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Don't want to kill your buzz but this doesn't sound like a good idea, theres too much competition in this space, especially with language learning websites starting to incorporate AI into their platforms. You should be learning about sales, content creation, and marketing in addition to programming, creating a software based biz as your first business is not advisable as you don't have the funds or the exp, (this is coming from a software dev btw). Programing is not something you half ass if your trying to make a career or money out of it. If your serious I would suggest learning Python as your first language. Build a small project and see if programming is something you want to take serious or if its just a hobby. You can still satisfy your passion of teaching languages in different ways that don't involve programming.

Vey shallow understanding of these topics, its not a surprise your entertained by incel and different pill content ,low quality thinkers gravitate to low quality ideas. I suggest your keep watching that non-sense until your overwhelmed by the amount regret you will have, you weren't any better before you found that bs than you are now, thats something you should contemplate.

These are not in particular order just what came to mind 1.Create a lifestyle that aligns with meeting women frequently 2. Always ask to meet 1v1 when you run an interaction with a girl 3. In certain cases persistence is necessary, and shouldn't be seen as "low value" 4. When you enjoy life and are making progress towards goals talking to women becomes easier and more enjoyable 5. Always look to lead interactions 6. Learn how to build emotional resiliency 7. Have friends who are also on the journey of Pickup you can exchange ideas and exp with

The only money I've ever spent on PUA stuff was on coaches that were already vetted by a local community. The best way to find a good coach is to go on pua forums/ telegrams, share your experiences, add value and eventually you get invited into smaller group chats. From there you can personally ask them for reputable coaches, (none of them be mainstream btw) or you can just go out consistently with your wings and force each other to approach many sets. Essentially the biggest bang for your buck in paying for a coach is that they force you to do massive amounts of approaches, you don't need to pay some dick head $2k+ for that. Local coaches who have years in the game charge a fraction of that price you just have to know where to look.

@Richard Purdy In your position I would work to develop a high income skill that can generate you at least 8k a month preferably something that allows you to work remote. Saving 50k+ with essentially 0 bills isn't that difficult especially if you work full time, whats more important is what does your monthly cashflow look like. To put into context I worked all throughout college wheather it was on-campus IT support, Gig Work or internships over the summer and was able to graduate a little over 70k in savings and came out with a job as a junior developer. I now work remote and have the money / time to pursue other interests and projects.

You should be jailed for this statement, high production, company made, multiple camera's/edits porn feels so fake, from the moans to the expressions, ughh, I'll pass homemade porn is 100x more authentic much better

Back at it again, my favorite poster asking the questions that matter

I swear theres a new thread on incest every 2 weeks, just a while ago some forum member was having a mental breakdown because he wanted to sleep with his sister lmao

Fuck yea, way to bet on yourself and stick with your own values, I was under the impression you were a newbie who got struck with what life is actually like and freaked out. If your already covering your expenses with the income from your business and have emergency fund money the answer was defiantly a no brainer, stop living life for others life is to short, go after your vision.

Weird situation 7% is high intrest for student loans their usually around 3-4%, honestly the damage is done, there could have been ways to reduce the total 57k price by scholarships, not dorming and taking advantage of government programs if you qualify. The real question is what does your finances look like? Hopefully you got your degree in something employable if so discussing your finances with your dad, coming to a comprise would probably be a good option, id say talk with him about splitting the debt right down the middle and see where it goes from there

Dam its been a year already sheesh time is going by fast

What does your porn consumption look like? Maybe thats where you want to start

@Fadious you have an issue setting boundaries with people start there, also look into physical outlets like, martial arts, sports, or weight lifting

@mmKay Insightful video, fuck some people really have no chance, we can debate on the morality of incest but when you get to shit like this it just makes my stomach turn

Bingo, you can apply this concept to any area of life btw not just women, life is easier when you love life who would have thought?

