Tenebroso

Men today should let go of the need to become a "good man" because the truth is that there is no such thing. The goalpost will always be conveniently moved, the point is to vilify men regardless of what we do. The older I get the more I respect the point of view of The Joker in Batman........This world is a clown show, the morality we are raised to value is fake and maybe society does not deserve good men.

I have read that article. Gooning is the natural outcome of algorithm's and many men accepting they have close to zero chance with women.

I would say men like you are the manipulative one's OP. Men like yourself who moralize the natural instinct of wanting to get better at attracting women are far more dangerous and toxic than the pick up artists. YOU ARE THE NAZI. The funny thing is guys like you come up with self righteous crap and it often turns you are the toxic one. Pick up is outdated anyway, you probably know that but your intention is not to share any real insight but to give yourself a pat on the back as one of the "good guys"..........Who's a good boy, want a cookie?

Tell me more. Elaborate. In 2025 going into 2026 it feels at least like you need to be either extremely attractive or famous to have women coming to you.

Akaash is what happens when you listen to women and mainstream society on how to be attractive. I bet he was told throughout his 20's and 30's just be a "good guy", "it will happen when you least expect it", "just get to know women platonically", "do you have hobbies?"...............Just the same regurgitated gaslighting.

Interesting perspective but how do you account for exposed abusers, serial killers, narcissists etc attracting women. I spoke to an ex girlfriend of a murderer of multiple women, Wade Wilson. He had marriage proposals and a petition to have him released. Women on TikTok admitting that they would not be able to help themselves around him. I asked his ex girlfriend what she saw in him, she said that she knew his reputation but he was too attractive to turn down, it was supposed to be a fling and then turned into a relationship. There is also the growing issue of female prison guards having sex with inmates. In the UK female prison guards were having sex with a convicted rapist. I think women care about raw physical attraction and lust more than we want to admit as a society. It was repressed in the past now and we have not caught up in terms of the narrative around dating because perhaps it paints an unflattering picture.

The men who are most likely to harm women are not the ones struggling to date. Misogynistic, psychopathic, philanderer's who just want to get in a woman's pants are not the ones struggling to date in 2025 going into 2026. These are real concerns but my observation is that the worst a man is the MORE he attract women even after he is exposed and known for his behaviour so it's hard to believe that women are filtering for these qualities. It seems red flags are overlooked if a man is hot or high status and then women blame men who can't even get a date for things other men are doing.

All those women have far more options than the average man. Every woman regardless of size, shape, race, background, style, personality will be able to attract partners, they will at least be someone's type but the same is not true for men. Many men are no woman's type regardless of how kind, emotionally available and safe we make a woman feel.

What if nobody has ever said yes and you are in your 30's?

Interesting insight. Is that why guys who are maybe not so intelligent or let's say cerebral do better with women? They are not stuck in their heads, trying to figure out dating like a mathematical formula. If they get rejected they simply move on instead of thinking about hoe that rejection fits into an overall pattern.

Spiritual narcissism is a big issue in stage green. They seem to put themselves on this moral pedestal and become very judgemental.

There isn't someone for everyone, many men especially of this generation will die alone.

Don't play around. Way more women are having casual sex than you think and there are a lot of down low bisexual men having unprotected sex with women and men.

Everyone should love money. Pursuing financial freedom is one of the most loving things you can do. You can help yourself and others, some forms of building wealth are more exploitative than others but that is difficult to escape in this reality. I say a lot of things about women but I don't resent them loving money, it is the least of my issues with women.

You want men that have so many options that they can drop any woman they are involved with like whenever they feel like it. A very small percentage can trigger real desire from women and those men get to do what they want, that is a big part of woman's frustration with the current dating scene they can't control the behaviour of the men attractive enough to get your attention.