Truth Addict

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  9. Posted

    @7thLetter

    A general advice would have to be manipulative.

    You can drop hints, but don't expect anyone to collect them or respond to them. The worst case scenario if they understood your hints is that they turn the tables and get mad at you. 

    There are no guarantees, but you can try.

    You can lie to get your money but you will lose the other person.

    You can plan for a vacation or some other project(s) and tell your father that you need some money, and after you have them, he shouldn't ask you to return them. If he does you can remind him.

    Or you can simply forget about it and invest in your future instead of trying to catch up with the past. And most importantly, be careful next time.

  11. Posted · Edited by Truth Addict

    @7thLetter

    The vacation ticket payment is kind of hopeless, as it was your ticket. He didn't commit to paying you, I don't think he owes you anything here.

    The car payments thing is old, he probably doesn't even remember what he said. It's really inconvenient for me to talk about something like that.

    I'm sorry for destroying all of your hopes. But that's how I would act if I were you.

  18. Posted

    I would go with the face to face approach. It shows the strength your personality and of hers. This one gesture can mean a lot to the relationship, in my opinion.

    Also, older women usually don't take younger guys seriously until they connect with them at least on some level. So, it might take some time to build connection.

    (I'm no relationships expert).

  19. Posted · Edited by Truth Addict

    7 hours ago, FredFred said:

    @Truth Addict What are you even talking about?

    To assume that meditation is a separate process for achieving some future goals is the obstacle for doing actual meditation. Yet, there's no difference between actual meditation and fake meditation except the suffering that comes along as a result faking it, even unknowingly.

    Meditation is literally being in the present moment. Can you not be in the present moment?

  23. Posted · Edited by Truth Addict

    That's exactly what I was thinking! You have a unique style of telling stories. It's hard for me to articulate what I want to say the way you do, but you do it so easily and in a poetic way.

    It's not just my opinion, many people will say the same thing, and many have said it already! ;)

    ❤️

  25. Posted

    2 hours ago, traveler said:

    The ego can't cease seeking, it is the seeking energy itself. The path is utterly hopeless. The ego will turn non seeking into seeking. There is nothing the ego can do, absolutely nothing. It goes around in a circle. There is no final destination, there is no "there." Nobody is "there." Nothing is "here."

    Definitely!

    For the seeking folks, don't take this pointer literally. Try to read between the lines. It's pointing you to surrender the ego.