Rishabh R

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  1. Posted

    1 minute ago, LordFall said:

    Achieving your goals is an achievement. If you want to have sex with beautiful women and you achieve it then that's success. If you don't want to and you accidentally get laid then you're failing yourself.

    I don't agree with this.

    2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

     

    I notice this in men that are not successful with women is they're afraid of confrontation. Intentional confrontation is good and usually leads to growth. The point is not to pick fights for the sake of it but to push the limiting beliefs of people that seem to be stuck in them to further the quality of the discussions on this board and also lead to insight for people that need them to be able to surpass their current limitations. 

    I agree with this . The confrontation part .

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    @Inliytened1 Read this man . :) 

    I pasted this after copying it from forum guidelines .Read the point title hate speech ,racism , Sexism .

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  11. Posted

    @Inliytened1 I hate to break it to you but regardless of the fact weather @Leo Gura is pro pickup or anti pickup . I have observed it in a huge number of guys. 

    Guy reads pickup theory - then approaches a lot of women - then get's laid/relationship/sex whatever from the woman. Then breakups with her and again back to 0 still suffering like he will remain single his whole life. Again back to where he started .

  17. Posted

    @yetineti Ok thank you. I just honestly felt a little bit hurt from the fact that I attacked him a bit. Yup vulnerability is important. I just wanted to know his perspective and that's it . After all vulnerability is honestly expressing oneself despite feeling initial fear. And I can tell you right now that by typing this message to you on phone I am feeling nervousness but acting despite it .- Also I have noticed this is the single bottleneck that has the potential to improve my results.

    By the way @yetineti have you read Models by Mark Manson. I assume you have read it. I respect you too. ❤️

  18. Posted

    @LordFall Ok but how do you overcome your approach anxiety ? I mean what I have found is that taking action despite anxiety surprises me about my potential. I mean one day at work - basically I am into science work and all. So I expressed myself honestly to a girl aka being vulnerable . She scolded me and told me to focus on work. Later the next day she initiated a conversation with me about my career plans , we had multiple joyful conversations . And also like earlier I wasn't practicing vulnerability , I mean I was obsessed ,needy and desperate for getting laid . Which was outcome dependent goal and my results with women sucked more than now ( honestly ) despite approaching .Lately I have been getting increased engagement from females. So could you explain that ? As per work I will be joining at a new workplace. And what I have noticed is that wherever I go some women reject me while some women are receptive to me . 😅

  20. Posted

    @LordFall Ok sorry if I misunderstood you but I mean even though I have never been in a relationship expressing myself honestly to women even though I have anxiety has improved my results a bit . It's good that you pointed something in me. Maybe I must try something different besides vulnerability . So what methods are you using , I'm curious and sorry if you felt bad . 

  22. Posted

    @LordFall Oh really a lot of assumptions . People like you obsessed over getting laid and treating others immaturely is a sign of foolishness . I know you don't give a F-- because you are indeed a narcissist and as per your narcissism only immature women will like you . 

    That doesn't generate results it generates hatred . Also remember one thing. And it matters what I have been through . If you don't appreciate don't comment on my posts. I am better off without you and people like you.

  23. Posted

    @LordFall Isn't life already brutal and trying to make it easy leads to a more harder life rather than accepting the discomfort of life then taking action anyway. You don't know me personally dude ,leave apart the challenges I have faced and currently face . A part of training is also to challenge your own assumptions about people so that your advice doesn't add to someone else's distress . You can lead the horse to the pond but you can't make it drink water if you kick it you can't even lead it to the pond it will rebel.

    Try this - Before being harsh on anyone and making any judgement remind yourself that you don't know what the other person has been through . Sorry dude I hate your way of talking . You are practicing pseudo -skepticism.