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  1. Posted · Edited by billiesimon

    Since my "eternal present" psychedelic experience, I have this subtle feeling that I'm just experiencing my own personal perspective of reality and that there's no objective reality out there.

    :o 

    Since I've started going really hardcore on self love and meditation, a lot of random people I know have started to evolve, out of the blue! And also my reality is becoming more and more loving and peaceful. I mean, material reality, not just my emotions. 

     

    Am I the only one in my physical reality?!? 

    Are there 7 billions different "physical" realities out there? Each for every single mind? 

    I'm pretty shocked by this feeling. But my last psychedelic experience has demonstrated me that I am shaping my reality. 

    So.. There's no objective reality out of my mind? 

    Can some of you explain this? Am I talking to myself with this post? :o

  2. Posted

    19 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

    Bro, I'm so happy for you. I also have had a couple of intense connection to the source in low doses like that of psychs. The most important thing is intention, how purified you are to receive the love of the source... Having a meditation practice definitely helps, don't stop doing it!

    And By the way, feel it now, because you are IT! You deserve this stillness all the time! Start recognizing yourself ;)

    Thanks! This experience definitely taught me to better value myself anf my present moment :)

  4. Posted

    I'm floored. I have no words for the magic that Source has created on this Earth, and how much it loves me.

    It loves me so much, and I've been ignorant of this energetic umbelical chord I have with it. It's in all of us.

    Maybe @Leo Gura can give some insights xD

     

    I've had three psychedelic trips total, and this one is somehow the fourth one, but it's not an actual trip.

    DOSE: around 40 ug 1P-LSD, which is almost nothing.

    But it has breeded SO MANY INSIGHTS that I'm shocked as hell now.

    - Setting: I've taken it while doing my daily activities, mainly because I was curious to see how it affects my daily normal life as a very tiny dose.

     

    I'm shocked guys. My INTENTIONS for this dose was to try to discover PRESENCE and CONNECTION TO SOURCE, as an Ego. I'm not talking about enlightenment.

     

    I've taken a walk along the river, to relax and chill out alone. And then the LSD started pumping in my brain.
    - Zero visuals
    - Zero high states
    - Zero special effects of senses
    BUT ASTOUNDING PRESENCE


    I was SOOOOO clear and sooo immersed in the magic of the present moment!!!
    The river was so magical, so beautiful in ITS NATURAL LOOK, it was my usual sight as a normal person with no psychoactive brain.
    Yet the river was so beautiful. The sun was enchanting. The grass was so perfect and green and full. 
    Life was STILL. There was NO RUSH. NO ANXIETY. NO PAIN. NOWHERE TO RUN.

    At that exact moment, as I was completely enamored by the beauty of the present moment, a beauty I'VE NEVER NOTICED in my everyday chores and walks to the house.... I finally connected with Eckhart Tolle.

    YES. NOW I UNDERSTAND. Now I understand why he sits on the bench for an entire day.

    Why he speaks so slowly. THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN. YOU HAVE ETERNITY.

    Oh my god, I was genuinely floored. I love Eckhart but.... I've always found hard to understand his attitute to life.

    Now I understand. He FEELS the eternal present. 

     

    After a long pleasant walk with zero badass graphics and zero badass sensations, I noticed it.
    I noticed it.

    I forgot all my past. 
    And all my possible futures.

    There WAS NO PAST!! OH MY FREAKING GOD!!!! 

    I literally lost the memory of my past for several minutes!!!! It felt like being a child again!!!!

    And then, after this , the final MAGIC OF PRESENCE.

     

    I was walking towards my house and a group of kids (I'm 30) walks towards me and I'm peacefully walking in total bliss without noticing them.

    They are happy too, and we seemed to be doomed to crash into eachother.

    Then the magic happens.

    I literally feel a magical force moving with love my feet and body to avoid the happy children, and we literally cross eachother gracefully like a dance.

    Normally I would have felt nervous about crashing into them or hurting them, because they appeared out of nowhere.

    I literally felt Source gently moving my body such as to avoid MY and THEIR BLISS from being disrupted.

     

    I got back at home in a state of total happiness and childlike fullfillment. 
    "I am so pure. I am so innocent now. WOW!!! The infinite source is ACTUALLY giving me life force, and guiding me, and I've NEVER NOTICED it my entire life!!!

