Emerald

I think it's more about finding the root of why people become susceptible to these contagions... which I believe is shame resulting in disconnection. There's the reason why a Tucker Carlson (and the like) resonates with people and is able to push these buttons. It sits with individuals feelings of disconnection with other people, nature, and the universe at large... resulting in a highly delineated sense of self and other. It's the sense of exile that comes with shame... exile from humanity, nature, and existence itself. So, if that shame and disconnection were to be remedied and people felt deeply intertwined with everyone and everything else and recognized that they are part of nature itself, this kind of "annihilate the other"-triggering propaganda would not be as magnetic or persuasive... and it wouldn't as easily hit a critical authoritarian mass as it has now. It wouldn't have to be resolved perfectly either... as these psychological dynamics are here to stay to some extent, even if humanity collectively heals from our disconnection issue. It's just that currently, there's enough people who are hyper-vulnerable to this contagion, such that it reaches a critical mass... and it gains a stronghold of power. We're also environmentally, WAY more exposed to TONS of information... the likes of which no human era has ever seen. And upticks in information access (including the invention of the printing press) tend to result in a surge of authoritarianism. But if we can remedy the roots (shame and disconnection) this will be like strengthening humanity's immune system against the authoritarian problems we're facing with currently.

This is very much a human thing... not specifically American... and not particular to this era. Every human being is susceptible to this contagion.

This is one of the few posts on this forum that actually lives up to the idea of conscious politics. Most people's idea of conscious politics is just "Let's accept that everyone is on a different part of the Spiral in the Spiral Dynamics model... as the problems we're seeing are just a reflection of low development within that model." And it's like, "Let's look with a critical lens at each of the phases... and let's find the good in each of these phases." But the Spiral Dynamics model is not equipped to explain what's happening now... nor does it provide any solutions. The rise of authoritarianism can happen regardless of someone's Spiral phase... as human beings all have similar needs and psychological mechanisms. And those don't go away or change. That is why true conscious politics requires a deep and compassionate collective psychological awareness of our psychological blindspots and weaknesses as humans... and how we're all susceptible to being weaponized towards enabling and abetting authoritarianism. It is not some great evil... it is psychological illness that every single human being is susceptible to without requisite consciousness to avoid these traps. It's the darkening of the collective human spirit towards a meaner and angrier world. While it's important to push back on the symptoms and not be wishy washy about the problems we're dealing with on the surface level (a.k.a. Stop pussy-footing and weasel wording around and call a thing what it is (apropos of Fascism)... lest we fall into "Passive Enabling" or becoming "Conflict Avoidant Moderates")... one cannot understand the roots of these "political issues" without realizing that 95% of politics is just a collective psychological projection and Shadow boxing with that projection. The same is true with all instances of authoritarianism and mass mobilization towards 'evil' ends that have ever happened in human history. Nazis and Fascists in the 1940s had the contagion. And now, many human beings in many nations have the same contagion... producing the same patterns and symptoms. The main difference is that the world is different technologically and ideologically. So, it looks slightly different... but is ultimately the exact same thing. A hurricane starts the same way every time and has similar patterns. So too does this collective contagion. And if we can recognize it as a temporal and contagious psychological illness, we can find ways to prevent it and treat it. And that's a much better solution than condemnation of those who are afflicted.

Yep... pure Skeksis behavior from both of them... and from Fascists in general.

My experience has been a genuine preference for who I get into a relationship with... sexually and otherwise. Those things always have gone together for me. And I've noticed that women, because we have a lot of options, we tend to go for who we really prefer... which for most women is a guy who's fairly average that she has special chemistry with. Like, I'm never attracted to guys who are significantly less attractive or more attractive than me. The guys in those categories would make me feel unattractive to be with them. So, I am most attracted to men who are in my proximal range of attractiveness... which are average guys. But for men, they don't have a lot of options. So, there's a tendency to fantasize about 10s but to cast a wide net and settle for whoever they can get. I think this also leads into men projecting this "settle for who will have you" tendency onto women and feeling down about "Women really prefer Chads... and they just settle for average guys who can't really sexually satisfy them." And that's because that's the way they feel about women. They prefer extremely gorgeous women that they can't get... but they settle for average women that they aren't that sexually attracted to. So, they feel like relationship is about settling for a sexually unsatisfying partner and assume that women feel the same way about them. And it makes themselves feel sexually inadequate because of this projection of their own "settle for the sexually unsatisfying one" tendencies onto women. But if a woman is with a man, she's probably super excited to be with him in particular. Otherwise, she'd pick a different option because women of most levels of attractiveness can afford to be picky.

