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We are all addicts .. Just to different things . There is a deep hole that addicts desperately try to futilely fill with food or money or drugs or alcohol or sex or good reputation or fame or any externals. i call that a "spiritual hole" that those addicts(including myself)are trying to fill with externals and bodily comforts and indulgences... but it can never be filled with such things. The more you try to fill that hole with such things..the hungrier you will get. The hole gets deeper the more you chase or catch externals. The more you feed it..the deeper and hungrier it gets. In that way.. the greedy always starve. They starve themselves by feeding themselves. I'm not just talking about literal food here.. but any externals or bodily feelings including money..wealth..your reputation ..sex.. alcohol.. gambling..cigarettes(which Is my biggest addiction)..i say Anyone who attempts to obtain happiness and/or fulfillment via such things will be miserable and have an ever-deepening ever-hungrier hole that makes them continuesly miserable and sad and depressed. Nothing finite will ever fully fulfil you .because you are infinite. Your desire is infinite . Consider for example that the porn content online is technically endless..and yet the more you watch porn the more you want to watch more . Contemplate this guys .

As long as you are a human rat you will keep running hunting the carrot..you will chase pleasure and escape from pain..this does not ever change. Even enlightened folks need to eat ,shit ,and fuck..But the difference is that they are deep down aware that its all for nothing at the end . To be in a state of 24/7 bliss and ecstasy is something that does not seem realistic to me . Even Jesus suffered on the cross . This is spiritual nonsense to say the ego will be in bliss. However..the ego is inside bliss . Bliss is the substratum of existence. Its the background of the ego. The ego appears inside this bliss in the background . But the ego will never be blissful eternally .unless you disidentify with the ego completely and identify as bliss ...but that's called death.

And roses are red .

@Dodo law of attraction..daily affirmations ..plus a vision board . Plus taking huge action and actually improving your attractiveness as a man and actually having the balls to talk to the girls you found are beautiful.

It is flowery 🙂! Its too good to be true isnt it ? I believe wholeheartedly 100% in the Law of Attraction. Two years ago i was about to suicide myself because i dont have a girlfriend..i just used vision board and practiced manifestation and in less than a year i met a girl and i fucked her brains out llol. So i don't just "believe"..but I KNOW! The Law of Attraction is a law of the Universe just as the law of gravity. But instead of gravity LA works by your thoughts. So instead of an object being thrown or falling towards you..its your thoughts coming to you. Your thoughts are alive and whatever you think creates what you see in your life. 🙏

Always be careful what you wish for and what you don't wish for as well..because I have verified multiple times in my own direct experience that whatever you think about often you tend to create. You are the creator of your reality whether you like it or not ..so why don't you create consciously? I'm sure that most of you guys can relate that when you think about something so often it tends to magically pop up in your life ..it's the law of attraction at work. The bottom line is..everything you think will come true one way or another. Not necessarily in the way you think about but most often than not..what you think will happen. For example.. if you're a virgin with no sexual experience with women..constantly thinking this will sustain this situation forever..because thinking you're a virgin.. and thinking you have no attraction skills WILL make that stay exactly like this (this is what reality is for you . and you don't want it to change ...). It's only when you change your mindset.. and everyday think positively about th situation... instead of focusing on the negative that it lwill change. That requires faith..and an enormous deal of courage..and hard work . but it can and must be done. You must find away to create your dream life .this is a win or win battle and I'm committed to change my life and take self actualization seriously.

@Razard86 epic shit !

Haha its very simple my dude ..when I tell you try to NOT think of a blue kangaroo ..immediately your mind will get filled with mental images of blue kangaroos floating around . Whatever you focus on either negative or positive is attracted . So when you fear something too much too often it will more likely happen..and if you want something so bad so often..the chances of it being attracted info your life will harness. That's what the law states .think about it as each thought carries an electric charge ..could be positive charge or negative ..negative attracts negative when you think fearful thoughts ..and positive attracts positive when you think positive thoughts .