     

    The last insight is that I've also noticed a strong river of energy (prana) moving through my spine (I practice the chakras when meditating usually).

    I've never felt the energy of prana in my normal life, only sometimes in meditation.

    It was so INSANE!!! I was feeling an immense stream of FREE ENERGY coming directly from the source, just for me.

    Because Source loves me. Yes. It loves me. And now I've started to listen to it. I'm so addicted to source energy now.

     

    I want to listen more. Thanks.

  8. Posted · Edited by billiesimon

    I want to start by THANKING YOU, especially @Leo Gura, for the amazing Love and Wisdom shared in this community.
    Also, @Nahm .  A personal thank you, compassionate soul. May the flow of infinite energy always bless you.

    As a second note, I want to say that I LOVE YOU. I passionately love you, I energetically and powerfully love you. Yes, I mean every single one of you, I literally love you all. We are all brothers and sisters in the Source of all there is.

     

    Let’s start – Remember that the Source is always flowing and that your ego is chocking the endless and majestic power of Source from exploding in you – This is ABSOLUTELY my biggest insight!

     

    Source is ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS CALLING YOU!!!! YOU ARE THE ONE NOT LISTENING!!
    I LOVE YOU ALL and so I am confident that you will listen, in the end. Like I did today, when I finally SURRENDERED to the Infinite Origin.

     

    BASICS of my own path

    I have meditated for more than a year, done shadow work for more than a year, and studied metaphysics and spirituality for the same amount of time.

    I have always had HUGE EMOTIONAL BLOCKAGES
    I have always chased Love, but rejected myself in the meantime. Reality replied by giving me rejections from girls, and more pain.
    My whole theme in life (I’m 31) has been only Love in the negative. Self loathing, self hate, self ignorance. And chasing others as a seeking of Love. Of course all of it failed miserably, and the girls who already appreciated me, I lost them too.

    My most active and energetic chakra is the second, the passionate and creative one, and it has communicated to me all the time that I must wake up.

    I’ve always been the nerdy shy guy, with no self love, a lot of empathy for others, but at the same time very stifled and incapable of relating with the world. Ouf of fear.
    I’ve always been generous and kind, but in the past it’s been really really choked by ego.

     

    1ST psychedelic trip – 1P-LSD

    In my first trip I’ve had a huge shedding of tears and laughter. The biggest epiphany was the release of several limiting beliefs about myself and others. And the everlasting “channeled” phrase: “I Am Art”. In fact I have declared a lot of times I Am Art in this first trip.
    Then my ego kicked back in, but no huge shifts. I’ve felt a bit more natural and positive after this one.

    The big shift in this one was the need to better my meditation habit and make it more “liberating” and peaceful for the soul.

     

    2nd psychedelic trip – 1P-LSD

    No important shifts here. I have experienced a moment of brief and weak connection with infinite Eternity and Silence.

     

    After a month, I had done some much seeking of spiritual material and set SOOOO many intentions to find my FREEDOM from my jail of self-hate, that I have decided to do it again.

     

    3rd psychedelic trip – 1P-LSD

    I AM LOVE!!!
    I am the answer that what I’ve been seeking all my life. Love. I was seeking Love, and Love was denied to me.
    That’s because I had to learn to LISTEN! You. Have. To. Listen.

    I was the answer I was seeking ALL THE TIME!!!! I AM LOVE!!! I AM PASSION! I AM EMPATHY.
    But, most of all, I AM LOVE.
    I love myself, I love you all.
    And now the scary part that I was denying myself all these years.
    I FORGIVE THEM!!!! Those who did me wrong, I forgive them!!!
    I CAN’T AVOID FORGIVING THEM!! I LOVE THEM SO MUCH!!!! They are just unconscious like I’ve been all my life!!!

    Every single human and animal is my brother and sister in blood. We are bonded by the infinite and eternal BLOOD of Source.

     

    During the first phase of the trip I was still “myself” and I shed some tears here and there, and then I got mesmerized by my cat. He’s young and innocent, but in his innocence and curiosity, I’ve lost myself looking in his eyes for several minutes. And at some point, he immediately had those huge eyes of Eternal Wisdom. He was suddenly a mystery of the universe, hinting to me that he had the unlimited wisdom of Eternity. His eyes were huge and TIMELESS. He officially has 9 months, and he also has a huge bond with me, but he immediately shifted to TIMELESS EYES.