I am definitely not wrong. You'll find that 7 times out of 10, guys who believe the "Women only go for the top 20%" thing are just projecting their own high standards and objectifying tendencies onto women. But it might be a different dynamic for you... as I think lots of young guys can just have a fear that no woman will ever like them or prefer them if they haven't seen evidence yet of a woman liking them. So, those narratives (though false) can also provide a less personalized way of understanding why one is struggling to meet someone. It takes the onus of personal responsibility away and says, "It's not that I need to socialize more. It's because women are unrealistically picky". Or if there is shame, it can even provide a salve of "It's not that I'm awful. It's because women are unrealistically picky." But if you interacted more with women in person and were generally social, you'd probably find a girlfriend pretty quickly. You just have to be more social.

It seems that the pattern is fairly common. And it's just completely to opposite mindset one needs to have a real relationship with a woman. Not only that... but it also scares women off, as women already deal with a lot of shame in the body because of the high beauty standards and how all-encompassing they are. Women are always getting the message overtly and covertly (since early childhood) that, if they're not beautiful that they won't be loved. The last thing that a woman needs is to feel like a guy is comparing her body to other women's bodies and ranking them. It's the opposite of safety. So, it's often the guys who have the highest tendencies towards objectifying women will have the most fear about women objectifying them. It's similar to how cheaters will get SUPER suspicious of their partner cheating on them... just projection. However, there's also other insecurities that can be at play... like fear of unlovability in general. So, that is the case sometimes with this belief. But I frequently see the 'objectifiers fearing objectification' dynamic play out with these beliefs.

That's false. Most men that I've been attracted to are average. It's a chemistry thing.

Yes. They're just projecting their own tendencies towards objectification onto women... and fearing that women are objectifying them the exact same way that they objectify women. And the way they view average and below-average looking women is boomeranging right back onto them. And this causes them a lot of shame because they feel towards themselves the disgust and indifference they feel towards women who are not top-level hot. And then, that shame makes them see sexual acceptance from very attractive women as the only way to redeem themselves. So, it further invisiblizes average and below-average looking women in their eyes, as only the most attractive women have the power to validate them and redeem them from shame. And the cycle continues.

Moderate from the perspective of the powers that be... yes. Conservative and moderate (in this regard) tend to mean the same thing... because moderates argue for the maintenance of the status quo and to keep the power structure as it is. We have lost sight of the meaning of the word Conservative in today's world, because our current "Conservatives" are actually acting as agents of radical change who are attempting to make revolutionary changes to American government and culture towards a Christo-Fascist dictatorship and/or a Technocratic Plutocratic Fascist dictatorship. But to be truly Conservative is to be a moderate. So, moderates in contemporary American culture are Libertarian-leaning Capitalists with mildly liberal social values... but in a disengaged way. The reality is that moderates and centrists are the true Conservatives as they are always trying to maintain the status quo for the power that be. And loyalists of the crown were moderate from the perspective of those in power, despite being a minority amongst American colonists. But among the oppressed lower-powered colonists, revolutionary ideas gained a critical mass of people who wanted to break away from the norm. And they did so by force against the powers that be. They were radicals from the perspective of the moderate status quo (which is determined by those in power). And radicals only come to power by force. Nothing that's radical ever gets accepted through the established means of the powers that be... not by democratic voting nor by mandate of the king. But, given that the radicals became a plurality of the low-powered colonists, it gained a sense of normalcy within the American colonial population. So, it became normal in the context of the colonies to become a radical from the perspective of the powers that be. And they fought with force and won. And eventually, the radical position became the status quo... and therefore moderate. But the colonists were still radicals. They were just radicals who gained a critical mass... which does not make them moderate. The thing that made them moderate is that the figure-head American revolutionaries eventually got accepted as the powers that be.

About 40% wanted independence from Britain and about 20% were British loyalists. So, the plurality of American colonists wanted independence... which is the critical mass. But those in power are the moderates... which was the crown itself and those in the colonies that were loyal to the crown. So, American colonists gathered enough support for Americans to fight for independence.

