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Incompatibility vs ego paradox
Incompatibility vs ego paradoxValues are where it really counts.
Imagine you value health and spirituality and truth but your girlfriend values socializing, drinking, and material pursuits like luxury vacations. That is not going to work.
No matter how conscious you are, you still have values you wish to live by. In fact, the more conscious you are the less you are willing to compromise on core values like health, consciousness, truth, honesty, peace of mind, etc.
The less corrupt you are the less compatible you are with corrupt people. And most people are corrupt.
There is also incompatibility in terms of life goals, personality types and sex drive. Life goals is stuff like wanting kids vs not. Personality type is like introvert vs extrovert. Sex drive can vary a lot.
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Kriya Yoga Mega-Thread
Kriya Yoga Mega-ThreadJust look at the picture and find those spots on your body with your fingers at first, and then visualize them in your mind's eye and feel them through your body. There will be nothing there to feel per se. You're just going to imagine it for now. Ballpark it. Don't be a perfectionist.
This is weak-sauce. Get to the fucking pranayamas and do at least 24 of them per day.
Steven's routines are far too spaced out. Do them faster. It doesn't takes 4 months to learn how to do pranayama. You can learn it in a few days.
Do not over-complicate this.
My routine is the same as I last posted.
I do 3 sets of Mahamudra, 3 sets of pranayama (36 total pranayama), and 3 breaths of fire. This takes me about 1h 20m
Keep it this simple. Don't over-complicate things. Over time just increase the potency with which you feel and visualize the pranayamas. They are the key to this whole thing. So do them with real intent and feeling. Each breath upwards should feel like it's filling your skull with enlightenment. Suck that prana up your spine and into your skull like it's an actual fluid in your body.
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How long to get enlightened
How Long Does It Take To Be Enlightened?If you're looking for a pragmatic answer, the answer is, it's highly variable. Some people take decades, some people do it one weekend. I've met a lady who got enlightened in one weekend.
There are so many variables: your openmindedness, the degree of your intent, the quality of guidance you get, your childhood upbringing, your genetics, and even pure blind luck!
With quality guidance, high levels of intent, and lots of sitting, you could reasonably expect something like 2-3 years. But don't let that limit you. Whenever you actually sit down to do enlightenment, intent to become enlightened RIGHT NOW!
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You can reduce kriya to pranayama and maha mudra
Kriya Yoga - where to start?We have a Kirya yoga mega-thread that answers many newbie questions.
Follow the books.
I suggest focusing 100% on pranayama spinal breathing. All other techniques are tertiary and mostly unnecessary.
You could reduce all Kriya yoga to just pranayama and maha-mudra. Which makes it so simple.
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Pranayama + Supreme Fire
Kriya Yoga - where to start?I skip it.
I only do pranayama and supreme fire.
Supreme fire feels important.
You can always add in more practices after a year of solid pranayama. So don't worry about it. Your first goal should be to start to feel the effects from a lot of solid pranayama. Once you are feeling that, you can think about more fancy techniques. I like to strip away all superflous techniques to get to the bare essentials.
Pranayama + supreme fire is that. You can also include maha-mudra in that but I am currently even cutting that out.
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cute face makes it a lot easier
Are all men really able to have a girlfriend?Absolutely not!
You should push yourself to develop social skills through massive socializing.
If you have a cute face that is a huge bonus. Many girls will sleep with you if you just act properly.
Losing weight is easy, not serious problem there.
Height is not a problem. Many girls are below your height. Will you date a tall girl? No. You will find shorter ones. Do you comprehend how many hot girls there are under your height? Probably 50% of the world's women are below your height. What matters is not that you are tall but that you are taller than her.
You just lack social skills because you lack social experience because you are so introverted.
The solution is to stop making excuses and go socialize.
I promise you can get a girlfriend, but it will take challenging work, it won't be effortless.
Don't delay, start today!
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Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 results
Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 resultsIt's simple, really: pursuing women can be turned into a larger healthy self-actualization journey or it can devolve into ideology, toxic masculinity, ego-aggrandizement, and mindless pleasure seeking.
Similar to business. Similar to psychedelics.
These things can go really well or really sour depending on what intentions you're doing them with.
