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  1. Night Game - What are good openers?
    Night Game - What are good openers?
    The answer to that question is the heart of game. The answer cannot be told to you, you must learn it by doing it.
    There isn't any algorithmic way to follow up. You must be so in the zone that you say whatever comes to your mind and amuses you, and whatever matches your sexual intent towards the girl you are speaking to. In other words, your follow-up cannot be some canned lines, it must be genuine and improvisational.
    Usually the best follow-up is not interview style questions but just fun shit-talking.
    Here's an example:
    A girl is walking out of the restroom at the club. I tap her on the shoulder, smile, and say, "I love you." She gives me a face like she is turned off. I calibrate to that and say, "Hey, come here a second. Did you just take a giant shit in there? That turns me on. You should go back in there and take a video of yourself taking a giant shit and send it to me." I say this in way where it's obvious I'm teasing her. Her face changes, now she's interested in talking to me. So I pull her in physically and talk with her about other random stupid shit. This is not a routine I run. This is a spontaneous response generated on-the-fly to a particular situation.
    Basically, your conversations have to be fun and random. Nothing serious. Nothing logical. Mostly it's flirting and shit-talk.
    Your follow up has to be congruent with how you feel in the moment and your intent towards her. For example, if I see a girl I really like, I might just walk up to her, take her by the hand, and say, "OMG, you are fucking adorable. Come here..." and give her a genuine hug. Then stare in her eyes and hold her by the waist.  This is not done as some "routine" or planned line. It's a fully authentic expression of my attraction towards her, specifically her, in that moment. It's calibrated to her and to my own internal state. I am also reading her face and body to gauge how open she is to me. If she recoils, I will back off. If she is open then I will escalate further. The verbals comes spontaneously, not pre-meditated.
    Your follow ups have to be improvisational. This is the hardest and most important part of game to learn. You learn it by lots of trail and error.
    A good way to practice this is to open with a very simple opener and then force yourself not to ask her any questions and instead make statements about her. Talk to her without needing her to give you material. Also, you need to come from a fun, positive, emotional state, not a logical state. So put yourself into the proper state first before talking.
    When you are in the right state, verbals become effortless and fun. When you are in the wrong state, your verbals are logical and awful.

  2. "Life is a dream" Question
    "Life is a dream" Question
    Yes, exactly.
    Yes, of course. That's what a psychedelic trip is. You think of demons and then they start to materialize on your carpet.
    In one of my early mushroom trips I started to think that my room resembles an ancient Indian palace a bit, and pretty soon my room turned into an ancient Indian palace.
    But normally the human mind is not powerful enough to override outer seeing, because if it was, you'd call that going insane. People who can do that are locked up in mental hospitals and given anti-psychotic drugs. Or they are mystics living in caves.
    See, if you started to think that your mom was a rubber yellow duck so deeply that she turned into one, you'd think you'd gone batshit crazy. But actually, you're just employing the power of God's mind to create its own reality. Nothing crazy about it.

  3. "Life is a dream" Question
    "Life is a dream" Question
    The ego IS mental images and thoughts.
    The source of all thoughts and mental images is Infinity or God.
    Yes, that's what the ego is for, to control things.
    Whatever practices help to dissolve ego. Even something like a cold shower can help with that. But ultimately awakening is necessary.

  4. Night Game - What are good openers?
    Night Game - What are good openers?
    1) Approaching and getting blown out
    2) Shit talking with wings
    3) Dancing & listening to good music
    4) DMT
    5) Going out consistently, building up momentum
    6) Getting present and enjoying the environment, getting very calm in my body
    7) Not thinking. Stop planning your approaches, stop thinking about "What am I going to say?"
    8) Using funny, obnoxious, and absurd lines like: "Hi, I'm a douche bag. You should meet me." And in general just inventing new funny things to say to girls.

  5. "Life is a dream" Question
    "Life is a dream" Question
    Pretty close.
    Well, you are imagining that right now.
    The way to resolve this matter is you become absolutely conscious and you see what remains. This issue cannot be answered from the finite human consciousness that most people are stuck in.
    You can become absolutely conscious that NOW is the only thing which is True.
    NOW is an absolute. Past and future are imaginary and relative.