Yes to the abolition of slavery AFTER the Civil War... and yes to the New Deal... as these were honored by the presidents in power as the moderate 'normal' position to hold. And time normalized them even more. The American Revolution was a different story though, as it was a group of radicals that eventually gained enough support from a critical mass of people who were fed up with taxation without representation. And that was achieved through force and radicals winning out in battle against the moderate establishment... and not democratically through being accepted as the moderate position by those in the center. The moderates of the time were loyal to the British crown. Most people in the Southern colonies during that time were British loyalists. Moderates always preserve the powers that be. And moderates of that era wanted to stay under the rule of the king. But after the American Revolution, American independence became normalized and moderate. And now, it would be considered very extreme to want America to be back under British rule. But it wasn't moderate to be pro-American independence when the American Revolution was going on. It's similar to how abolition of slavery was a radical position before the Civil War was fought and won. So, to get that normalization... there was a bit of force required. But eventually, it was democratically recognized by moderates in power.

The "Women only go for the top 20% of guys" thing has always just been propaganda to play on the insecurities of men. You can look around at real couples in the real world and see that that's true. But most real-life couples are just boring average people, so they get overlooked. Relationships and marriages are very unsexy. Instead, the guys who tend to believe this kind of thing are actually doing (in their own mind) the thing they fear that women are doing. They're focusing on the top 20% of women looks-wise in their mind as the concept of what a woman is in general... without even thinking of women who are in the bottom 80% within their concept of what a woman is. And then, they lament that women (which they're unconsciously conceptualizing as the top 20% of women looks-wise) are only going for the top 20% of guys. But of course the top 20% of women attractiveness-wise are going for the top 20% of guys attractiveness-wise. Couples generally go for their own equals in terms of attractiveness. But the way these Manosphere internet propaganda things talk about how the top 20% of guys basically each have a harem of 5 women who are willing to share him because he's apparently so hot and amazing, is clearly not true. Otherwise, you'd see evidence of it literally everywhere. Most guys with girlfriends and wives are average guys who are in relationships with average women.

No one radical will ever be in power, except if that power is taken through top-down authoritarian force. That will never change. It will always be the case that moderates and centrists will be in power in a democracy. Radicals do not get elected. And if a person gets elected, they are not radical in the eyes of society. But what is radical and what is moderate are purely socially constructed and plastic... and public opinion can shift quickly. So, Nazism was moderate in Nazi Germany. Likewise, that which we now consider progressive can also be considered moderate in a future era. The most important thing is to insist that kindness is normal and moderate... and that cruelty is radical and extreme. People struggle with that though... even though it's very simple to insist on. People over-complicate things in a way that normalizes needless suffering and hatred... and treats basic human decency and common sense as radical and extreme.

What makes something more or less conscious is its proximity or distance to Christ Consciousness and the Golden Rule in both practice and intention. And while political perspectives in general will ALWAYS deviate from Christ Consciousness as politics are about symptoms rather than root causes (and Christ Consciousness is way down deep into understanding the roots, such that no judgment is possible), we can objectively say that (in intention) perspectives on the progressive Left are higher consciousness in intention as (out of all the choices mentioned) they are the most oriented towards Christ's perennial teachings of mercy for the highest number of sentient beings. But in terms of outcomes, none of them are effectively able to practice the Golden Rule because attempting to put the Golden Rule into policy will get tons of pushback because most people aren't conscious enough yet. You can't have a conscious politics in a mostly unconscious society. So, you get more "Law of the Jungle" policy passing instead... as that is where we're at as a species. And if one tries to impose Golden Rule ideals onto a society that's not ready, they must do so by top-down authoritarian means... which would make the laws cease to be rooted in Christ Consciousness and the Golden Rule. The Golden Rule can currently only be applied from the bottom up.... and politics is always top-down. So, while I advocate for people to continue to strive for policy reforms that are reflective of the Golden Rule, as that's important to at least fight the good fight... politics is only ever trying to manipulate pre-existing symptoms. So, you can trade out all sorts of laws and political systems and you will end up with the same sorts of problems in slightly different forms. The way to really fight for progressive change is to help people heal from generational trauma and enable them to feel interconnected with other beings, nature, and the universe at large. The root cause of all of our problems politically is that we feel disconnected from others and from nature. So, we can act in ways that play zero sum games with animals, other people, and with the Earth itself. That is why Christ Consciousness is the only true center... and the Golden Rule is the only ideology one ever needs. Once you know that, you will be able to easily discern which perspectives are more or less conscious.