Emotionalmosquito

Is great sex available after death?

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19 hours ago, numbersinarow said:

Son, people don't tell you this, but getting laid is so cosmically difficult it's tough to describe. People have gone eons without any success at all and techniques like intention technique, visualization technique and mantras are pure scams that don't even have a chance of working. Looking up any forum related to sexual attraction immediately just gives me posts from people saying it feels impossible to stop failing to do it. The most effective technique in terms of success rate, which involves building your social skills and PUA courses, still has less than a coinflip's chance of working.

Fixed it for ya ;) 

19 hours ago, numbersinarow said:

(Parody of OP's posts, not serious.)

If any Gods are reading this, you have my full, 10 to the power 100000 permission to end this earthly existence right now and put me in the body of a superhuman entity who can ensure that emotionalmosquito is forced to live lifetimes of the most painful, 24/7 excruciating loneliness. His level of self-sabotage to have been given everything in life yet somehow failing to lose his virginity at age 30 is enough to make Christ and the Buddha facepalm simultaneously. Please please please please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look inside yourselves and think about the world you've created where some men are forced into loneliness while others get to have what he has.

I’m literally too stupid to understand your parody. I remember talking like that, but why did you say

“end this earthly existence right now and put me in the body of a superhuman entity who can ensure that emotionalmosquito is forced to live lifetimes of the most painful, 24/7 excruciating loneliness.”

But then, “Please please please please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look inside yourselves and think about the world you've created where some men are forced into loneliness while others get to have what he has.”

It sounds like you’re saying you want to put me through many more lifetimes of the same, then you say please think about this world someone has created where others get to have what I don’t?

I don’t know whether you were serious about my lack being due to self sabotage, but it absolutely isn’t. That’s just the way this current life has permanently solidified itself. I’d love for it not to be, but the fact of the matter is the only way I’ll ever get to taste abundance of good pussy is to get the fuck out of this shit show and create my own.

 

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7 hours ago, DJ Comaschi said:

Of course.

listen.

I don’t know why someone says:

“no actually when you die you don’t have an ego so you wouldn’t desire anything”

or

”actually you can’t do that, God has no will”

 

WHY NOT? WHERE’S THE SIGN SAYING “NO YOU CAN’T DO THAT”???

God has NO LIMIT. PERIOD.

if you say “you can’t” you’re automatically wrong.

-you can experience a “reality/illuson” (call it whatever you want) that when you die (physically) you’ll still have your ego.

And someone will say: ”but it’s impossible because death means-“ HUSH

Why not? Where is the limit? Why I can’t?

-or you CAN (because God (you) decides what to do) die (but not just physically) and you will have no ego, (I call that “state of truth”)

 

when you’ll die you’ll decide. Or maybe you’ll experience something that God (you) has premeditated, BUT, if it’s the case, you can “break” the pre-meditated experience and do what you want.

 

really the possibilities are literally infinite.

 

Reality it’s exactly like a dream. You can dream whatever you want without any limitations (like logic, math, physics)

You can “go” (because it’s all here) and experience a reality where you are a man who is… let’s say all powerful and you can do whether you want, and go experience all the other infinite possibilities of reality at your will. Why not?

and by infinite possibilities I mean all possible (and impossible, why not?) scenarios imaginable… and unimaginable (unimaginable by a human let’s say)

You can let’s say: F**k whoever you want you wish. And by “whoever” I mean it: you can go and visit an “anime world” and do what you want, literally. Why not? You can even go in the Pokemon universe and F**k a pokemon (chill chill it’s just an example for the “concept” of infinity, there a no law against pokemon, right?)

THERE ARE NO LIMITS, NO LOGIC NO MATH, NO PHYSICS, NO” GOD CAN’T”, NO “BUT THE EGO WILL X AND Y”. ZERO. PERIOD.

THINK ABOUT IT

God is so powerful that can create itself, why? BECAUSE THERE ARE NO LIMITS THAT PREVENT GOD FROM DOING THAT

remember this when someone says that something can’t be done by God: Why Not?