  6. Night Game - What are good openers?
    Night Game - What are good openers?
    Don't waste time trying to invent clever openers. The opener is irrelevant.
    "Hey! Stop. I wanted to meet you real quick. What's your name?" is basically your universal opener.
    The words of your opener is not what gets you the girl.
    Observational openers tend to work best. For example: "Hey, girl in the black dress. I wanted to meet you real quick."

  7. The fine line between enlightenment and mental instability
    The fine line between enlightenment and mental instability
    Of course, I get it.
    Only in your mind.
    But I get it.
    Well, what's to that is that she's a central part of your dream.
    - - - - - -
    To answer your question in a practical way, the difference is that there are many unusual and strange states of consciousness which could even be mystical, but they are not awakening or God-realization proper. And also, her ego-mind might be struggling to properly make sense of and integrate genuine spiritual insights. Or her awakenings and spiritual insights may be very lopsided and incomplete.
    The hallmark of the deepest awakenings is the overwhelming, intense recognition of Love, Beauty, and Perfection. Without these the awakening is incomplete and can feel negative.
    If your awakening is not the happiest moment of your life, then you haven't really awoken. You should be dying from joy. Awakening is literally heaven.

  8. Putin: A Deteriorating Narcissistic Mind
    Putin: A Deteriorating Narcissistic Mind
    Just because someone has a different survival agenda than you does not make them a psychopath.
    You guys are starting to disappoint me with your flagrant self-bias.
    This reminds me of a rube who goes to China and calls them psychopaths for eating dogs.

  9. Unable to Love, but I’d Love to
    Unable to Love, but I’d Love to
    I don't particularly feel a deep love for people. People are pretty huge pains in the ass.
    Some people are people people and others are not.  Your love might be more universal and should be expressed in ways that are not one to one.
    Then again, don't turn this into a crutch. Explore deep intimacy with a few select people and use that to open yourself up to loving people more. Or psychedelics can do that for you.
    Overly flowery love for people is usually paper thin and doesn't hold under survival pressures. As soon as you do the wrong thing those flowery lovey-dovey people get all pissy.

  10. *TRIP REPORT* of going to hell, to the point of suicide. 
    *TRIP REPORT* of going to hell, to the point of suicide. 
    @Forza21 Lay off the psychedelics and turn your mind elsewhere. You're just struggling to integrate.
    It is about Love but your mind is too selfish, attached, and fearful to see that yet.
    You are experiencing God-realization through a thick layer of ego and fear. Which is why it freaks you out and you don't see the Love. You need to do a lot more work letting things before you realize the Love.

  11. Request to Leo, to make blog post/video about Putin behavior in Ukraine.
    Request to Leo, to make blog post/video about Putin behavior in Ukraine.
    @hello1234 You are obviously attached to the Ukrainian survival agenda. I'm not blaming you for it -- you are in a difficult position where your survival is threatened -- but just notice that. This is the essence of self-bias. It distorts your perception of reality.

  12. Questions about consciousness and reality outside it
    Questions about consciousness and reality outside it
    No, your consciousness is Absolute.
    You imagine other people's lives.
    What God breaks through is the idea that things exist outside its mind. You are imagining things beyond your mind. Which is just your mind.
    When you are sitting on the toilet, all the exists is that toilet and the room it is in. That's what reality is: a room with a toilet in it. The rest is your fantasy. The room and the toilet is also your fantasy, but on a deeper level.

  13. If other people are you…
    If other people are you…
    @AMTO You can use thought to change your life. But thought is very limited. You can't use it to change the speed of light.
    Changing how you think about yourself will slowly change how people think about you. But indirectly.
    For example, if you think you're not attractive, others will think the same. If you change that to feel you are very attractive, others will start to get attracted to you. This is inner game 101, and it works.

  14. What We Truly Are Is Love, And Joy...And Bliss
    What We Truly Are Is Love, And Joy...And Bliss
    Selfish and selfless are one, obviously.
    You became selfish because you were selfless, and you will become selfless because you are selfish.