    A cat of Eternal Knowing, like God was looking at the through this magical animal. And I erupted in shock “oh my god!!! Do you…. Do you…. (have human consciousness)? “

    My cat was looking at me like he knew from forever and everywhere. He looked at me like he was the deepest depth of the Eternal Lifestream. The moment when I felt that DEEP STARE of wisdom onto me I literally gasped and asked him if he was aware like me, or even more. (of course now the cat is just a kitty with no wisdom at all xD)

     

    After that became aware of the tribal drum music I put on on purpose before starting the trip.

    At that moment my blood started to pulsate and my heart started to crack open.

    I watched at my hand, where I have written for several weeks in a row “I am love” and “I am infinite”, with a huge amount of handdrawn hearts on the palms and wrist. I have done this for some weeks because I was seeking to find what self love was. And I’ve felt a lot of these drawings were giving me release.

     

    I was looking at these writing on my wrist, and then my hands start to become and more orange and pink, orange, pink, rosey red, yellow…. Pulsating. Then I was looking at my hand and it became so BEAUTIFUL!!! The skin was moving like in tribal art, and the veins were colorful and deep red, and the writings were moving across my skin and they started to pulsate on my flesh.

    “OH MY GOD, I AM SO BEAUTIFUL! I AM SO MUCH WORTHY OF LOVE!”
    My skin and my flesh was ABUNDANT with passion, and art and creativity. Abundant with Love.

    Those writing I have been doing on my body as a “random act of self love” now were singing at me that I AM LOVE, I AM FREE EXPRESSION. I AM PASSION.

    Then I immediately contacted a close friend of mine, who’s also hugely responsible for this massive shift in growth, and told him that I am feeling all the suffering of the Earth.

    At this point, I was literally crying a bed of tears, and I shifted to a dimension where there was NO EGO. There was no restricted Simon, there was only a pure hearted brother of you all here on earth.

    I started crying “We are Love! Please, stop these wars!!! Stop hurting, I am hurting, I am hurting so much, please stop hurting each other, PLEASE MAKE IT STOP, I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!

    Now that I’m writing this I am weeping, and I feel so strongly for everybody. THERE IS NO ENEMY!!! STOP, PLEASE STOP!!!!

    “My Love, My Love is enough for everybody. I am Infinite Love. I am here to heal this earth. Nobody is evil, there is NO EVIL. I am Love and you are Love. I am here to tell you that you have to STOP NOW!!!”

     

    And then I felt it, this HUGE ocean of Consciousness, I was somehow feeling it, but I’m still not aware of it, I just remotely sensed it.

    And emerging from this sensing, my sense of identitiy COMPLETELY DISSOLVED for a few minutes.

    I and the ONLY thing I was feeling was INFINITE ABUNDANCE. I AM HERE TO LOVE YOU ALL.
    I HAVE SUFFERED AND HATED MYSELF FOR SO LONG, and now I AM LOVE.
    NOW
    I HAVE ENOUGH LOVE FOR EVERYBODY. I WANT TO GIVE MY LOVE TO EARTH, and heal all the damaged and lost, but ESPECIALLY I want to heal the “evil ones”. Because they are not evil.

    They are our brothers and sisters.

    They LOVE US!!!! And we. Love. Them.

    There is no enemy, It’s all an illusion!!! Stop fighting!! You are killing your own blood!!!
    THEY ARE YOUR SIBLINGS!!!

     

    ….

    …

     

    After a long period of crying and mouring, I returned to my feeling of abundance and love for life.

    Life is safe. We are here to ensure life on earth. We are waking up, because we are all siblings and we cannot forget our blood bonding.

     

    Earth is safe.

     

    Because my Love for it is eternal. We all love Earth. We will save earth.

    And dance.

    And sing.

    And make love.

    And smile.

    And… war will be over. It’s our calling. We are here to save us all from our IGNORANCE!!!


    INNOCENCE IS POWER.

    ARROGANCE IS IGNORANCE.

     

     

    I AM PURE, for an abundant child needs NO war.

    Only through the LIE of separation and DIFFERENCE we are fighting each other.

    We are Love. We promise you, that Earth is safe.

     

     

     

    There is no evil power on the universe capable of stopping US.

    Cause WE are children of Source.