Bro I cannot thank you enough for this post. Thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart! That’s exactly what I’ve been wanting to hear this whole time. Most of the replies I’ve gotten so far have basically asked why I’m trying to die to get laid instead of just doing it here, and advice on how I might make that happen. Of course I appreciate all the help I can get, but that’s not why I’m here, that’s what the dating sub is for. Obviously I’m never getting all the hot pussy I want in this life, even Leo admitted it indirectly. He said you have to build elite social circles and do all this ridiculously challenging shit that’s not even slightly feasible for many of us in order to pull the hottest girls consistently. 

For some reason, I must have decided to come into this life for the experience of wanting something more than any human can possibly desire and being denied it despite my strongest determination to get it. Infinite thanks to you for helping me confirm that anything at all is possible once I’m out of the simulation. First thing I’m doing when I die is an exact rerun of this life, only next time, God mode and full retention of my former self and memory of this current life. Infinite speed, strength, intelligence, shapeshifting and teleportation, telekinesis, indestructibility, ability to turn my powers on and off at will + anything else I need. Once that gets boring I’m paying Elsa and Anna from Frozen a little visit.

The possibilities after death are absolutely infinite! There isn’t even close to any conceivable such thing as there being any kind of limit at all whatsoever.

My God I am so fucking excited I can’t contain it 🤩

 

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On 31/01/2024 at 3:15 PM, BlueOak said:

I wasn't even that lucky, I got one decent relationship with a sweet girl and I was happy with that till I blew it.

@BlueOak how did you blow it? 

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1 hour ago, QVx said:

@BlueOak how did you blow it? 

@QVx How I blew all my relationships, jobs, careers and opportunities in 20's and 30's. Everything is down to a relationship, or how we relate to that part of ourselves when we experience it.

One part depression. - Fight (Anger turned inward)
One part avoidance. - Flight
One part cowardice. - Freeze

Standard trauma responses.

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5 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Fixed it for ya ;) 

I mean, PUA has a far far worse chance than a coinflip's (when looking at a single try).

But I would agree getting laid is more difficult than getting lucid. There is at least some chance of a successful lucid dream if you avoid the scam techniques, although that is more easily said than done due to the countless bad guides on how to do it and almost zero ones free of utterly useless techniques. Getting laid is a whole different beast tho. You are COMPLETELY kept in the dark when it comes to it, told your entire life the female sex drive is 10x what it actually is, told that a 4'11 guy with a disabled voice has the same chance as a male model, told that cold approach won't lead to legal action or the girl thinking you are creepy, told that online dating isn't a flat 0/10 etc.

If I did find a truly functional lucid dreaming guide, I think I would be satisfied for 4~ more years of not having any opportunities to interact with a girl past high school.

Although I'm not sure, I might just use the lucid dreams to put myself in my exact high school life except the only way that girls flirt with me is casually hugging/kissing me effortlessly, or pretend like I have a power in the lucid dream that will change the real world so that the situation is no longer hopeless in terms of interacting with girls.

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After death not sure, but in Heaven there is no duality, no body, no thoughts, only abstract love, so no human sex. Yet, I’ve had many sexual-type experiences in Heaven. Like 10000x better ones, because they are not limited by human mind and body. I,ve had thousands of beautiful female legs in stocking surrounding me and giant perfect lips kissing me while also within a hyperbolic mandala of extremely beautiful light. and the bliss was mindblowing and deep. Also extremely gentle and caring. Anyway, so no sex in Heaven, but yes sex in heaven. 😁😁


T-20.IV.8:1-8 You may wonder how you can be at peace when, while you are in time, there is so much that must be done before the way to peace is open. Perhaps this seems impossible to you. But ask yourself if it is possible that God would have a plan for your salvation that does not work. Once you accept His plan as the one function that you would fulfill, there will be nothing else the Holy Spirit will not arrange for you without your effort.

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On 23.1.2024 at 1:08 PM, Someone here said:

Become a muslim.  In Islam ..After you die and go to paradise..you get to have eternal sex with gorgeous heavenly chicks with lovely eyes and full breasts ...that is of course if you are a committed muslim and you perform all the worship stuff.

I'm not joking or trolling . It's literally in the quran .