It is accurate to call attraction as well. Literally everything is made of vibrations at the bottom level . So your thoughts attract similar signals when you put them out of your head into a vision board .

I agree . I'm using a vision board and I put it right ahead of me in the wall of my bedroom so that I can see my goals every day when I wake up in the morning and before going to sleep . Up to now I managed to manifest some stuff and it wasn't just a coincidence or self fulfiling prophecy..a girlfriend and quitting smoking .

Great Post. But you know ..nothing new under the sun ..this was discovered thousands years ago .. The Hindu 🕉️ tradition calls consciousness "Sat-Chit-Ananda". Meaning existence..awareness..bliss .

This is chapter "song of Solomon " from the old testament in the bible...it's extremely beautiful romantic and sexual flirting poem..: "How beautiful are your feet in sandals, O noble daughter! Your rounded thighs are like jewels, the work of a master hand. 2 Your navel is a rounded bowl that never lacks mixed wine. Your belly is a heap of wheat, encircled with lilies. 3 Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. 4 Your neck is like an ivory tower. Your eyes are pools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bath-rabbim. Your nose is like a tower of Lebanon, which looks toward Damascus. 5 Your head crowns you like Carmel, and your flowing locks are like purple; a king is held captive in the tresses. 6 How beautiful and pleasant you are, O loved one, with all your delights![a] 7 Your stature is like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters. 8 I say I will climb the palm tree and lay hold of its fruit. Oh may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, and the scent of your breath like apples, 9 and your mouth like the best wine. .... 10 I am my beloved's, and his desire is for me. The Bride Gives Her Love 11 Come, my beloved, let us go out into the fields and lodge in the villages;[d] 12 let us go out early to the vineyards and see whether the vines have budded, whether the grape blossoms have opened and the pomegranates are in bloom. There I will give you my love. 13 The mandrakes give forth fragrance, and beside our doors are all choice fruits, new as well as old, which I have laid up for you, O my beloved.

So I've catched up with Palestinian-Israeli war..but help me understand something.. so after the attack on the 7th.. why not ask the Palestinians.. DO YOU AGREE WITH THE ATTACK? and/or.. DO YOU AGREE WITH HAMAS.. ARE THE PALESTINIAN PEOPLE ON THE SAME SIDE AS THEM..AND INDEED ARE INDISTINGUISHABLE FROM HAMAS? If yes to any of these.. then why are you feeling sorry for yourselves? If they are innocent then none of the above applies. I just want to know the answer to this question ..why on earth have they not been asked? Beem watch the news recently to learn from CNN ..a lot.. so if I did miss reporters asking Palestinians if they agree with the attack.. they should ask it again and keep asking. The news are persistent with other questioning..so why not such fundamental ones?

Guys ..it's very simple (not easy but simple )..see girl..approach girl . That's it . Get out of your goddam head .go straight to her and say hi I like your dress or whatever. Its not weird .it's not creepy .it's not cringe. Nobody in this world hates compliment .do you know how happy you make her feel when you tell her "I find you cute "? Imagine the reverse situation..if someone (from your gender or the opposite gender) came to you and told you they find you attractive..isn't that gonna make you happy? Well this is what I'm saying . Just compliment her in a cool non-sexually vulgar way and you will make her happy ..you will probably (about 90% of the time ) find her smiling or giggling a lil bit . Then see how she responds ..then comes the real bitch ..how to Carry the conversation? Well...express your honest feelings towards her ..again with caution and not so sexually connotated way . Ask her for a phone number and that's it . It's really is so fucking simple . And you will get rejected..oohhh boy you get your ass rejected a dozen of times ..but trust me it feels better to go out and talk to girls and get rejected than to stay home or go out and not open any girl . Appreciate the joy of approaching a girl . It feels awesome. You will feel awesome. And that's exactly what you want isn't it ?

