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Relationship Possibility with an OnlyFans Girl?

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She only loves your wallet.

You'll have more luck with relationships that are built on a social connection.

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16 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Bad idea. She doesn't know or care about you. You are just a chump who pays her bills.

But what if she pays your bills 


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29 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

But what if she pays your bills 

Do you know how many of these girls date guys with no money in their real lives and they love them, They give them money and take care of them while the guy just uses them and cheat around. Not saying this is the case, but not all these girls are gold diggers that do this work, they are just doing it because they can, they provide a service for willing customers and go home to their normal lives.

The problem is, it's the men who criticize this work and say these kinds of things that are unable to separate it from normal life.

Edited by Princess Arabia

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2 hours ago, Basman said:

She only loves your wallet.

You'll have more luck with relationships that are built on a social connection.

So does Walmart and any other business in the world. Some do care for their customers but in the end, it's your cash they are after. You will say but Walmart doesn't sell sex, well selling sex is still a business. Nothing to do with loving relationships. Thats another category.

Edited by Princess Arabia

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8 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

 

This is just a skit and not real.


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Fake or not, I have had interesting conversations with a few of them. Some of them are just doing it because they love it. But it'll be way harder to connect with them because they see you as a client first and foremost. They can't trust your sincerity immediately.

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5 hours ago, StarStruck said:

The solution for men is to develop himself in such a way that he becomes the object for admiration, respect and worship

You know what. It's obvious you don't even know what you're saying and just venting. Don't worship idols but develop yourself so women worship you. 

Why are you even talking about whose worshipping who. You don't realize that you're just giving away the fact that you're worshipping women because it would have never entered your mind to say these irrelevant things that has nothing to do with what he's asking. 

You make posts on here about how much money you're making and worshipping that and making that your idol and how much you love, you know what cause I don't want to keep saying it, you're the one doing the idol worshipping while the OP just simply asked if we thought an OF girl is worth going out with. 

You took this to a whole other level. It's not about who respects who and sees who as cash cows. Wtf do you expect them to do. OK honey I love you, you don't have to pay me; go on now and go bang your gf while you think of me and hopefully the next guy might leave me a tip, but thanks anyway. Don't you make money off of your fucking customers, selling them probably poisonous crap, so why hating on a chick that's doing business for herself. 


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6 minutes ago, Understander said:

Fake or not, I have had interesting conversations with a few of them. Some of them are just doing it because they love it. But it'll be way harder to connect with them because they see you as a client first and foremost. They can't trust your sincerity immediately.

Yeah, you know what, what you said is more reasonable and probably true on a general scale and looking at it from an unbiased level without personal attacks and critical judgements that only shows one's personal disgust with a legitimate business that caters to whomever is so inclined.

They love it because they are making $$ from behind a computer screen where there is no contact. If you notice it's always the same guys hating on this work and the same one's always talking about porn and banging chicks. It's personal for them. Nothing wrong with not liking this field of women, but why hate on them so and call them names and degrade them so. If it wasn't for the men, there could never be this kind of work and it be so profitable. Go hate on the men who have gfs and who patronize these businesses and stop hating on women so. 


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28 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

If you notice it's always the same guys hating on this work and the same one's always talking about porn and banging chicks.

Yeah. Those are the ones who don't have a lot of emotional satisfaction and are "logical". I mean, just appreciate and respect that they even do it for you without caring too much about who you are (not saying that OF-ers are above anyone and you should be a doormat; they can be very deceiving).

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1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

You know what. It's obvious you don't even know what you're saying and just venting. Don't worship idols but develop yourself so women worship you. 

Why are you even talking about whose worshipping who. You don't realize that you're just giving away the fact that you're worshipping women because it would have never entered your mind to say these irrelevant things that has nothing to do with what he's asking. 

You make posts on here about how much money you're making and worshipping that and making that your idol and how much you love, you know what cause I don't want to keep saying it, you're the one doing the idol worshipping while the OP just simply asked if we thought an OF girl is worth going out with. 

