Dude go out and do serious rigorous epistemological study. Once you have spent 10+ years learning stuff contrary to your worldview come back and preach Jesus to us all. You're living in your comfort bubble and aren't questioning anything seeing everything through your Jesus lense because it's safe and you don't have to deal with the difficulties of understanding life for what it really is. All this Jesus content is sickening honestly. Grow up.

This is the illusion and the very reveal that exposes the trap.
This is where the ground and the earth from which you stand is disregarded and you are swept of thy feet with an invisible power that never delivers, rather only provides a false mental bliss, no different than those who abuse psychedelics.
Here is the truth and words of Christ, your heart will reveal unto you what is true (by how it feels) in your being.
"Teach the people to work on the base of their beings,” he was
saying, in a voice that was like a chant. “You would like them to
have wings to fly, while in reality they have yet to find their feet.
If they do not recognize the Earth as the Mother who feeds them,
who nurses them, you may expect that they will spend their whole
lives desperately seeking my Father."
If we deny the Mother (the earth), we deny the very *medium* that allows the Father to be known. In essence, you cannot reach the Father without the Mother. The Divine is immanent in the earth and body; we experience God through life, matter, and presence.
 
 

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This is more related to connection I think - you perceive you can attain happiness through the connection with a partner. 
But in reality - it is the true connection with yourself you require that you cannot feel. 
Once you connect with yourself, love springs from the seeds of experience shared with another. Without the neediness of thinking they can supply what we do not have. What ends up being created between - experience - is the font of love.
Stems from society telling us we are not enough. We need another to be whole. So you end up with broken pathological attached love being represented as the aim. They sell you something by creating a percieved lack. Insidious.