 


“We are most nearly ourselves when we achieve the seriousness of the child at play.” - Heraclitus

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On 3/30/2024 at 6:48 AM, numbersinarow said:

told your entire life the female sex drive is 10x what it actually is,

Thank you, that’s what I’ve been saying. Females are clearly nowhere even remotely close to as horny as we are, even though they say they’re the much hornier ones.

On 3/30/2024 at 6:48 AM, numbersinarow said:

told that cold approach won't lead to legal action or the girl thinking you are creepy

I made a thread on exactly that topic and it got locked for “spreading fear around dating”. It’s not spreading fear, it’s reality. If there are alligators in a river, it’s not fear mongering to warn people of that, it’s simply telling them there are alligators in there because that’s an extremely important thing to know.

Getting good at pulling girls is the single most agonizingly difficult challenge that the human organism can possibly attempt.

 

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On 3/25/2024 at 4:02 PM, RendHeaven said:

Some men don't need to do any work at all to feel like Gods (exceedingly rare. NOT you. NOT me.)

That’s one hell of a limiting belief if I’ve ever heard one. You might as well start telling people they’ll never reach enlightenment. You say life is about elevating and good vibes and having fun, but for most people those are only possible with a job????? Jobs are the polar opposite of fun unless you’re super lucky.

On 3/25/2024 at 4:02 PM, RendHeaven said:

Most men need to do some degree of work before they realize their Godliness. You are in this category.

The best I’ve ever felt in my life was when I was not working. The worst I’ve felt was when I was. The second worst I’ve ever felt is my current state. There’s no reason to think I will feel more confident just from wage cucking away at Starbucks or McDonald’s. When you’re working you have all these rules and restrictions you have to follow. Not working, you have the freedom to be as you are and express fully all the time. I don’t how being what amounts to a human tampon is supposed to help my self worth. I literally feel much better not working and not having money than facing the disrespect that those places are packed with, because I’ve been through it.

If nothing else, just answer the following: If money and feeling like a god is what I need, how do you explain Elliot Rodger’s inceldom? He had way more than enough money AND you can clearly see he felt like a God by watching his day of retribution video. 

Lastly, why do you keep saying my fucked up thoughts are coming from low iq? It’s no secret im not the sharpest, but saying fucked up thoughts are an indicator of that is retarded. Are the creators of South Park or people who make high quality, well produced horror movies low IQ?

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This thread doesn't seem to be very useful since 1. You will NEVER suicide. 2. You will NEVER lucid dream or will only have one unimpressive one in 2 years, the rest of your nights bringing disappointment and 3. You will not have sex.

What's the plan here?

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@numbersinarow The plan is to consistently achieve one of the two. Since God is all powerful, He should be able to make that happen pretty easily if He really does exist.

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13 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

@numbersinarow The plan is to consistently achieve one of the two. Since God is all powerful, He should be able to make that happen pretty easily if He really does exist.

A positive claim.

If you know enough to make such a claim, then surely you can explain why God hasn't already given you this?

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On 4/5/2024 at 4:29 AM, numbersinarow said:

A positive claim.

If you know enough to make such a claim, then surely you can explain why God hasn't already given you this?

I do not know. My best guess is either A) He likes to stroke himself off to the sight of our suffering caused by him not giving us our greatest desires in the universe when he very much has all the power to. Or B) Because I haven’t repeated my affirmation “I have a hot and open minded girlfriend” enough times.

If it’s A), I’d love nothing more than God to embody the entirety of itself into the daughter in this video so I can be the dad. 

At the risk of this getting me warning points. I don’t fucking care anymore. I’m done. I’m just honestly expressing how I feel. (Venting is allowed) I want the fullness of everything that God is to incarnate itself into a young teen girl so I can have the experience of being her dad mercilessly beating the absolute fucking tits off her while enjoying all of her little screams of distress as payback for not giving me the harem of super hotties I so rightfully deserve! And I want my audience to be every girl who has ever acted bitchy with me, ever rejected me or ever will

 

Man you sure are right about the pickup community constantly telling us bs. Owen just dropped a video about the importance of being an “unhinged idiot”

I have no words 

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On 4/4/2024 at 7:49 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

That’s one hell of a limiting belief if I’ve ever heard one.

