I disagree.
When you combine unmet sexual needs and immaturity in an echochamber with no mature leadership, you get toxicity.
I've been in those circles, I know how those guys think. It's hard to understand it without going in it.
I didn't go into pickup because of shame or any kind of shadow stuff. I went in it because I needed a practical way to get a girlfriend and there wasn't really any other way. All the mainstream dating advice is weak garbage and doesn't produce results. Guys who want results want a hardcore approach. But that hardcore approach is then ruthlessly pragmatic and transactional. Like a business. It's not much different than if you wanted to make a bunch of money quickly. That requires a cutthroat attitude. So that's what pickup becomes.
Incels and MGTOW communities are built around victim mentality and bitterness towards women. Guys who won't or can't take action slide into Incel and blackpill community. MGTOW is more about divorced guys who have been hurt.

@AlterEgo I logged in just to say that I have never agreed with something so much in my life.
You need to speak to 1000s of women, move to big cities, blah blah, it is not true, not at this level. 1000s of women is absurd haha. You must have serious developmental issues if you need to speak to 1000s of women to get laid.
The guys around me that get laid frequently NEVER studied game, they are decent looking guys but more importantly they are authentic. I guess they grew up in healthy families, little to no shame and guilt, no limiting beliefs around sex and women and certainly no issues with rejection.
The problem with most guys is that they are deeply wounded, full of shame, guilt, limiting beliefs, sexual dysfunction. This is healed through therapy, spiritual work, etc... the techniques that you learn from learning game can be learned in a three months, not five fucking years or talking to 10 trillion women.
The hard work is fixing how society, your parents, schools, religions all fucked you up. If you do that, the rest of it is easy. Yes it is easy, talking to women gets easy once you are totally secure within yourself. YES, EASY!
DAVID TIAN is the best for this, he explains this amazingly.
If you are deeply hurt, full of shame and so on, you can still go and learn game but good luck with the kind of women you attract (because you are just  a broken little boy so good luck with all the broken little girls), and if you really think getting a nice feeling in your dick is going to solve these serious issues, well again good luck with that.
Focus on healing your wounds, ridding yourself of toxic shame, toxic guilt, fear of rejection etc..., this cannot be done to perfection but if you do it seriously the whole women business will become a lot easier.
You can see how pervasive this shit is in the red pill community, those guys are completely twisted. There are healthier ways to live life.
BTW this looks, status, fame stuff is still important for sure, but don't make a big deal out of it, too much times is wasted thinking about this, just get to work I guess

These super broad questions are always icky to answer in a 1-directional sense but here goes:......
I don't know what horsesh*t some people in this thread on here might say but (What I would put forth) Top Qualities that would most likely "make him want to "stay" with you" (I would like to believe that I know what the f*** I am talking about):
Beauty/Attractiveness/Sex Appeal/Aesthetics - Tho this is blatant, I'd like to highlight the paths of beauty outside of societal norms and appreciate the subjectivity of it. Also not just to your physical appearance but exert it all around you (i.e. Home design) Nuturing/Supportive energy (Ride or fu**ing die) Loyalty (again, emphasizing the "ride or die" theme) *cough* "Keep his balls empty" (seriously though lol) "Serve" HIM (this is where conventions such as cooking & cleaning come around, but especially the more nuanced and subtle things, some examples may be: playing with his hair as he's driving & moving his hand onto your thigh, marveling at him while he is working..or if he is just BEING) "Be the Trinity to his Neo" Bring the God out of him. Use your feminine discernment to keep him on his feet and always growing. Maintain your composure and know your self-worth. (Presuming your anything close to these pointers, it would be "his loss";' a good man can INSTANTLY determine a good woman  
I could keep going but a "Wife" will look for a husband and a Husband will look for a wife