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  1. 10 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

    @no_name true i dont know anything about women but i hope they are not this bitter 

    I am not bitter with men I actually can respect

    Also, I don’t think I am being bitter, you’re just too sensitive and insecure so you get extra butthurt by me simply expressing my preference ? - which is a common phenomena on this forum - men can say whatever they want here, vs when women talk about their standards ⬇️

     

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  2. 16 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

    @no_name how much time you are spenting to learn and implement game?

    I don’t need to learn game.

    What I need to learn is how to have healthy relationships and spot men who are healthy and want that kind of relationship with me.

    The steps are very similar - gain confidence, have success in life, be a good communicator, etc.

    It’s a very incel thing to say that women don’t need to invest time developing themselves. Makes it obvious that you don’t know much about women other than theories from the internet.


  3. I personally would never date men like this, I hate cheap men, lazy men, etc. I would’t go to his place too, I value my time and, biologically, my time is more valuable than his. Furthermore, it takes more time for me to get ready than for a guy who just needs to shower and brush his teeth. 


  4. Since we don’t talk about sourcing on the forum, can we at least talk about where to get information on sourcing?

    I know there are online stores, and apparently actual physical stores, both of which are illegal. 

    I am very eager to try shrooms, but I have no clue where to get them from. I would be willing to buy them online, but idk how to do that either.. do I order them to my address but a wrong name? How do I pay for them if I don’t want my credit card traced? Can I use one of those pre-paid visa cash cards? 


  5. 2 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @no_name

       Well, what do you have to offer to this thread, other than trolling and virtue signaling and straw manning me for stating the fact that it's a few of Ukraine's missile that killed a few Polish citizens and some of its property as part of a defensive response to Russian missiles attacking them? You also don't want to engage with the questions we pose to you, and instead accuse us of stuff that ain't true instead of acknowledging the possibility that Poland may have the grounds to punish Ukraine for its collateral? You seem to dodge the issue of whether Poland has the right to press Ukraine for damages done to part of its territory for screwing up with the missile response, and are comfortable obfuscating Ukraine's potential responsibility for its missile screw up to Russia instead.

    I said what I meant - it’s ridiculous to discuss it. I gave similar examples as to why it’s ridiculous. 

    If you need an autistic answer - yes, Poland has the legal right to sue. It should sue russia, Ukraine should also sue russia.

    Zelensky’s job is to attract the world’s attention to the war in Ukraine and russian atrocities. Who else if not him would be doing it? 


  6. 25 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @no_name

       No, in your mind you see me ignoring the deaths of thousands of Ukraine citizens being killed by Russian missiles and me trying to treat Ukraine as a second class to Poland. No, I am well aware of the Ukraine/Russia conflict, I am asking is Poland entitled to action against Ukraine? Say after the war is over?

       See, this is the blind spot. Are you listening to yourself justifying against Poland taking action against Ukraine in its collateral damage to Poland? Because even if it's a mistake and accident by Ukraine when some of its missiles responding to Russia's missiles went away and stroke Poland territory and killing a few people, this mistake costed the lives of 2 Polish citizens because of some larger scale conflict between Ukraine/Russia. So, is Poland expected to be silent or take action?

    I think this whole thread is nonsense. I think some people were just waiting for some f*ck up from Ukraine (which is absolutely inevitable in the horrible situation Ukraine is in) to say “oh well, Ukraine’s not innocent too, bla bla, lets all move on from this war in Ukraine, bla bla, gas prices are rising”

    This has a whim of russian propaganda to it as well. Kinda like in the beginning of the war some people were defending russian invasion by saying Ukrainians are nazis. It’s just a lazy way of deflecting from the war.

    Again, the absolute equivalent of a crew of people being shot on the street and then some douchebag complaining of his car getting blood stains on it.

    The reality is that douchebag and mentally ill psychopathic people like this exist, that are unable to see anything outside of their nose, but luckily, most people are just going to ignore their noise.


  7. 3 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @no_name

       So are we supposed to ignore that a few of Ukraine's missiles killed a few Polish citizens?

    Well, you are ignoring that thousands of Ukrainian citizens were killed by Russian missiles. Or is Ukraine a second class to Poland and Poland’s few citizens are more valuable than thousands of Ukrainian citizens? 


  8. On 2022-11-18 at 3:24 PM, puporing said:

    My current state allows room for some difficult people to be around in the periphery and practice expanding, and I'm managing my boundaries and adjusting based on how things are.

     

    How much contact do you have with them? Like how often do you talk/see each other? For how long do you talk for/spend time with them? Is there a cap you put on communication? 

    Also, did you ever go through a state of hate and anger? Because for me it’s very hard to feel empathy for them, I don’t want to feel empathy for them, they are the reason of all the difficulties in my life.


  9. 3 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @no_name

       If you frame it that way, it makes sense it would be mental for you, but that's because that Ukraine missile is collateral damage, part of a defensive response to intercept Russian missiles, and killing a few Polish citizen of varying value to their society, and part of their territory of little societal infrastructure. What if that collateral damage killed a Polish politician or a few Polishes of high value?

       Maybe a better example for you to understand, is if there's a firefight outside my property between a few criminals and a few police, and a few gunshots hit my property, and injuring one of my family members. So, don't I have the right to sue the criminals or the police for injuring a part of what's important to me?

       Yes, it's mental because the conflict is bigger than Ukraine and Russia, it also involves NATO and Russia and even the USA to a degree. However, despite the warfare, narrative warfare and propaganda, does Poland have the right? And can it exercise that right to sue for damages, even if that may negatively affect their foreign relations?

    Obviously, Poland won’t sue Ukraine

    Its ridiculous to even discuss this. Whom should Ukraine sue? 


  10. 8 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @Yog

       It's definitely a possibility. So, does Poland have the right to sue Ukraine for the damages and civilians that were killed?

    It would be mental if Poland sued Ukraine. It’s like if you were getting beat up on the street at night and screaming for help, and then someone sued you for making noise.. 


  11. 48 minutes ago, puporing said:

    There's some hope that my being in minimal contact could raise their level of consciousness over time and stop the cycle, and I can see a bit of change in the past few years.

    Do you feel this is a dangerous game to play though? Kind of like when you’re in an abusive relationship and you keep staying with the person hoping they would change or, even worse, that you can change them?

    Especially in an emotionally charged relationship such as child/parent, can you truly detach yourself properly from them without having expectations? Kind of like how a child always craves a mother, no matter how old the child is, and how toxic the mother is, the child will always have hope that the mother they always wanted would eventually show up. Also there’s a lot of baggage in these relationship, unlike other relationships, a lot of anger.

    I mean, why did you decided to keep your toxic parents in your life and not other toxic people? Why do parents get this special “pass” for being toxic? Wouldn’t guilt, sense of obligation, and social pressure be the only reasons?


  12. I have two questions.
    A person who has overcome their self esteem issues, accepted themselves for who they are, are loving and kind to themselves, have healthy self esteem and self confidence  

    1. Do they no longer get hurt when someone says something critical/hurtful/unjust to them? For example, when they are short and someone tells them they aren’t attractive enough because of that? Or when they don’t have many friends and someone discredits them because they don’t have many friends? 
     

    2. If they don’t get hurt/offended because they understand it says more about the person than it says about them, would they still want to be around that person? What would be a reason that they want/don’t want to be around that kind of person? Would these person choose to stay away from people who are narcissists/psychopaths/etc - why so?