You took this to a whole other level. It's not about who respects who and sees who as cash cows. Wtf do you expect them to do. OK honey I love you, you don't have to pay me; go on now and go bang your gf while you think of me and hopefully the next guy might leave me a tip, but thanks anyway. Don't you make money off of your fucking customers, selling them probably poisonous crap, so why hating on a chick that's doing business for herself. 

LOL, a lot of assumptions, projections and adding your own baggage to the thread and irrelevant subjects. I’m not somebody to admired for so I don’t get why you bring up how much money I make. I already said I’m lazy but I make it up with other attributes. In that case my income would another 3x if I wasn’t a fuck up. But money is not my biggest priority right now. My biggest priority is self love. I made a lot of fuck ups with logistics of my business and taking too much risk. I learned a lot from that and grew as a person. Now I get a lot of attention. And I find it an insult that you are comparing me to an OF “worker” who only has to flash her holes for a paycheck that I have. And no I don’t have respect for OF girl. Men need to learn that respect is earned. The whole problem of OP is that she respects her while she doesn’t deserve respect (nor does she deserve disrespect). OP should respect himself above all and get his values straight because girls can smell it and it is repulsive. 

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56 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

My biggest priority is self love.

Do you even know what that means. Loving others unconditionally. Pass no judgements and know that THIS is happening with or without your input and that all your judgements are just fantasies and ideas about what's happening. What's happening doesn't care about what you or me has to say about it. It's just energy at play and has no fucking meaning, only what your delusional mind gives it and why it suffers. 


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1 hour ago, Nemra said:

they can be very deceiving).

I'm not sure what you mean by this but if it's what I think it means, what's deceiving about a stranger showing her couchie to the world and the guy taking it personal and cursing her how she doesn't care about him and just wants his money. Don't look. It's that simple. 


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1 hour ago, Nemra said:

I mean, just appreciate and respect that they even do it for you without caring too much about who you are

I'm not an OF girl but whose doing anything for who. The guys aren't doing anything for the girls and not caring who they are. The guys are paying for a fantasy they chose to pay for and the girl is delivering. Lots of assumptions and biases in these comments without even knowing the insides of this business. 


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2 hours ago, Thought Art said:

 

This is exactly how I imagined it. xD


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2 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

So does Walmart and any other business in the world. Some do care for their customers but in the end, it's your cash they are after. You will say but Walmart doesn't sell sex, well selling sex is still a business. Nothing to do with loving relationships. Thats another category.

Not me. High consciousness businesses don't only care about money. I don't want a bad name in my city. That is more worth than a couple of thousands.

 

19 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Do you even know what that means. Loving others unconditionally. Pass no judgements and know that THIS is happening with or without your input and that all your judgements are just fantasies and ideas about what's happening. What's happening doesn't care about what you or me has to say about it. It's just energy at play and has no fucking meaning, only what your delusional mind gives it and why it suffers. 

Agreed.

But judgements are just energy at play too.

Perhaps you should stop judging judgements. What about that?

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Just now, StarStruck said:

Not me. High consciousness businesses don't only care about money. I don't want a bad name in my city. That is more worth than a couple of thousands.

 

Agreed.

But judgements are just energy at play too.

Perhaps you should stop judging judgements. What about that?

Lol, my statement was not a judging of judgements. Read it again, that's not judging judgments. Telling someone what their judgments are and the impact they have or lack there of isn't judging judgements.


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5 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Not me. High consciousness businesses don't only care about money. I don't want a bad name in my city. That is more worth than a couple of thousands.

What do you sell, and don't say products, what do you sell, be specific. Of course you don't have to answer. 


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38 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

whose doing anything for who

You are right. What I meant is that at least OF girls are trying to do their work, even if those guys are being dramatic about it. Just be a little bit nice to OF girls and be genuine. They (but not all of them) will see that and will care a bit about what you say and want. Am I wrong?

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1 minute ago, Nemra said:

You are right. What I meant is that at least they are trying to do their work, even if those guys are being dramatic about it. Just be a little bit nice to them and be genuine. They (but not all of them) will see that and will care a bit about what you say and want. Am I wrong?

Please be specific with what you are asking. Whose the "who", whose "those guys", whose "they". Too many pronouns of which i'm not sure who you're referring to.


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