  15. BREAKING NEWS: PUTIN HAS GIVEN THE GO FOR THE UKRAINE INVASION
    BREAKING NEWS: PUTIN HAS GIVEN THE GO FOR THE UKRAINE INVASION
    This is a great video. It shows you the Russian survival agenda which no one in Western media is talking about or taking seriously.
    When Western media calls Putin irrational or evil, they show their utter self-bias and lack of perspective.
    THIS is the perspective that the West is missing.

  16. Eye contact game in the gym
    Eye contact game in the gym
    It's weird if you make it weird.
    This was 10 years ago.
    She told me she had a boyfriend before the date, but she agreeed to go on the date with me, so I didn't protest. I wanted to see what would happen and how girls work.
    As part of my learning game I have pushed ethical lines. Sometimes just to see what girls are willing to do and as a way to decondition myself from being a nice guy.
    My natural impulse is to be too nice with girls, so I had to untrain that.
    I don't recommend sleeping with girls with boyfriends or husbands. Bad karma.
    I do consider it unethical to sleep with girls who are taken.

  17. Eye contact game in the gym
    Eye contact game in the gym
    All unethical / selfish behavior has consequences.
    Be as selfish as you want, but be prepared to pay the cost.
    Maybe one day you will feel what it's like to be cheated.

  18. Eye contact game in the gym
    Eye contact game in the gym
    3 second rule. You see hot girl and you approach. Don't wait for any signals.
    I once saw a girl at the gym running on the treadmill with earbuds on. I walked in front of her treadmill. Did a big wave at her. Signaled her to stop running and take out her earbuds. She complied with all that. Then I told her I found her cute. We exchanged numbers. We went on a date. She had a boyfriend. I made out with her. But she refused to come home with me. And that was that.
    Don't let any minor obstacles stop you. If she's on her phone with her mom, you stop her and tell her to hang up on her mom. I've done that and gotten laid from it. Hot girls are attracted to leadership.

  19. WW3 prep ideas - brainstorming
    WW3 prep ideas - brainstorming
    Take a boat to Fiji. Live out life on a tropical island hunting for coconuts.
    Ironically you'd probably be happier than how you live now.

  20. I am in a terrible condition. Kundalini
    I am in a terrible condition. Kundalini
    https://www.youtube.com/user/TaraSpringett/videos
    This channel was helpful for my Kundalini journey
    I also read her books I recommend this one for you: https://www.amazon.de/Healing-Kundalini-Symptoms-Proven-Techniques/dp/1689344970/ref=sr_1_7?crid=2M9YC09XP7B6F&keywords=tara+springett&qid=1645878736&s=books&sprefix=tara+sprin%2Cstripbooks%2C147&sr=1-7
    These techniques will get you rid of your symptoms very quickly

  21. Crazy! First time trying psychadelics...
    Crazy! First time trying psychadelics...
    Good, but you're still so far from the ultimate God-realization. This was just a baby encounter with God.
    God is you! But it will take you many more trips to realize and fully accept that.
    Keep tripping, carefully. You don't need to wait a whole year to face your resistance. Give yourself time to integrate but also don't waste time in avoidance and fear. Fear has to be faced. Reaching the ultimate levels of awakening will involve facing lots of fear, over and over again.