     

     

    I am sooooo… soooo happy now. I’ve never been so happy in my ENTIRE LIFE!!!!

    We are safe, because we are Love and Wisdom.

     

    That’s all, for the little and humble and ignorant soul I am. I appreciate your attention and Love.
    By the way, attention is Love, that’s why negative thoughts manifest negative realities in your life xD

     

    ******** BEST RESOURCES I RECOMMEND (a part from Leo, of course <3 *********

     

    Eckhart Tolle (on Wisdom)
    Esther Hicks  (on Wisdom and the nature of emotions/vibrations)
    Rumi’s poems – Huge mix of wisdom and deep love
    I was an atheist, but I would totally say >>>> Jesus
    Balance the exaggerated Love from Jesus with some Wisdom from Eckhart or Esther, or Leo (who’s more inclined towards wisdom, while I seem to be more geared towards love).

    Read methaphysics. A lot. Understand reality and how the physical realm is just a projection, a MANIFESTATION of your own state of internal evolution.

    Neville Goddard – Yes, I deeply love him. He was a pure soul enamored with God and with giving you the right to be YOU!!!! Read Neville!!!! He loves you so much!!!!! He has spent his whole life seeking metaphysics and God through manifestation and through service to others.

     


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    I Love You All. So Much.
    We Are all the same Blood.
    This Blood is of the colors of the whole rainbow!
    We are linked by this beautiful blood!!! Stop shedding it.

    We All Love Us.

     

    “What you seek is seeking you” - Rumi

  9. Posted

    1 hour ago, Nahm said:

    @billiesimon Wonderful. :)

    ??

     

    I think the approach accommodates the listener’s duality. Really draws out grounded and groundless skepticism nicely. Some won’t even go near it. So glad to hear it’s clicking for ya. 

    Yeah, even though I still believe that Abraham is just Consciousness personified, I've had an instant click with her style, because emotions and the mind are my weak spots and strong spots at the same time. So, learning about a philosophy of well-being and emotional growth has fascinated me and made me realize that it's not the goals that matter, but you own happiness and fullness of living.

    She made me realize that it's not the object that matters but the emotional treasure that we seek in happiness.

    Of course I still crave the results, and I won't ditch them, but I am realizing how the "results" are just a physical picture of what you are on the inside.

    Very shocking.

  10. Posted · Edited by billiesimon

    2 hours ago, Nahm said:

    @billiesimon How are you finding the practices of loa?  Anything you feel ‘stuck’ on, etc? 

    Hey :) thanks for asking. 

    In fact I believe that you appeared because I feel more positive in these days xD

    I've read Esther Hicks in this past month and she resonates a lot with me. Because she's not achievement oriented but rather happiness oriented. 

    I've started practicing one week and a half ago, and for now the only results are that I feel happier, and I start to see how many good things I have in my life. 

    I think it's early for results, but.. I don't know. I am more in tune with my feelings and I am starting to feel worthiness for what I want to achieve/change in life. 

    No physical results, but strangely I feel like "i am there" in different moments of my day. 

    It's REALLY weird. I am used to feel happy only after the results. Sometimes not even after them :D

    P. S. I'm also continuing my shadow work, and more and more negative ghosts are arising and slowly disappearing. But sometimes I feel a heavy heavy weight on my throat and after some days it disappears. 

  11. Posted

    4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    I think it's more complicated than that.

    Be careful taking spiritually advanced people for fools.

    Channeling is a well documented phenomenon throughout history. She ain't the first one to do it.

    @Leo Gura Interesting :o I don't have any knowledge about spiritism and channeling.

    But do you think she's at least partially enlightened too? 

  12. Posted

    I've read two books by Esther and Jerry, and here's my personal take on their "spiritist" experience.

    I think that Esther just had a quick awakening, a simple form of enlightenment, which she described as "talking to Abraham".

    Reading her books she speaks a lot about enlightened truths, and she is aware of the united Consciousness which explains the law of attraction (everything is consciousness).

    I believe that there was no "spirits" talking to her, just a spiritual awakening she could not explain.

    What's your opinion?

  13. Posted

    1 minute ago, Nahm said:

    @billiesimon I believe you are mistaken, in your assessment that you don’t have much experience with loa. You have always been creating, and you’re really getting good at it. You’re being on purpose with what you want. That is a game changer. You’re doing awesome. I would love to hear back soon on the wonderful ways the universe unfolds your dream.

