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What does it mean to you to be 'good with women'?

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It's not about being good with women, it's about whether or not women are naturally attracted to you. There are a small percentage of men women naturally gravitate to, they are not gentle, kind, enlightened, virtuous trauma free angels that men are told to become. Then the rest of us either totally invisible or needing some kind of hook whether that be status, wealth etc for women to tolerate us. Since women have had an unprecedented increase in financial and social freedom they no longer need to deal with the undesirables, so we see this growing chasm between the have's and the have nots among men. 

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1 hour ago, Tenebroso said:

It's not about being good with women, it's about whether or not women are naturally attracted to you. There are a small percentage of men women naturally gravitate to, they are not gentle, kind, enlightened, virtuous trauma free angels that men are told to become. Then the rest of us either totally invisible or needing some kind of hook whether that be status, wealth etc for women to tolerate us. Since women have had an unprecedented increase in financial and social freedom they no longer need to deal with the undesirables, so we see this growing chasm between the have's and the have nots among men. 

Women will gravitate toward certain men but they rarely if ever approach men. So a big factor and where men can improve how food they are is simply getting comfortable approaching, this doesn't necessarily have to be complete cold approaching, it could be someone who goes to the places as you or friend of a friend, but point is men have to take action to even be in the running. This is just not happening now mainly because we look for easier routes so we don't have to go through rejection. 

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39 minutes ago, Consept said:

This is good advice on how to talk to women 

 

 

Craig Ferguson is brilliant :D the guy is an absolute genius when it comes to flirting

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@Consept

this is how its done ?

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Who teaches us whats real and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend?Who chain us? And who holds the Key that can set us free? 

It's you.

You have all the weapons you need 

Now fight.

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Be very good at sensing implicit signals. They don’t have to be logically correct.. in fact, that would defeat the purpose and the magic of the relationship. 

Also notice when you’re manipulating or forcing your logic over her implicit signals. It will backfire.


“I once tried to explain existential dread to my toaster, but it just popped up and said, "Same."“ -Gemini AI

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