  22. Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    You pull to the biggest and closest place. So ideally a place with 2 beds. You never split a set of girls who are close friends, they will refuse it. Just pull them both.
    Pulling 3 girls with 2 guys is gonna be very challenging. You basically need one of them to drop off, leave, or fall asleep. Or you can try to grab a random guy to join you two. Or you can even call a wing to come join. Once you got a contact list of local wings, you can text them and say, "We got an extra girl who needs company. Come to my place."
    Another thing that's possible is you pull all 3 girls to your place for an after party. As you party with them and have fun, you take your girl by the hand and lead her to the bathroom and go quick sex there. This is a good option when there's just no way to properly isolate. Just make sure she don't regret sex with you. Make sure she wants it.
    Another good option is to party with them till the dead of night, till everyone is dead tired and start going to bed. Then just follow your girl into her bed. Often her friends could fall asleep early, giving you privacy with your girl.
    You could also take her to have sex in your car if you got one. Or even outside in some dark alley.
    One of my old wings literally fucked a girl in Austin under a bridge.
    You gotta be creative. Again, make sure she's into it.
    I've had wings fuck girls in restrooms, parking lots, cars, bridges, rooftops, ice rooms, and even in the middle of the dance floor at the club. You can even fuck in an elevator.
    The other option with a 3-set is do it solo so the other 2 girls can entertain themselves while you eventually walk off with your girl at the very end of the night. You just stick around with them an be social until your girls to bed and you follow her into her bed.
    - - - -
    Just keep looking for better wings. Yeah, sometimes wings can be very immature or inept. But you will eventually find great wings, especially in a place like Toronto.
    A great way to find wings is to attend an RSD Free Tour event when it comes to your town. The best wings tend to show up to those.

  23. Should I ever go for taller girls?
    Should I ever go for taller girls?
    Yes you should as long as you find them attractive.
    Personally I don't approach girls over 5'10" because I'm not attracted to that.
    Never don't approach a hot girl because you think you're too short for her to want to sleep with you. That's pure bullshit.
    If you approach a lot of tall girls, you'll see that many of them will get attracted to you and will be willing to date and sleep with you. Not always, but enough that its worth it. You don't need every tall girl to like you. Even 5% would be more than enough for you.
    Not approaching because she is 1-2 inches taller than you? This is just laughable. Stop being a pussy and approach!
    Maybe if she was a foot taller than you, your logic might make more sense.

  24. Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    Dude, Toronto is one of the top cities in the world for game. So none of your BS excuses.
    You can find tons of wings and you can also game solo. But solo is very hard to start with so look for wings. Fuck your values for now. You don't need these wings to be your spiritual gurus. Their only purpose right now is to get you laid. Later you can be more picky.
    The dude from HonestSignalz YT channel is from Toronto. Watch him game.
    You are not going to find enlightened wings. PUAs are all around stage Orange and they are obsessed with one thing: getting laid. Which is what you need right now.

  25. Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    As per Leo's advice, I ventured out into the world of nightgame in Toronto. It was an incredible experience. However, I tried finding wings on the Game Global Chat (as I was advised here) and they weren't the type of people who shared similar values as me. I noticed that most of them just want is to get the close at ANY COST and some of them (but not all) are quite cringe and have very little ethical concerns in their dealings with women. If anyone reading this post is in that Game Toronto chat, they probably know what I am talking about. 
    My vision is to just develop myself as a man and learn these skills and have fun with better looking women than whatever the dating apps got me. So here come my questions:
    Did Leo find success in nightgame while doing it solo with no wings? I really don't care about wings unless they share my values and such wings are hard to find (but if I find one, I'll go out with him).
    If I do nightgame alone, is it really possible to pull a girl while remaining socially calibrated? The problem is that all these girls come in groups of 2 or 3 or 4 or more, how do you effectively pull?
    I am guessing the answer is the whole "Can I come with you?" Method at the end of the night. However, even when Leo mentioned it, I feel like I can't do that shit while remaining socially calibrated and not crossing some lines. I hate it when guys push themselves on girls, and if I do that, it feels like I am pushing myself on girls. 
    But yea, if @Leo Gura or anyone with success in Solo nightgame answers this with his experience doing nightgame alone and some tips on how to pull a girl from a group (by going with them or bringing her to his place) , that would be fucking awesome!
    Also, logistical pointers and other pointers for Leo or anyone answering this:
    I have my own place downtown Toronto and it is within 10-15 minutes by car from every single nightlife hot spot (so YEA, I am good when it comes to logistics).  I have NO ROOMMATES, so that is also nice, but one bedroom and a living room.  I don't fear approaching. I am comfortable getting rejected. It is no big deal.  Those pointes should help anyone trying to answer and help me.