Ok, show me your girls then. Where are they?

On 4/4/2024 at 7:49 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

Lastly, why do you keep saying my fucked up thoughts are coming from low iq?

I don't actually know what your real iq is, of course.

Just most of what you say is unintelligent.


It's Love.

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On 4/9/2024 at 1:40 PM, RendHeaven said:

Ok, show me your girls then. Where are they?

Show me your full blown spiritual enlightenment and 30 million dollars. Where are they? 

Why the hell do you think that someone  calling something a limiting belief means they have to have the thing that the limiting belief is preventing? What kind of logic is that? Other people get girlfriends without jobs sometimes. If they can, I can. To think I can’t get hot girls without working because I’m not “that guy” is one hell of a limiting belief. If they can, I want to as well.  And you’re saying I’m the unintelligent one 🤨

You also say my fucked up thoughts are just a coping mechanism and not authentic? How do you have the audacity to say something I ENJOY DOING is not authentic? That’s the main ongoing problem here that I need to make a new thread about on the main board. People keep parroting be yourself and be authentic then when someone like me actually does it they shift the goal post by saying I wasn’t doing it in the right way or some bullshit like that 

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@Emotionalmosquito what exactly, precisely, actually etc..stopping you from having sex in this life instead of offloading it to the afterlife? 

You can literally just get a job ..make some cash..travel around the globe..go to a house of prostitution and fuck bitches. 

Dude .use common sense .


"life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived "

-Osho

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On 5/17/2024 at 9:34 AM, Someone here said:

@Emotionalmosquito what exactly, precisely, actually etc..stopping you from having sex in this life instead of offloading it to the afterlife? 

You can literally just get a job ..make some cash..travel around the globe..go to a house of prostitution and fuck bitches. 

Dude .use common sense .

He can get a low paying painful tedious job, eventually make enough cash, travel far far away to a country in which he doesn't speak the language and then after the hassle of going to a prositution house have awkward sex with a prostitute.

You know what's better than that? A world where girls treat guys equally or at least give them equality of opportunity, and one where, if degenerates and unappealing guys get kissed/hugged without having to say a word, it also happens to men who actually deserve it.

Dude .use common sense .

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On 5/16/2024 at 10:40 PM, Emotionalmosquito said:

Show me your full blown spiritual enlightenment and 30 million dollars. Where are they? 

I never made a claim on what is and is not possible regarding spiritual enlightenment or moneymaking, so your point is moot.

You on the other hand, are claiming to know exactly what is and is not required to get women, despite what anybody else with more experience says, you insist that getting women is "an impossible challenge" because of xyz irrelevant factors. You call my advice to tangibly grow yourself in the real world through labor a "limiting belief" despite having less experience, less success, less knowledge.

So again, where are your girls? If you have none, then shut up and listen to people who know better instead of defending your ego online.

On 5/16/2024 at 10:40 PM, Emotionalmosquito said:

To think I can’t get hot girls without working because I’m not “that guy” is one hell of a limiting belief.

You're unwilling to change, you only think about yourself. That's fundamentally unattractive.

These unemployed guys banging hot girls have an essential character trait that you lack. They are hyper-adaptive, extremely sensitive to social calibration, and actually fun to be around.

The only way for you to compete with that is to grow yourself through labor. If not literal labor, then at the bare minimum, emotional labor. But of course you won't do that, so you can continue to complain on here and insist that I'm wrong and that you're right.

Well then, I'll patiently be waiting here for a picture of you and your "hot girlfriend."

On 5/16/2024 at 10:40 PM, Emotionalmosquito said:

when someone like me actually does it they shift the goal post by saying I wasn’t doing it in the right way

I was destructive and immature as a 10 year old. Now I no longer am. So clearly that wasn't my authentic self.

If you are still destructive and immature at your age, and you actually think that's your "authentic self", that just shows you're still a child.

 


It's Love.

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On 5/27/2024 at 6:05 PM, RendHeaven said:

 

 

I think you yourself are doing a good job of following the advice in that video, considering Leo can't admit to being wrong on one single thing besides vague descriptions of his previous attitudes.