For me, pickup led to the creation of Actualized.org. For other guys it can lead to rapey type of behavior. Pickup very much magnifies your true intentions and character. If you're a scummy guy deep down, then pickup will magnify that. Much like how if you give a evil person a $10 million dollars, he will use it to do evil things. But if you give a good guy $10 million dollars, he will use it to advance mankind in some way.
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Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 results
Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 resultsActually, Vegas is a super affordable place to live. If you are a local here, every club has free entry for locals on Sundays-Thursdays. Parking used to be free, now it's like $10. Drinks are $18 here, but I have never bought a girl a drink in my life and have no intention of starting. Dates can be super cheap. A date for me is a $5 coffee or ice cream.
If you want to hit up the hottest clubs in the world on Fri/Sat, that will cost you $40/night. But the clubs in Vegas are off the hook amazing. You've never seen so many hot girls in your life. $40/night is worth it if you're serious about developing your skills and you have a decent salary.
If you are clever, you can do pickup very cheap or even free. Depends a lot on location. Drinks in Austin, TX are like $3 and none of the bars have cover. Over my entire time in pickup I spent little money. Most of my money was spent simply on traveling to the best cities. And once I paid $2000 for a bootcamp.
You don't need total financial freedom to do pickup. Most of the guys who I met in pickup were not financially free. They had normal 9-5 jobs and gamed at night or on the weekends.
The biggest challenge is not money, it's time and energy. Pickup eats up a ton of time and energy. But still guys are able to do it while holding down regular jobs. I have met accountants, pilots, engineers, doctors, dentists, salesmen, etc. who did serious pickup.
Personally, I took a lot of time off work/biz to invest into pickup, and it was worth it. Of course I could only do that because I already was financially independent. But don't let this be a limiting belief. You don't have to be. But also, why not do both?!
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Experiment to find your purpose
Am I The Problem?You need to experiment.
Make one short film just to see how it feels and how you like it. Do some photography and see how you feel about it. And run other experiments.
Do not wait for classes to teach you how to do these things. Whatever you are passionate about, start doing it today on your own.
When I was your age I was doing a dozen different things: making video games, making art, building RC cars, making explosives, doing philosophy, creating Ebay businesses, building websites, writing fiction, etc.
You gotta forget the doubt and just take lots of action. Don't overthink your passions, just start doing them.
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Dating
Please Help! Ethical dylemmas when datingThe point of a first date is to see if you two have chemistry. At least 50% of first date result in nothing. You are not obligated to like her.
However, as a rule, you should always deeply scan a woman up and down immediately upon seeing her and make a binary decision whether she is attractive enough for you to sleep with. And if she isn't then don't try to date her.
Go to a busy mall and just practice quickly making this decision on random women walking by. Practice until you get good at identifying your type of women. Don't approach them, just practice making the yes/no decision quickly.
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Don't do night shift
Getting a job at McDonalds - How to best use that money?If you're gonna work night shift, I'd quit day one
It's like the opposite of self-development. It's a slow, miserable decline.
First, you're a little tired, 6 months later, you can't get an erection with a destroyed libido
Speaking from experience
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To get mastery in pickup
Game is more of a internal battle than externalWhen I say to do 1000 approaches, I don't mean mindless approaches, I mean quality approaches. I mean you analyze every approach after the fact and work on your sticking points.
Honestly, 1000 approaches is so little. In practice you should be aiming towards 5000-10000 if you are serious. And they gotta be quality!
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Fame + Accumulation of Offensive Comments
Conservative activist, Charlie Kirk, has been shot and killed at UniversityIt adds up.
Charlie has said so many racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, and regressive things, with such aggressive ignorance and arrogance, that out of tens of millions of viewers, one of them is bound to have a mental illness and hold a grudge.
What most normies do not understand is that if you have 1+ million YouTube subcribers and you speak on controversial topics, you are guaranteed to get death threats. We all get them. It's only a matter of time until one of them is acted upon. The more hateful things one says, the bigger the odds become. Every hateful or bigoted statement pissed off one extra psycho person who might decide to act out.
Also, Charlie was directly involved in getting Trump elected. He wasn't just a pundit, he was the chief MAGA vote recruiter. His entire agenda is putting MAGA in power. Of course some unhinged viewer will want revenge for that.
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To find better partner, date to find rough value alignment
Single woman feeling stuckIt's simply a numbers game. You gotta date a lot of people to find the right one if you care about values alignment.
