you're with someone where there's no pressure, and you can be yourself. From there because there's no friction it just keeps escalating and escalating and every time you have sex it keeps getting better and better ( because you keep learning and experimenting and enter into deeper flow States).

Also sexual compatibility is important, if you don't have the same sexual personalities it tends to cause friction. I don't want to have sex where I'm calling my girlfriend "a slut", or daddy/dom/little games, I'm not interested in rape fantasies, I'm not interested in BDSM. I like sex where I'm praising her and That's about it. Every time I had to role play for someone it's not enjoyable and it doesn't reach deeper levels at least for me, which in turn means it won't reach the highest levels in general for her. My goal is to give her the best possible experience I can but if I have to role play I have to not be myself and so I could give her a really good experience but the problem is I don't enjoy it. So sexual compatibility is super important. 

Edited May 10 by integral

[theleelajoker]

One situation comes to mind:

When we got started, my bisexual then-gf told me how few days ago she kissed another girl in a bar and then "took her to the bathroom to touch her pussy". Made me so horny and woke a very primal instinct in me to show her what women can not give her. She continued telling her story in her siren-like voice while we were fucking. She was so very expressive moaning. OMG I love latinas 

 

Edited May 13 by theleelajoker

[Lyubov]

On 5/10/2025 at 5:18 PM, Sugarcoat said:

Damn reading this thread when you’ve lost your libido so unable to have sex hits different 😔😅

Me too some, I think it's because I've been with my girlfriend a long time and we are facing financial challenges and life changes, I also think I'm withholding self love. I want to work on bringing it back.

[Sugarcoat]

5 hours ago, Lyubov said:

Me too some, I think it's because I've been with my girlfriend a long time and we are facing financial challenges and life changes, I also think I'm withholding self love. I want to work on bringing it back.

I wanna bring it back too. It’s because of issues I deal with too, emptiness, disconnect within. It’s not fun

[Schizophonia]

12 hours ago, theleelajoker said:

One situation comes to mind:

When we got started, my bisexual then-gf told me how few days ago she kissed another girl in a bar and then "took her to the bathroom to touch her pussy". Made me so horny and woke a very primal instinct in me to show her what women can not give her. She continued telling her story in her siren-like voice while we were fucking. She was so very expressive moaning. OMG I love latinas 

 

White girls > Latinas

I guess those who like Latinas have an inclination to be more submissive/irresponsible or something like that, because they are generally associated with greater sexual aggression.

Before I could appreciate it but now I don't like it at all.

Edited May 14 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

On 11/05/2025 at 1:02 AM, integral said:

That's exactly it, the best sex is when you're with someone where there's no pressure, and you can be yourself. From there because there's no friction it just keeps escalating and escalating and every time you have sex it keeps getting better and better ( because you keep learning and experimenting and enter into deeper flow States).

Also sexual compatibility is important, if you don't have the same sexual personalities it tends to cause friction. I don't want to have sex where I'm calling my girlfriend "a slut", or daddy/dom/little games, I'm not interested in rape fantasies, I'm not interested in BDSM. I like sex where I'm praising her and That's about it. Every time I had to role play for someone it's not enjoyable and it doesn't reach deeper levels at least for me, which in turn means it won't reach the highest levels in general for her. My goal is to give her the best possible experience I can but if I have to role play I have to not be myself and so I could give her a really good experience but the problem is I don't enjoy it. So sexual compatibility is super important. 

5 MeO DMT (largely 5ht1a dominant) makes me horny in a very "pure" way, as I have flashbacks of myself passionately making love to a girl, truly "in love."

While other 5ht2a dominant psychedelics like 4 HO MET also make me horny but in a "dirty" way.
I feel a powerful erotic sensation rising; a pleasant "electric" sensation in my legs, abstract, erotic, synesthetic psychedelic visions...

Ditto for LSD, but it's a more agressive version.

[TheGod]

On 13/05/2025 at 7:52 PM, theleelajoker said:

OMG I love latinas 

 

Me too. 

North American artificial, slavic close-minded, asian too traditional, arabic ideological.

 

[theleelajoker]

On 14.5.2025 at 1:27 PM, Schizophonia said:

White girls > Latinas

I guess those who like Latinas have an inclination to be more submissive/irresponsible or something like that, because they are generally associated with greater sexual aggression.

Before I could appreciate it but now I don't like it at all.

The latinas I met and I was attracted to I liked because of their confidence, their sensitivity and how they let their emotions flow - inside and outside the bedroom. 

No idea how representative this is - it's just my subjective circle of experience.

And there is just something about Portuguese and Spanish accent that makes me crazy 

 

[Schizophonia]

17 hours ago, theleelajoker said:

The latinas I met and I was attracted to I liked because of their confidence, their sensitivity and how they let their emotions flow - inside and outside the bedroom. 

No idea how representative this is - it's just my subjective circle of experience.

And there is just something about Portuguese and Spanish accent that makes me crazy 

 

I see eheh.

I just prefer something softer/sweater 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

On 16. 5. 2025 at 5:54 AM, TheGod said:

asian too traditional

That's a good thing not gonna lie, we should encourage that for women not go against that. Seems like my destination is clear