On 5/27/2024 at 6:05 PM, RendHeaven said:

So again, where are your girls? If you have none, then shut up and listen

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_accomplishment

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A chad might be getting all the chicks and not care at all, no appreciation, you might have been him already and not cared. The only reason you care as much as you do is because you're subconsciously creating a massive separation internally. And that separation is so painful that you don't have the power to go after it externally. If you didn't care, there'd be no problem, but you want to care, you create a state of mind where getting it would lead to massive ecstasy exactly because of your lack, but that lack makes your life so miserable that taking action becomes excruciatingly difficult. You create a fantasy that is amazing but because it's so amazing your life sucks compared to it and because it sucks so much, you don't have the energy to go after it, but since you believe in its reality and objectiveness so much, you reinforce your separation from happiness and deprive yourself of willpower, intellect and determination as a result of your scarcity mindset stemming from your separation from joy and peace, counterintuitively reducing your chances of fulfilling that fantasy but also unnecessarily making yourself miserable too.

We are not entitled to anything and only have control over our state of mind which materializes external actions 

There are multiple ways this can go down:

1. You keep complaining and waste your life being miserable, relying on the uncertainty of death to fulfill your desire.

  • 1.1 Your desire isn't fulfilled, it simply ceases to exist as you lose the personality and lack that propels you to want it.
  • 1.2 Your desire is instantly fulfilled without the dream scenario manifesting and you feel great but disappointed.
  • 1.3 Having built up so much negative energy of lack, the bliss of having getting your dream scenario is immeasurable.
  • 1.4 You have the power to fulfil your desires but would have to simultaneously become the girls you have sex with.
  • 1.5 You get what you want, are happy forever, but would have preferred to have lived your life happily until then.

2. You get sex and feel worse because it feels great but you can't have it 24/7 and you suffer every second you don't get it.

  • 2.1 You become reckless, do something stupid and end up in jail, unable to have sex and suffering forever.
  • 2.2 You get a girlfriend who is as much a sex-addict as you and try to figure out how you two can live that life 24/7.
  • 2.3 You find a way to get money and spend it on hookers every night, hating your life outside of that time.
  • 2.4 Your life falls apart as your feeling of disconnection increases exponentially and your mental state declines.
  • 2.5 You live as you always had, now knowing how to get casual sex but always relying on it for being happy.

3. You get sex, fulfill your desire and no longer care and now have to face the nihilistic void of losing your sole life purpose.

  • 3.1 You enter a "Dark Night of the Soul", become depressed for a few months and eventually come out transformed.
  • 3.2 The immeasurable disappointment makes you end your life but have nothing to look forward to in the afterlife.
  • 3.3 You discover the limitation of sex but still feel a craving for love that makes you fall into another trap like romance.
  • 3.4 You discover that sex is merely a small part of a loving relationship and become a better more caring person.
  • 3.5 You question whether you experienced it all and get into all kinds of kinks, but these lead to the same conclusions. 

4. You get your life together, so much so that you can enjoy sex regularly without it messing up your mood and self-worth.

  • 4.1 You live a good life with either casual or stable relationships like most other people and are content with that.
  • 4.2 You become disillusioned with the transformation being so easy and unconsciously self-sabotage your current life.
  • 4.3 You live a normal stable life for a while and enjoy it but eventually bore of it and end up with the same compulsions.
  • 4.4 You have a family and kids, the sex life with your with is satisfying but you find a greater purpose beyond it you love.
  • 4.5 You start enjoying hobbies, activities, friends, create a job you find value in and slowly gravitate away from the sex.

5. You self-actualize to get to the source of the desire and integrate that lack, being at peace with yourself and not need it.

  • 5.1 You discover your need comes from deep childhood trauma and process that pain that then dissolves the desire.
  • 5.2 Your realize your desire is not actually your own, but merely a reflection of the culture and become disillusioned.
  • 5.3 Your desire is valid but overblown, you can appreciate sex but don't rely on it and get it because of that mindset.
  • 5.4 The desire might be past karma from another life and realizing that you create distance and are less attached.
  • 5.5 A disconnection from your feminine/female side manifests external sexual desire, so you get in tune with that. 

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