The secret to most people's matchmaking is that they don't have any standards and don't care about values alignment. So that makes it easy in the short term. But of course that's why their relationships crash and burn in the long term.
The solution is to just date more people who roughly align with your values.
Seems like what you want is a more ambitious man. Hippie or New Age type men could lack ambition.
Of course conscious partners are gonna be rare. The more conscious the more rare, which how the whole system works. People don't raise their consciousness simply because they don't wanna be alone.
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Time needed to build kriya yoga effects
Kriya Yoga - where to start?They are unrelated.
Kriya is not as intense. It is subtle and long-term. You need to do it for months for it to build up its effects.
You're not going to feel anything from a few sessions.
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Basically 2 types of leadership
Leo is Wrong About Trump - Accountability PredictionsTo help you deepen that insight, there are basically two kinds of leadership:
Rally people towards selfishness using fear Rally people towards selflessness using love It really is that simple. Of course there are many degrees of both. Most leadership is somewhere in the middle. Exceptional leadership is #2. And #2 is so rare precisely because is cannot be faked. The leader must lead by example by himself being selfless and loving, which is impossible for a big ego to do. Which is why human history is filled with examples of such terrible leaders. But also a few exceptional ones. Exceptional #2 leaders become deified as gods. Because they literally must be God-like to lead that way. Jesus, Buddha, Mahavira, Muhammad, Gandhi, MLK, etc. Unconscious people are incapable of such leadership nor are they capable of electing such people into positions of power. Those who get elected tend to be the most ambitious, ruthless, and manipulative ones. Rarely a selfless person will get elected, but he will quickly be demonized and kicked out of power by the selfish people who feel threatened by his selflessness.
The thing that selfish people hate the most is displays of selflessness. Because it makes them look bad.
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Kriya Pranayamas > Binural Beats
What Is The Truth About Frequency Hertz/ Binaural Beats/Spiritual Significance?Almost certainly that's BS.
New Agers love conformist talk about vibrations and energy, and most of it is fantasy.
Binaural beats, however, do work. But don't expect a serious increase in consciousness from them. The effect is mild and mostly temporary.
Your time would be much better spent doing Kriya yoga pranayamas. That can truly transform you in permanent ways. What you want from audios is what Kriya yoga can give you for real. It's a lot harder, but the results are much more serious.
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Leo what scenario is it ok to be a celebrity? Answer
Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread@Magnanimous How it's okay is if you are doing good work and the work naturally makes you well-known. But even in that case it would be unconscious to invent a whole brand and business to milk and juice that fame to the max.
There is a whole industry behind every celebrity to milk and juice their audience by any means possible. To feed the fans, to feed the adoration, to use it for power, for narcissistic supply, for luxury, to do fake twitter posts, fake PR events, etc.
For example, Albert Einstein was well known for his good work, which is fine. But then imagine in today's age he would have an Einstein brand that sells Einstein merch and milks the fanbase. And he would have some social media consultant posting promotional tweets on his behalf.
There is a huge fakeness and whoring factor to most big celebrities.
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Leo what scenario is it ok to be a celebrity?
Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread@Leo Gura
About your Celebrity itself is Corruption, post, is there any way to go about it in a non-corrupt/as minimally corrupted way as possible?
Honestly I've always coveted being one the moment I got interested in doing a greater purpose in life so I've had the desire for a long time. I also saw on your pickup video you can use celeb status to pickup girls so my guess is you ascribed some validity to pursuing it.
I've also read in Conversations with God not to pursue fame for its own sake but for a greater end, which ties in nicely with my new prospective LP - Leadership (I haven't properly planned this out yet but I also thought about doing philosophy to model Plato's ideal ruler of a philosopher-king when I mature into it enough, so that could help avoid corruption and be a better reason for more people to know me and feel my influence)
In the end I'm really asking if is there any scenario where its ok to pursue and be a celeb?
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Success Essential 1: Perseverance
Low points with the pursuit of a life purposeThat's why no one succeeds without perseverance.
There is no shortcut here. Either you will persevere or you will quit. If you quit you will never become successful.
Success is rare because most people are too weak, so they quit.
Success is for the strong.
Just like with marriage, you must commit 100%. Make quitting not even an option.
