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23 hours ago, flowboy said:@Someone here About a year ago you were on here making topics about how to start a business, how to get the right business idea, how to make money etc.
Some people, me amongst them, gave you some very specific and actionable advice.
What have you done with it?
I didn't do anything unfortunately. I struggle with laziness and difficulty taking action.
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Are you guys in love or something?
Stop ruining my serious threads with your nonsense.
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@Princess Arabia you are a smart lady ..any advice?
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7 hours ago, Ajax said:Prioritize.... What is the one thing you want to have more than anything else in your life? The one thing you want to create?
If I'm being honest ..I want to bang bitches lol
But ...
The most important thing is:
Financial independence.
Any advice in how to achieve that ASAP?
I'm currently in first semester in uni and don't have a job and have no clue how to start a small business etc
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8 hours ago, Razard86 said:The answer to every question is authenticity.
Elaborate please..
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9 hours ago, Ramanujan said:Getting things done by david allen is good
Thanks .Will check it out .
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46 minutes ago, Phil King said:Get crystal fucking clear on your ideal life. Exactly where do you want to live. Exactly how much money do you want to make and how do you want to earn it. What are the experiences you want to have and who do you want to experience them with. What is your ideal partner, make a list of character traits. This vision is your target, and without a well defined target, you will be like a leaf in the wind.
After you have a crystal clear vision of your ideal life, then create a plan of how you will achieve that and take massive action everyday towards the actualization of that vision. What skills and education are you lacking that will stop you from achieving your vision. A major key here is confidence and self belief. Believe that your life is a winning lottery ticket and that you will do anything it takes to cash that ticket in. You must have complete faith in your ability to achieve your goals. Having a strong sense of Life purpose helps along with the knowledge that you were divinely crafted by God.
In terms of reprogramming your subconscious mind, hypnosis and NLP helps. Also spiritual work without spiritual bypassing. Psychedelics can help, but if you overdo them, it can kill motivation
Thank you man . Sincerely appreciated ?
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My dad used to tell me when I was a kid that if you work hard and struggle when you are young..you get to live a comfortable and luxurious life when you're older . And vice versa ..if you be lazy and piss away your youth years and not being productive you get to struggle when you're old . And he of course suggested to me to take the first route. And I'm convinced that this Is right . To study hard in school and get high grades that's gonna allow me to go to a high standard field in universities like engineering or computer science etc (I currently study business and marketing in University).
So my question is what is the key to success in all aspects of my life ? If I have a lot of dreams that seem too difficult or even impossible to achieve...how can I reprogram my mind and bust those limiting beliefs?
I want to live the best life possible. Achieving every item in Maslow's hierarchy of needs . I want to get the fuck out of India and live in a western country..I want to have sex with the hottest girls in the world..I want to have so much money that allows me to travel whenever I want etc . So much exotic experiences that I want to experience before my time runs out on this planet.
So..whats the key to achieve this ?
Thanks ?
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5 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:Do you realize that you are I AM/God/Everyone/No-One/Everything/No-Thing/Everywhere/Nowhere All at once. Realize that and you've achieved Enlightened. Also recognize there's nothing to achieve because you are also the achievement. Also recognize that since YOU ARE already it and if you are already it, then everybody else is already it, since you are everyone. Also recognize that these words are just words on a screen and that these words are Full Of Shit on a Full of Shit Computer Screen written by a Full Of Shit human and being read by another Full Of Shit human. So Enlightenment is Full Of Shit.
Even the BS detector is BS.
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3 minutes ago, Yimpa said:People who claim that they’re enlightened.
Lolz
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Just now, Yimpa said:There are many enlightened masters out there that have a bunch of content about enlightenment. If you are interested in enlightenment, then your best bet is to follow those masters.
My question is how tf you are supposed to know if someone is enlightened in the first place ?
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27 minutes ago, Someone here said:This may seem like a stupid question..but how do you know if you (or someone else) are enlightened? I'm certain I'm not . and probably never will be.. but how would I know? I've been practicing for 10-30 minutes a day for the past 3 years (mainly Vipassana meditation). I feel I've gained some valuable insight into the nature of mind and reality .but it's hard to tell if I'm making any real progress.. or where my practice will ultimately lead? Is psychedelics mandatory for enlightenment? Can you have a conceptual understanding of reality based on watching Leo's videos and consider yourself enlightened?
Can someone answer me this ?!