Ask clear questions what do you mean by "how do i stop making girls feel bad?" No, she won't, who says people from her work has to know who she's romantically involved with? If she wants to tell them she call tell them. Women care about slut shamed but not in the way you think... A good way ive found about asking out working women or any social circle scenerio is to make an offer that seems platonic and then switch it to a regular date over text. There was a librarian I would see semi regularly we would have small talks about books and found out she likes edm music, I casually told her there are some edm events in our local area that I go to and how she should bring her friends and come with us some time, then I told her to give me her number and I could send her some info about the events. Got her number and pitched a regular coffee date and things went well

Setting boundaries is important, make sure you leave enough time for you to develop yourself as a person, weather finically, romantically, spiritually. You have to put yourself first when it comes to being in a position of leadership, (not in a selfish way) when your good and taken care of, you can spread that love to other people. Providing doesn't only manifest itself in a financial form

Plan your next meet ups in person, preferably during pillow talk ex, "what does your schedule look like this week I want us to go check out x place I heard its really fun" Try to lock in a day and then 2-3 days later send a follow up texting conforming if things are still good for the day you guys scheduled things. Ive found typically after I've slept with a girl on 3-4 different occasions she's "locked in." Try to see her once a week at first, if your doing things right she will be the one to ask you when she can see you more often

Ive also made this exact point a while ago, this is a pattern he seems to have in his posts on this part of the forum. The problem with him is that he speaks with authority on this subject when he has little real world experience, doesn't even try to have humility considering all of his advice is just low quality ,half baked red-pill ideas mixed in with some woo-woo nonsense. All this theory goes in the gutter when you actually go out and consistently meet women. People with experience can sense this and have every right to call him out, asking women "how their doing" is fine, having women friends is fine, I'm am genuinely confused how he was promoted to moderator status with the replies he often gives, maybe he has higher quality posts in a different part of this forum because its certainly not found here. Theres no problem with being a theory junkie but don't speak from a position of authority when you don't have real world exp, have humility. This is directed at @NoSelfSelf in case it wasn't clear enough. @StarStruck To answer your question, make a light hearted joke about her splitting with her boyfriend and then change the topic, it could be an objection or she really could have went through a split, either way its not a good place to build off of. Keep building rapport and comfort through small talk and look for a hook point then focus on building attraction, by being polarising, humor, kino, sexual innuendos, ect , try to make plans for a potential meeting in the future and go for the number. Thats the frame work me and my wings use when we go out at night, the same process applies for day game but tone it down abit.

There are better subforms on reddit to ask those types of questions r/seduction is pretty good for people who are new to this kind of stuff last time i checked

@Someone here I remember when you'd make posts explaining how you'd never find sex or a woman, now you have the problem of having to much sex, now thats called self improvement! One thing you can do besides setting boundaries is to build anticipation around sex. Instead of having full intercourse, eat her out, finger her or talk dirty to her while she masturbates in front of you. Sex is much more than physical sensations, taking breaks from intercourse or full on sexual activity makes sex better.

@Emerald Hmmm im not into the idea of being cucked, but what if its just a fetish, like women who roleplay in bdsm or other kinks, I think your take is a little judgmental and narrow minded

I cant believe this thread is going to get over 1000 replies is that a record or something on this fourm? Crazy how Tate has been able to infiltrate every platform, from forums to social media even in jail people still talk about him

If you've consumed porn on a regular basis since a young age and spent years jerking off your dopamine receptors are most likely fried, to the point its effecting other areas in your life. I found out about no fap my junior year of college tried it to various degrees of success, but never stayed consistent. For the summer of that year I decided to quit porn, go on nofap, and practice semen retention even during sex, I probably cummed only 5 times that summer, (while dating a girl btw). One of the most productive summers of my life. The main benefits I experienced, was higher levels of focus, I could sit down for hours at a time and work on tasks that needed to get done. Also my dopamine levels were "reset" as my brain wasn't used to the instant gratification of porn which lead to me getting rid of all instant gratification addictives like social media, and garbage entertainment. This is honestly the best benefit I got. The only analogy I could use would be like an alcoholic finally quitting alcohol and started seeing the world in a sharper way. I also got much much better at sex as I got to practice different ways of bringing the girl I was dating to orgasm without constant penetration, (although something interesting I found out, is that women don't like the feeling of participating in sex and not seeing their partner "get off", this actually led to a few arguments although she understood why I was doing what I was doing) As of right now im not as extreme and will probably jerk off 2-4 times a month and occasionally watch porn or my own tapes as I still have a high sex drive. Ive come full circle to the conclusion that jerking or watching porn isnt bad at all but if you cant quit for at least 30 you might have an addiction or have a fucked up dopamine system.

@ValiantSalvatore Is that where Pretty went? I always thought she moved on from the forum