Bando

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  1. This is a sneaky limiting belief, yes logistics are important but you can still pull without them. Frame the pull at her house, use your parents car, isolated areas ect. If a girl is interested enough she will make it easy for you to pull dont forget that. I remember when I was in highschool, I had a friend who would pull consistently in handicapped bathrooms at the mall we used to frequent get creative
  2. Nope doesn't matter as long as your tonality and sub-communications are right you'll be fine. But instead of asking, why dont you find out yourslef approach 10 women with shades and 10 without and compare the responses you get.
  3. Yup this hits the nail on the head this is much more important than who reaches out first, if the quality of the interaction is meh, then you can make an argument that you always reaching out is a sigh of a one way relationship, theres a lot more factors that go into this.
  4. Don't make things weird girls can sense that type of energy and it will make things uncomfortable for both of you. In this type of situation theres no need to do any "game" just treat her like a regular friend and look for activity's to to together like going to the gym. Also use sexual innuendo and flirt when the time calls for it this was a perfect time to do that look for more opportunities like this. But again don't be weird if you sense things are taking a more platonic route respect her boundaries, nobody should feel uncomfortable in their own living space
  5. Dont know why my post glitched like that I re-uploaded what I wrote before I agree there much better things to spend 4 grand on especially since this field is so fleshed out with information for free but hey to each there own
  6. He's legit Ive had wings who gamed with him before also have a friend who bought his products, they're very practical but its not new information if thats what your hoping for. He's not re-inventing the wheel he is only distilling all the concepts on how to run proper nightgame, dates, and online game into a digestible format without the the mindset stuff. You can find all this info for free btw on forums/blogs. One nugget I learned from him is using Face app to enhance your pictures and running multiple online dating accounts. Its a bit over extreme but it definitely works. Theres so much to online dating people don't know about, its not about "take pictures and post them" theres a lot of ways to game dating platforms. Im pretty sure thats how he can make those claims of the results his students get. Id be cautious of him though I really dislike his marketing tactics, and can sense his core values are low conscious but his dating advice is practical, wouldnt say its worth $4,000 though.
  7. @Noahsteelers34 Treat this as a growing experience your a freshman if I remember from a previous post, try out the relationship angle, you learn a lot about yourself, both the good and negatives when in a relationship. Enjoy the experience, worst case scenario things go left and you still have 2+ years left of college to date around
  8. @Leo Gura Yup I agree, there were guys in there that were basically teaching guys how to r*pe women smh, media outlets kept quoting them and writing expose articles then the Julian scandal happened, they had to cut it to move on or they would face actual legal consequences. My question is how did they scrub everything on the forum, I looked on the wayback machine and nothing showed up, did they pay a third party company to scrub all the archives?
  9. Its such a shame Owen shut down the Rsdnation forums that place was a gold mine for game is you knew how to search correctly and took action. Honestly I got more value from the forums than i did with his videos
  10. Use that money to understand Crypto and Online Ventures, buy courses from reputable people who have already provided you enormous free value and join their private communities, the others in this thread are right 30k is good savings but not enough to change your live. Leo has a bad mentality when it comes to crypto, when you understand how these projects work and not blindly throw your money into things you can get substantial ROI. Ive made close to $50,000 with crypto only starting off with 4k because I was apart of private forums and paid for courses. Crypto is only gambling when you don't understand what your doing. It's also a really fun concept once you start to get the hang of it. Pay for knowledge and access to private communities where all the people in the group are focused on one goal thats what i'd do with your $30,000
  11. Welcome to the real world where most people don't care about this stuff, I would try to lead by example and slowly bring in basic personal development ideas. Aligning values goes a long way in relationships if everything else in your relationship is fine and this is the only aspect that could be improved ask yourself if this is something to place a lot of importance on if not consider finding someone who more aligns with you
  12. They do, when women value your attention even giving them the most basic compliment can send them over the moon. Imagine your a really good basketball player everyone says your good and at a certain point you just brush it off when someone says that to you. Now imagine Lebron or a basketball player you admire says that to you. The words where the same it just came from a different person whose attention you value more. Learn to build attraction when talking to women and things will play out naturally
  13. Wow its been a year already? Time flies I remember this exact thread from last year hb
  14. I dont see why this isn't true dont forget how insanely corrupt Ukraine is, you've got a guy who resides in that country making anti- nationalistic takes on the country and getting tens of thousands of views during a war? It was only a matter of time rip...
  15. @Loba Ahh yes my favorite misandrist is back a part of me thinks your trolling and this is a character, theres no way your actually this bitter lmao
  16. Man entertainment politics is so stupid I lump all of them in the same bucket, Liberal or Conservative theres better political sources out there who actually engage in good convo
  17. I guess nobody wants to be your friend...
  18. There are many ways to optimize your online dating profiles one that you could try out an get immediate results is running your photos through "Face App" essentially it optimizes your pictures to make them as high quality as possible without looking overly photoshopped. Thats just the tip of the iceberg many people think to get good results online its just "take good pictures and swipe" theres so much more to it
  19. I feel you I used to have this problem when I started Dating, always bring the offer of you guys going back to your place for some drinks. Another important tip is to run your dates short 60-90 minutes top. Keep it around 1hr if your only going to to be at one spot 90 min if your venue hoping. You can build enough comfort/value/attraction within that time. You should also train to yourself to recognize when a girl wants to move somewhere more private, she will never tell you outright but she will throw subtle hints
  20. @itachi uchiha You've read enough books put together a solid actionable plan using everything you learned, and execute consider that you've immersed yourself in all this red pill/dating knowledge and you still aren't getting the results you want. There comes a point where you have to stop with the theorizing and go out and get tangible experience. You could read every book on dating and male/female dynamics and you'll still end up the same none of this thoerizing matters if its not aided with first hand experience. Recognize the failicy. Too many people on this side of the forum forget that.
  21. Just say more than 1 and keep the conversation pushing
  22. Gree 100% This is so important in all areas of life often times the moments that develop the most confidence is when your able to "preform" when your not at 100% it puts you in a new paradigm of thinking
  23. Theres some useful perspectives in RP but as an overall ideology its meh, its not practical to building healthy long term relationships, there's to many games and hyporcracies baked into that world view. From what I noticed redpill is usually an ideology that teens/ppl in their early 20's cling onto as their trying to understand how dating works. You outgrow that type of thinking when you have more experiences, devop more empathy, and stop watching RP content creators. Also the space and people that surround redpill are similar to blackpillers in the sense they have very little empathy and are generally filled with people who hate women. RP people are usually healthier because they dont have a victim mentality but there still low conscious people, theres just better perspectives out there
  24. I still don't believe the hype just yet if he takes out Gilburt i'll be impressed, welterweight division is stacked though crazy how Usman is lapping those guys
  25. He wrote that whole article? Why would he do that, you'd expect a guy with over 15,000 comments on this forum to have some type of loyalty, im surprised he's not banned lmao