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This may seem like a stupid question..but how do you know if you (or someone else) are enlightened? I'm certain I'm not . and probably never will be.. but how would I know? I've been practicing for 10-30 minutes a day for the past 3 years (mainly Vipassana meditation). I feel I've gained some valuable insight into the nature of mind and reality .but it's hard to tell if I'm making any real progress.. or where my practice will ultimately lead? Is psychedelics mandatory for enlightenment? Can you have a conceptual understanding of reality based on watching Leo's videos and consider yourself enlightened?
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@Ajax don't post while high .
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15 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:Problem is you are concerened about women that shouldnt even cross your mind, because you only care about it so you can satisfy your needs...
Yes .I'm definitely a creep . I stare at women in public. With only one intent which is to get into their pants ...that's me OBJECTIFYING women..I need to fix that .
6 minutes ago, josemar said:If you can't see that far, admit to yourself that having sex is maybe your most important need at this stage of your life and take steps to satisfy that need
I've had plenty of sex with my ex . I masturbate twice a week .get nocturnal emissions every other day . Maybe I need to get chemically castrated (jk lol ? ).
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1 minute ago, NoSelfSelf said:@Someone here No problem, but you dont realise that you need to fix that every woman will realize your desperation and will use it againts you and since you follow your emotions she wont follow you which= no respect...
Would you believe that girls feel exactly the same way ?
They are concerned about how to find and meet guys. They are concerned about their first kiss. They are concerned about whether some guy likes them..how to stop feeling awkward around guys. Etc
So i must acknowledge that im being "normal". And learn to accept myself as i am without judgment. There is nothing "wrong" about me
. If you can't accept yourself as you are how can you expect others to accept you?
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3 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:@Someone here Well i lost hope in even saying anything to the threads you are posting they are low self esteem,low self worth ones ,this one has little something to add...
How do i know? Well nobody who loves himself would say i fall in love with every attractive woman i see, thats something really messed up whats going on and you know it,but since its influence its so strong you compensate by putting on a mask " im the shit " kind of guy wich even more hurts you to grow.. im pointing the bs and would appreciate the same from others to point mine...
There is something true about what you are saying.
Desperation arises when i start to prioritise the perception of significant other over my own life.
I will be 100% open about it . I'm like a horny desperate dog . Dunno why maybe I have abnormal levels of Testosterone in my body ..but I get aroused easily and quickly when I see an attractive girl . I'm also addicted to pornography. I'm working on correcting that .
Thanks for being blunt and honest with me.
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8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:God told me to humbly remind you:
NO ONE HERE IS AWAKE.
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Test me
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2 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:@Someone here what is there to be mad about im reading the post and responding to it...
You are always angsty with me ..that's something I've noticed over the months ..at first you were responding to my threads in this section and we had a lot of fun conversations..but since I posted that thread about me falling in love with a pornstar you just ignored me ..I thought you've put me on ignore list but I'm happy that that's not the case ?.
So ...what exactly do you mean by fixing the mess that I am ?
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17 minutes ago, Raze said:At least 4 years, most relationships only last under 2 years.
What ?! 4 years before deciding to get married from a girl ? I will already be bored of her and hitting on other girls ?
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@NoSelfSelf why you Mad bro ?
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4 minutes ago, Gabith said:@Someone here I cannot accept the fatality of being God, I cannot
I cannot bear that nothing makes sense and that humanity only keeps creating ideologies over the centuries against itself. I cannot bear all the suffering in this world, I cannot bear the idea of children being abused or tortured. My heart is broken by all this suffering inflicted upon Yourself, God.
You've become the puppet of your eternal dreamI get you man..I TOTALLY get you. I spent years in this frustration of trying to reconcile what I heard from teachers about life BEING love and happiness and peace and would get so hateful and angry and frustrated about these exact matters your pointing to. Who the fuck is this god or life that would do such things? this is NOT a loving god.. this is at best a chaotic god..massively imperfect..and far from love by any meaning I then understand.
What helped me was to see leave room for what I didn't understand or see.. to not assume what I was seeing and deducing was "objective"..not to assume life/god had volition and caused such things with intent.. to see the non-objectivity of things..to peer into and see the oneness of suchness without filters or idea's and feel the reality melting love and peace in it all. Forgive life..forgive god..forgive yourself..this helped to.
If you assume god must of done such matters in the way you see and feel them to be..rhen you've already jumped many conclusions about life and see this as objectively so..and its result is your hate and frustration of something you believe to be true.
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@Gabith why do you want to die ? Can you open up a little bit? Maybe I can help you out because I was suicidal in the past .
Also btw Once you die the whole of reality will die with you .(not to Encourage you to commit suicide but just sayin).
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I study business in college.
Don't have any job or degree.