    Yeah, I just mean that I'm not experienced with conscious, deliberate creation :) the actual techniques of LoA.

  14. Posted · Edited by billiesimon

    30 minutes ago, Nahm said:

    The “same scene”, is what is. What is, is done, it’s already here. Enjoy it, but creation wise, it’s already manifested.  You are a creator, you can always manifest what is coming. 

    Write down “I want a nicer job”, ideally, on a dry erase board. This way it’s big, you see it everyday, and you can add to it anytime you want, and make changes anytime you want. 

    Then Dream big. Write what you want about this ‘nicer job’. Do not be realistic, write what you actually want. Have fun dreaming up the absolute best vision, and of course feel free to dream up some things you want along with the job. Maybe a certain vehicle - tape a picture of it to the board. Maybe a vacation somewhere, tape a picture up. Maybe a new computer, etc. You get the idea, dream big, and add everything you want to the board. 

    ‘Scripted vs freestyled’... Dreaming up what you want, and getting it on the board is the script, so to speak. Visualization is great, but it only serves to trigger, or culminate, the feeling of having it, the knowing in your bones it is coming. It’s the feeling that connects you, your source, and the universe in which it all manifests. 

     Reality is already ‘hearing’, already knowing, what you are expressing you are wanting, and the coming of it is already underway. 

    Watch for the synchronicities, feel for that magic, enjoy the awesomeness of the seeing it coming. Be as open minded as you can to how it comes. Relish in the knowing it is coming, and the excitement watching. 

    If a thought arises, and sensations tell you “that thoughts not true”, or,  “that thought doesn’t jive with what you established you wanted” - just choose a better feeling, more aligned with feelings, thought. 

     

    Thanks :)

    Well, my vision papers are already written down. I've spent days writing what I want out of my job opportunities, the satisfaction, the atmosphere etc...

    But I need to implement the visualizations, or the "vision pages" won't do much, aside from getting the picture of what I want clear.
    Visualization makes the emotions and the positive vibes engraved in the subconscious, thus shifting your reality.

     

    I was asking because a "random" visualization, in my opinion, is very scattered and messy, while a more "scripted" scene, that is truthful to the written description, is the best to move into your new reality.

    I don't have much experience with LoA and the subconscious, sorry.

  16. Posted · Edited by billiesimon

    @Nahm something I never understood about visualization and LoA.

    Let's say I want a nicer job. 

    Should I keep on visualizing the SAME scene? For example: me arriving at the office, happy and in harmony with my work and colleagues, and starting my monday fullfilled. 

    Or should I always freestyle a new visualization on the theme, with different scenes each time I sit to visualize? 

    That's what I don't get about LoA and visualizations. 

    Should they be "scripted" or always freestyled on inspiration? 

  18. Posted

    30 minutes ago, Nahm said:

    Think about what you want.

    But is the LoA able to manifest things out of your physical control? 

    For example meeting by chance your perfect girl or finding your perfect job opportunity? 

    Those things that common people call "luck". 

    Or is it just a "self help" law, which dictates that thinking positive makes you more productive? 

    That's what I don't understand. 

    Is it spiritual or just behavioral in nature? 

  21. Posted

    29 minutes ago, see_on_see said:

    People stuck in a cycle of casual sex are actually at stage Orange. Stage Green would be actual relationships. 

    Well, of course stage orange is shallow on sex, but from what I can see stage green ideologies tend to push women onto casual sex and open relationships, not intimate ones.

    Nothing against that, if a woman wants to do it.

    I'm just saying that it's killing the possibilities of connecting deeper with a partner.

  22. Posted

    I follow some dating and pickup coaches, and they keep saying that in the recent years relationships are dying and people just want to have casual sex and remain single and selfish. 

    Especially in the pickup scene they keep saying that women don't want relationships anymore, because they're a burden and a nuisance for their fun single life. 

    Is this a result of society transitioning to SD stage green? 

    Why are we moving towards isolation and superficial sex if society is supposed to increase love and a sense of acceptance/community? 

    Why are women becoming like the asshole stereotype who just wants sex? 

    Share your insights. Especially girls :)

  23. Posted

    Watch this video

     

    I'm really confused about this topic, because in my life I've seen both examples of girls liking nice guys and girls wanting only the bad boys.