R u saying this because I'm talking about sex and lust a lot in this thread 😂? My Ex girlfriend rimmed my butthole with a strapon and I'm completely sexually satisfied haha Thanks man. I mean think about it ..quantum mechanics says that everything is made of vibration. Your thoughts shape your reality because every though carries a vibration or an electrical charge ...when you send it out to the world it's gonna attract similar charges. Nope . Both are equally important. But you must start with the material before the spiritual.

@Razard86 REAL=pure being =actuality =direct experience =sensation.. feeling.. consciousness. So what is real must be persistent? The only thing that doesn't change is change itself . Gotta appreciate the pradadox.

If this Karma theory of yours is true then we don't have free will and everything (literally EVERYTHING) has been predestined from the get go (from the beginningless beginning). If you increase your consciousness you realize that the idea that we are here as puppets and the puppteer is Karma or God or whatever is downright convoluted belief system that you've picked up from the Buddhist tradition ..and which have zero evidence backing it up . You are saying we can be happy even if the sky is falling apart and your body is being dipped in Lava lol? ...which is another cute spiritual fantasy.

That's an interesting perspective...But you are ofcourse aware that some people have not won the genetic lottery and they are born as starving kids in Africa..how could they "create joy and bliss as baseline " if their stomach is itching them from hunger? You first need to feed them ...give them shelter ..comfort and basic human needs . Of course chasing after sex ..money ..and drugs is a serious trap .to get drunk and snort Cocaine from a hooker's tits and sleep between a prostitute's legs everyday will ruin your life for good . It is counterintuitive in that sense . For me personally..I understand that peace is not found in material goods ..nor is it found as a baseline..I'm going for the middle way . Satisfying your needs then detaching from them when you get sick and tired of em.

@Ishanga to bliss out on nothing like an enlightened ascending zen master you must first fulfil your basic needs . You need food ..money ..bitches..lamborghini..Yachts etc and enjoy the shit out of life before you can even pretend to transcend the material realm and fly off to buffy spiritual lofty land .

Fake it till ya make it ? I agree partially. You have to already feel that your goals are a living reality and not feel a sense of lack . Because if you already think that what you have is enough you will be satisfied. But if you think of lacking nothing will fulfil you ..hedonic adaption and the donkey chasing the carrot. Brilliant! Thanks for sharing and let me know if you want to have a quick Chat on this topic .

Give an example please I don't understand with that mean . You are right . But I sounded too generalizing to encourage people to change their thought patterns. It's just an exaggerating to motivate peeps on here or people who are stuck in victim mentality and think that they don't get what they want in life because the world Is against them .its a form of paranoia. I'm saying you should first change your thoughts ..and changing thoughts will change actions automatically and that will change the results also automatically.

I agree . I don't take anything I say as an absolute fact or an end all be all . I'm just sharing my limited perspective. To me..it's common sense that men priorities looks over personality..and vice versa for women. You are missing something huge. I would say if you are a virgin try hardly to get a girl . Sex is not a luxury. Its essential need for humans . Its in the lowset needs in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. You will become very much happy and optimistic and you will love life if you lose virginity . Just the first kiss will turn your life upside down ..downside up .

@bebotalk I was an incel just close to last year.. before I lost my virginity to some girl in college. We broke up now and not gonna lie im so thirsty for a new girl . I'm not necessarily horny or sexually frustrated but more like I need a feminine energy in my life because I'm living a very crude life and very brutal between college and job . You can only understand incels if you are one of them . They think they will never be liked by an attractive girl . Like i said in OP ..you can easily debunk that belief by actually going out and talking to girls . You will see that all of that incel bullcrap is horsecrap lol. You can easily hook a girl if you learn the dating skills . The only problem with those incels is they think nobody will ever like them without actually trying to approach. Just sulking in their house .

No .There is a asymmetry between what men and women are looking for in each other. Men are mostly visual and they care first and foremost about the sex-appeal of the lady . Because that's what the masculine needs from the feminine. It needs beauty. But the feminine doesn't need beauty from the masculine. It needs confidence and masculine energy. "Looks " are just looks my dude . I don't think you need to open some dictionary to know what that means .

Looks aren't the first priority to girls . Unlike guys . Agree?