    But A LOT of surveys and interview (like this one) bring a HUGE amount of points to the bad guys.

    Why are women so attracted to bad boys, to the point that they consciously decide to chase them?

    I think this goes very deep in the problem of reconciling the sexes, because if women truly want these guys we can't get along as men and women. Because the relationships that girls seem to want are based on conflict, ignoring, emotional starving, and power play.

    What's your opinion?

  24. Posted

    2 hours ago, Emerald said:

    Women who are in touch with their emotions don't want a man as a commodity. That's a common projection coming from society thinking about women as a commodity. And it comes from a sense of insecurity and low self-worth. And it also comes from being too much in masculine-mode (mind-mode) and not being enough in the feminine-mode (heart-mode). So, there is a desire to quantify and objectify everything, instead of being in the intuition and heart.

    @Wasem absolutely this.

    I used to have huge victim complexes and sense of unworthiness because of this materialist paradigm (which is the center of gravity of western society right now). With time I'm discovering that my authenticity and ability to bring happiness to people is a lot more respected and valued than materialist usefulness. This paradigm is very toxic for men who want to find connection and being appreciated for who they are.

  25. Posted

    18 minutes ago, Emerald said:

    I'm of the mind that women rival men in regards to sex drive, which runs counter to most folk wisdom about the topic. I think this because I can't imagine that a man would think that much more about sex than I do, which is often. So, the difference, in my view, is slight.

    That said, women are less likely to want to have sex. And this is for several reasons.

    Number one, for men sex is a medium risk, high reward activity. For women, sex is a high risk, low reward activity (most of the time). So, women are inclined to be more selective about sex because they are less likely to feel physical pleasure and sexual satisfaction but are risking pregnancy and have to be vulnerable to someone stronger than them. Also, they are more likely to contract STDs from men than men are from women. So, these are the practicals.

    But even moreso than this, women's satisfaction during sex has to do with emotional stimulation and fulfillment. So, not just any sex will do. There is a relatively high bar for what is good sex for a woman, and most of it's bad sex. For men, their satisfaction has most to do with a physical body reaction as this is what produces a child. And so, mostly, all sex is good sex for them. 

    So, if we think of this in a different analogy, let's take enjoyment of food. So, let's say there are thoughts that men enjoy food more than women.

    And men in this imaginary society will eat any food and be excited about it, as long as it's okay. So, men will enjoy fast food, gas station food, casual dining, fine dining, etc. Men just love food, and are more simple about it.

    But the women in this imaginary society are naturally pickier with their food. And so, unless it's just the right food, eating something else is so putrid to them that they'd rather not eat at all. But when they do enjoy food, they enjoy it in a way that the men do not. They take in all the textures and flavors that the men don't. Men just like eating, women like experiencing all the sensual pleasures of the food and not just any food will satisfy. Their palettes are more refined, let's say. 

    So, this is essentially what the difference is. So, at that point you can ask the question of who is more sexual and ask the question. 

    So, who loves food more... Is it the person who will eat anything and just loves eating? Or is it the person who is more of a food connoisseur who has a more refined palette, that won't be particularly satisfied by a McDonald's cheeseburger?  

     

     

    Nice and rich explanation.

    Well, to be honest there are also cases where these two preferences blend. Some men prefer quality sex or else they'll prefer to work (I'm like that, I'm not interested in shallow sex), and some women are into quick random sexual activities.

    But it's generally true: a lot of men are into random-quality sex, and a lot of women want the sensual magic experience. So yeah, that might be the actual difference between men and women.

    Who's more interested in sex? I think both, in the end. 

    It's just a difference of perspective. But men's perspective on this topic is usually all about "women don't want to have a lot of quick and boring sex, so they are frigid."

    On the other hand I've heard a lot of female friends of mine lamenting that their bf is NOT interested in true sex, since he just wants to be a little bit stimulated and then wants to go play videogames alone (which is absolutely horrifying in my opinion O.o).

    To be honest, I've heard a lot of girls whining about "low quality sex" from their boyfriends.

    This should imply that girls generally like sex a lot, but at the same time are disgusted by mechanical and "distraction" sex.
    I have to agree with girls: it makes absolutely no sense to have sex just for the quick shallow stimulation.

    So yeah, if we adopt the perspective of quality sex, women are generally more sexual than men.